Marry someone with 6 yr old daughter?
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this girl A due to shotgun at 15 yrs old marry B and give birth to her daughter D. after she give birth not long, A and B divorce.
now her D is 6 yrs old & along the years A found a guy G who loves her and wana marry her but due matters of face, he has gave her one condition.
that is to leave her daughter..her daughter will leave under A's parents care & change status, & register to be A's sister instead of daughter.
If you are A , will you forsake your daughter & go ahead marry G?
if you are a guy, will you marry a divorced lady with a 6 yr old daughter? -
if the man cant accept the daughter..how much u think he'll love her???
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yes, thats wat i thought also. jus wana hear all ur views..Originally posted by NeonTetra:if the man cant accept the daughter..how much u think he'll love her??? -
since when was love ever conditional?
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buy one get one free???
i think single parents shd be given a chance..... -
want face....aiyah...then he is ashame of her with a daughter and tt explains all.Originally posted by the Bear:since when was love ever conditional? -
x 2Originally posted by NeonTetra:if the man cant accept the daughter..how much u think he'll love her???
if he reali loves her... he shld accept her as a divorcee n accept her daughter as well -
and to tell her to leave a daughter is an inhuman thing to be utteredOriginally posted by thhong22:x 2
if he reali loves her... he shld accept her as a divorcee n accept her daughter as well -
yah loh..... how can he seperate a mother n daughterOriginally posted by NeonTetra:and to tell her to leave a daughter is an inhuman thing to be uttered
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in the end A choose to be with D, rejecting G offer as she realises that D is most important to her than anyone else.
end up till nw A's mother kpkb saying that she is divorced & somemore with a kid, should be happy that someone wants her & should have chosen G offer.
bt anyway i support A decision of being with D. Imagine when child has a bad childhood & grows up & know what her mother is like & A is sure to regret. Somemore, i think A wont have the heart to forsake her daughter..she work on her own... doesnt care hw ppl call her as single parent...supporting her own daughter.... -
jus wana hear all ur views & hw ppl are thinking nwadays.
thanks for your comments & replies
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motherly love is always very wei da oneOriginally posted by Ah Ma:in the end A choose to be with D, rejecting G offer as she realises that D is most important to her than anyone else.
end up till nw A's mother kpkb saying that she is divorced & somemore with a kid, should be happy that someone wants her & should have chosen G offer.
bt anyway i support A decision of being with D. Imagine when child has a bad childhood & grows up & know what her mother is like & A is sure to regret. Somemore, i think A wont have the heart to forsake her daughter..she work on her own... doesnt care hw ppl call her as single parent...supporting her own daughter.... -
A's mother should be slapped..
A seems to be a better mother than A's mother...Originally posted by Ah Ma:in the end A choose to be with D, rejecting G offer as she realises that D is most important to her than anyone else.
end up till nw A's mother kpkb saying that she is divorced & somemore with a kid, should be happy that someone wants her & should have chosen G offer.
bt anyway i support A decision of being with D. Imagine when child has a bad childhood & grows up & know what her mother is like & A is sure to regret. Somemore, i think A wont have the heart to forsake her daughter..she work on her own... doesnt care hw ppl call her as single parent...supporting her own daughter.... -
A should keep daughter, dump the jerk G... blood is thicker than water...
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sometimes.. sometimes...
sometimes it become stifling when a mother does not know when to let goOriginally posted by thhong22:motherly love is always very wei da one -
A made a good choice
i wouldn't want to grow up and find out that my parent left me so to be with another man.. -
huh? don understandOriginally posted by the Bear:sometimes.. sometimes...
sometimes it become stifling when a mother does not know when to let go -
hahaha.. too cheemz...Originally posted by thhong22:huh? don understand -
yah loh.... my eng is half bucket nia lehOriginally posted by audlenelee:hahaha.. too cheemz... -
It's always easier to just say, but when it comes to crunch time how many ppl can safely say they can leave the man for the sake of the daughter?
the two adults probably have so much emotional attachment to each other that it will hurt her no matter what her choices are.
I think instead of choosing who to give up. She should focus on reaching a mutual consensus where nobody is given up for anybody. -
bear is just saying.. sometimes parents make too many decisions for their children 'out of love'... but they fail to see that for a child to grow, he has learn how to stand on his own and make his own decision..Originally posted by thhong22:huh? don understand -
A made the right choice... Sad that she met such a jerk...
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So wat is "A's" decision?
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Will u separate them? -
I dono hw old people are thinking nwadays...stick to their own method.. . i support A anyway this is a real story. bt sometimes old ppl nv consider much leh..oni want to make the daughter marry n tats it..