Will you still keep?

• Ric_Ong

  29 Nov 03, 12:06

  Will you still keep your bf/gf/ex-wife/ex-husband's items/presents to you even after the relationship has ended? If yes, looking through all those items and previous love notes, won't it bring greater sorrow and memories?
• thhong22

  29 Nov 03, 12:41

  i'm still wearing the ring my ex-bf give me....
  so wat...??? sweet memories r to b kept....
  anyway it wont affect anything wat???
• FireIce

  29 Nov 03, 12:45

  i will keep....but i wun let them affect my next rship.....
• Imperfect

  29 Nov 03, 12:49

  they are still with me but not affecting me in a negative manner...
• Devil1976

  29 Nov 03, 13:28

  Originally posted by Ric_Ong:

  Will you still keep your bf/gf/ex-wife/ex-husband's items/presents to you even after the relationship has ended? If yes, looking through all those items and previous love notes, won't it bring greater sorrow and memories?

  Yes if I find its worth? Maybe it'll bring back some sorrow and memories... But some things are meant to be reminded from time to time? Anyway... I'm also not feeling much liao...?
• Ric_Ong

  29 Nov 03, 13:43

  Hmm...I'm glad I kept mine too... But maybe mine are still 'fresh', that's why I still feel the sorrow. And ya, it's sometimes worthwhile to be remineded of those memories as long as those are happy moments.
  
  I believe past memories can never be deleted totally and will remain in a secret chamber of our hearts even if time has healed all wounds and another new companion has emerged in our lives.
• heartbroken07

  29 Nov 03, 14:57

  yeah.. still keeping... still fresh too... brings sorrow, much sorrow... even wonder if she still keep the things I gave to her... since I never saw things that was given to her by her ex bf when we were still together. but I'll keep and treasure the things that she gave to me.
• jOhO

  29 Nov 03, 15:11

  yeah i just gotta search real hard to find them...
• MooKu

  29 Nov 03, 15:36

  I keep.. because I can't bear to dump them. They may make me sad, but after all, they also remind me of beautiful memories...
  
  Just keep in a box and stash it somewhere not-so-obvious lor.
• the Bear

  29 Nov 03, 15:42

  talking about this, how does one remove the picture from a mobile phone.. you know, the one that is in the place of things like M1-SGP or Singtel-SGP?
  
  it's not appropriate for me to have that logo anymore on my N8250.. and i do not know how to remove it
• damz83

  29 Nov 03, 16:13

  yah lor.. the memories that those items bring back should be sweet memories mah. Should keep... should keep!!!
• X-men

  29 Nov 03, 16:32

  I throw away some toiletries recently....
  
  still love the clothes she bought and wear them....
  
  It brings sweet memories....
• huy

  29 Nov 03, 22:06

  Originally posted by Ric_Ong:

  Will you still keep your bf/gf/ex-wife/ex-husband's items/presents to you even after the relationship has ended? If yes, looking through all those items and previous love notes, won't it bring greater sorrow and memories?

  depends..if he's the one whu let me down, i won;t keep and i wil burn all his photos and the gifts he give..
• Yunhaier

  30 Nov 03, 02:27

  Originally posted by Ric_Ong:

  Will you still keep your bf/gf/ex-wife/ex-husband's items/presents to you even after the relationship has ended? If yes, looking through all those items and previous love notes, won't it bring greater sorrow and memories?

  Be it good or a bad relationship, I keep everything. (Includes friendship) Yet, I won't put in a place I will be reminded everytime. Once every now and then, I will check them out. It serve as lessons, reminders, memories, signs and signal of the things that happened/took place. I have long memories for people who made good impact in my life.
  
  Cheers
• Ric_Ong

  30 Nov 03, 03:52

  Originally posted by Devil1976:

  Yes if I find its worth? Maybe it'll bring back some sorrow and memories... But some things are meant to be reminded from time to time? Anyway... I'm also not feeling much liao...?

