Will you still keep?
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sure. i keep the praying mat he gave me and even use it everyday (except period time).
i keep everything from my ex. 'cos they're worth and i like 'em.
fortunatelly, i dun give a damn care about the memories or wadsoever. it's over and i'm glad. -
I keep all of them....it brings back sweet memories..the silly little things u do for each otherOriginally posted by Ric_Ong:Will you still keep your bf/gf/ex-wife/ex-husband's items/presents to you even after the relationship has ended? If yes, looking through all those items and previous love notes, won't it bring greater sorrow and memories?
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yea i kept most of the things i still have in my possession, all neatly kept in a metal box. i've opened the box a couple of times and the stuff inside do bring out the tears. but at the same time, am glad that we had a chance to share those beautiful moments together, though not everlasting..
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Dun worry / be bothered wat is past, look forward the future
Dun spend too much time on these thoughts. Instead spend time to plan for and work towards your future goal ...
keke actually cut-n-paste from another thread
Maybe at most keep one or two of the most memorable item; usually photo la. The rest should be thrown or donated for charity ... -
I will keep the necesarry gift, but the love letter n everything, i will keep it in a box n put it at a very corner of my cupboard that i seldom open. Then maybe if the feeling is more stable, maybe just throw away the necessary stuff loh. hahahaha.... i did it cos im gg further study n scared my parents will find out. Hahahaha.....Originally posted by Ric_Ong:Will you still keep your bf/gf/ex-wife/ex-husband's items/presents to you even after the relationship has ended? If yes, looking through all those items and previous love notes, won't it bring greater sorrow and memories? 
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i will keep, if not i might regret, until a time i feel that i can throw, then i throw. memories kept at heart are better, thats how i feel. cuz like that, nobody can snatch from u.
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if the relationship ended badly, i'll probably throw his stuffs away...otherwise might decide
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ya.. will keep the stuff that has sentimental value even if it brings back memories.
treasure the past, look to the future (what my ex-hsemate advised when i broke up with ex
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i cant bear to throw away anything...
have kept everything my ex gave me...
the clothes to accessories...
from photos to tickets stubs...
brings back both happi and sad memories...
tried to throw away a few times...
but end up pickin them back from the bin...
maybe still cant forget her...
though its like so long liao...
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keep everyting leh.....even the present wrapper i aso tear nicely & wrap nicely back...presented in my cardboard... bday gifts or xmas gifts, cards, new yr cards...hongbao with money in hongbao...etc..
...last time pri sch v DAMN GongKIa...fren go overseas come back buy me chocolate, i wash n keep the chocolate wrapper...in the end...wrapper chu pattern...design..(ants bite bite)
bt although i keep all, some small items still i dn remember where....canot find yrs ago stuff... -
well i kept everything i can, including that bottle of Qoo which she last drank, the jam&butter she bought, the noodles... i specifically instructed everyone not to throw them away. and well, this may sound really psychotic and crazy, but i still have 2 strands of her hair, kept inside a box along with some other stuff. how do i know its hers? cos i do. who else knows the texture of her hair as well as me?(maybe her current bf too).
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y not
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well i never dared to tell anyone about keeping the hair thing.. people might think i may go do some voodoo, or i'm just plain psychotic.
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her smell...her memories..her cards...her everything
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everything, everything, everything. sometimes really wish time will REALLY turn back.. tat's impossible, and what's gone, is gone. sigh..
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I dun think your actions are psychotic. In fact, I think it's v romantic of u. We can't just erase memories like computer....dump the file into the thrash bin...and empty...and tata!Originally posted by AaLviNn:well i kept everything i can, including that bottle of Qoo which she last drank, the jam&butter she bought, the noodles... i specifically instructed everyone not to throw them away. and well, this may sound really psychotic and crazy, but i still have 2 strands of her hair, kept inside a box along with some other stuff. how do i know its hers? cos i do. who else knows the texture of her hair as well as me?(maybe her current bf too).
Nope..we cant do that. When I was studying, I had a photographic brain..whereby I can easily remember and memorise...used to be proud of it. But now, it has been used to turn back against me. I kept many things from her....but memory ability enables me to remember even those 'normal' moments wif her...from start of relationship till end...i can remember most events.. it can often brings me back sorrow. After 4mths, still shed manly tears at times..but able to control emotions better....however gotta admit that since she left, not a single day am I 'really' happy.. -
yea.. same goes for me. but i'm sure they'll want us to get over them soon, and return to our old selves. only that its not as easy as they think. oh well. its the new year.Originally posted by Ric_Ong:I dun think your actions are psychotic. In fact, I think it's v romantic of u. We can't just erase memories like computer....dump the file into the thrash bin...and empty...and tata!
Nope..we cant do that. When I was studying, I had a photographic brain..whereby I can easily remember and memorise...used to be proud of it. But now, it has been used to turn back against me. I kept many things from her....but memory ability enables me to remember even those 'normal' moments wif her...from start of relationship till end...i can remember most events.. it can often brings me back sorrow. After 4mths, still shed manly tears at times..but able to control emotions better....however gotta admit that since she left, not a single day am I 'really' happy..