Anyone has godbrother or godsister?
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Hey, thanksOriginally posted by wuming78:i wasnt expecting u to answer actualli.
for 6, yes u may be occupied, but r u happily so? do u find meaning in wat u do?
my point is the same as wat i mentioned last time lor... i seriously think u haf deeper needs and wants, something tt is empty there. and u may think of having a godbrother will solve it - but will it?
why do u wan a godbrother?
when did u start thinking of having one?
wat do u hope to achieve with a godbrother (ok lah tis sounds abit like.. erm.. heartless)?
u dont haf to ans them here lah. once again its for ur consumption.
o cos this is jus my guess, frm reading ur posts. the truth mabbe tt u reallli jus wan a godbrother, period.
wat im counselling is for u to find out for urself if tt is the root of ur tots.
I dont mind sharing with you coz I i find you rather receptive.
Anyway, I chose my school (SIM) and career (MLM) after devoting much studies in to them. For maybe the first time in my life, I really grasp what I want, argue within my head what i want and what I want to achieve. And this process of thinking came into my life few months ago only. And to back this up, I dont want to jump into things like what I did last times, so I do my own research. I could go Australia, why SIM, I could be a banker, why chose MLM. I actually sat at my neighbourhood playground and wrote out my reasons. Not only these two factors, but other I have considered..
Well when would I have godbro? Let nature takes it course.
Why I wanted one? Urm, if you been tracking my posts everywhere, something happened to me few months back which suddenly made me want to have godbro. Two reasons. Felt that I do cherish friendship a lot. Friendship I realise is very important but yet never understand its meaning until few months ago. I do want to bring this friendship closer with someone. And you are right in one part, that one half of my emptiness is companionship, close one, which I found lacking in my life. Hey having gerfren is very diff from having godbro. In many aspects
Second half of my emptiness, is actually what I wanted to achieve something in life. Somewhere in Neontetra thread on prayers, I wrote about charity. My main frustrations is not having money or otherwise to help people in need. Haha, may sound idealistic or freaky, just my feelings only.
Anyway thanks for your counselling.
Send me a detailed invoice for your couselling fees....hehehee joking -
dun worry. i charge ppl in kind.Originally posted by laurence82:Well when would I have godbro? Let nature takes it course.
Why I wanted one? Urm, if you been tracking my posts everywhere, something happened to me few months back which suddenly made me want to have godbro. Two reasons. Felt that I do cherish friendship a lot. Friendship I realise is very important but yet never understand its meaning until few months ago. I do want to bring this friendship closer with someone. And you are right in one part, that one half of my emptiness is companionship, close one, which I found lacking in my life. Hey having gerfren is very diff from having godbro. In many aspects
Second half of my emptiness, is actually what I wanted to achieve something in life. Somewhere in Neontetra thread on prayers, I wrote about charity. My main frustrations is not having money or otherwise to help people in need. Haha, may sound idealistic or freaky, just my feelings only.
Anyway thanks for your counselling.
Send me a detailed invoice for your couselling fees....hehehee joking
its good tt u noe wat u wan, and u r on the way to achieveing it.
and o cos i understand tt bgr is diff frm frenship. haha..
well... how is ur frenship wif ur frens now? wats lacking in them? and y not develop them further? y do u wan to noe another new person to become ur godbrother? and y do u need him to be a godbrother - y not jus a very good fren? is the name, the title so impt? wat does the title mean to u, or wat do u wan it to mean to others ard u? wat do u expect ur godbrother to do, tt ur frens canot accomplish? r u expecting too much out of a relation - such tt u may never find it, and hence u may never find a godbrother or a v good fren at tt?
oh and theres absolutely nothing wrong wif wanting to help ppl. and mind u there r ALOT of ways of helping ppl other than dishing out cash. tt is one of my laments - tt singaporean charities do so well tt singaporeans only noe of using money to help, when they can achieve more by volunteering and do other social work! and tt is wat u can do too. it only takes some time and commitment, and absolutely no money. and o cos it requires a truthful heart.
u seem like someone who lives on passion and would do things for wat u believe. but u seem to be slightly hesitant. understand wat u wan to achieve in life, and put ur energies into it. u wont regret it... and soon other things in ur life will fall into place...
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Let me think this over tonight....and also whether to sell my butt at Desker to pay for your consultation fees. You sound like professional, so fees must be high......heheOriginally posted by wuming78:dun worry. i charge ppl in kind.
its good tt u noe wat u wan, and u r on the way to achieveing it.
and o cos i understand tt bgr is diff frm frenship. haha..
well... how is ur frenship wif ur frens now? wats lacking in them? and y not develop them further? y do u wan to noe another new person to become ur godbrother? and y do u need him to be a godbrother - y not jus a very good fren? is the name, the title so impt? wat does the title mean to u, or wat do u wan it to mean to others ard u? wat do u expect ur godbrother to do, tt ur frens canot accomplish? r u expecting too much out of a relation - such tt u may never find it, and hence u may never find a godbrother or a v good fren at tt?
oh and theres absolutely nothing wrong wif wanting to help ppl. and mind u there r ALOT of ways of helping ppl other than dishing out cash. tt is one of my laments - tt singaporean charities do so well tt singaporeans only noe of using money to help, when they can achieve more by volunteering and do other social work! and tt is wat u can do too. it only takes some time and commitment, and absolutely no money. and o cos it requires a truthful heart.
u seem like someone who lives on passion and would do things for wat u believe. but u seem to be slightly hesitant. understand wat u wan to achieve in life, and put ur energies into it. u wont regret it... and soon other things in ur life will fall into place... -
Originally posted by laurence82:Let me think this over tonight....and also whether to sell my butt at Desker to pay for your consultation fees. You sound like professional, so fees must be high......hehe
pls dun. i dun wan to be accused of bi liang wei cang. 