  Hmm..well said.
• boy in blues

  30 Nov 03, 06:37

  Originally posted by Ric_Ong:

  Will you still keep your bf/gf/ex-wife/ex-husband's items/presents to you even after the relationship has ended? If yes, looking through all those items and previous love notes, won't it bring greater sorrow and memories?

  whether i keep or don't keep. the memories are still there.
• shan_cai

  30 Nov 03, 11:14

  Originally posted by Ric_Ong:

  Will you still keep your bf/gf/ex-wife/ex-husband's items/presents to you even after the relationship has ended? If yes, looking through all those items and previous love notes, won't it bring greater sorrow and memories?

  I'll still keep loh... Althou those r/s r over, e items r stil part of my once beautiful memories... Im a sentimental ger, i wont bear 2 throw them away lah. Greater sorrow n sad memories? No~ 4 my past r/s, i stil keep in contact wif my ex-es... In fact we became better frenz now.
  
  But if u wanna say abt my current bf, if (*touch wood!!!*) he were 2 leave mi 1 day, i definitely wont throw all e stuff related 2 him. Maybe i love him too deeply, if tat were 2 happen 1 day, i'll b v hurt. when i c things related 2 him or go 2 places associated 2 him, or even juz sit down n tink of him, i'll stil b v sad n wil b in deeper sorrow by den...
• Devil1976

  30 Nov 03, 17:21

  Originally posted by the Bear:

  talking about this, how does one remove the picture from a mobile phone.. you know, the one that is in the place of things like M1-SGP or Singtel-SGP?
  
  it's not appropriate for me to have that logo anymore on my N8250.. and i do not know how to remove it

  You can replace the operator logo with a NEW one... Also, some HP models actually gives you the option of either you wanna have your operator logo on design.... Check out the functions of your HP if you're not too sure?
• WrX_STi

  1 Dec 03, 10:08

  keep of course.. leave it as memories rather den bad sorrows.. depends on one's view..
• the Bear

  1 Dec 03, 10:13

  i don't want a new one.. just want to delete it
  
  anyway, i lost my manual long ago
  
  

  Originally posted by Devil1976:

  You can replace the operator logo with a NEW one... Also, some HP models actually gives you the option of either you wanna have your operator logo on design.... Check out the functions of your HP if you're not too sure?

• Devil1976

  1 Dec 03, 12:51

  Originally posted by the Bear:

  i don't want a new one.. just want to delete it
  
  anyway, i lost my manual long ago
  
  

  Alas... Some service providers do give you the option of 'just deleting it off'.... <- But think you'll still have to pay for that too? I've came across 'Nokia codes' (where you key in some # signs and numbers?) which allows you to do that if I don't recall wrongly? STILL... The EASIEST way out is get a NEW one to replace it...? Oh ya! I know liao.. Are you using a Nokia phone? If you are you can TRY this... (still have to pay for it...) Go to any Nokia Service Machines (the ones which you can select games, ring tones or graphics to download) which are usually situated at Nokia shops.... There's an option where you can CREATE your own Operator Logo.... Just enter a 'BLANK' one and send it to your HP? Think that should work?
• Churra

  1 Dec 03, 13:31

  Yes, i keep all of them. Will not be sad looking at them, will only be happy and it brings back sweet memories.
• rovguy

  1 Dec 03, 15:10

  i still keep the birthday card my ex girl give me..until now..
• M©+square

  1 Dec 03, 15:21

  Originally posted by Churra:

  Yes, i keep all of them. Will not be sad looking at them, will only be happy and it brings back sweet memories.

  Yap!
• sgboy2004

  1 Dec 03, 15:29

  Originally posted by Ric_Ong:

  Will you still keep your bf/gf/ex-wife/ex-husband's items/presents to you even after the relationship has ended? If yes, looking through all those items and previous love notes, won't it bring greater sorrow and memories?

  I kept her hair...wait i go find bomob and then can use her hair to do voodoo on her....