Love relationships - the best friend thingy
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Hai hai! BUT all these r BLANK tok (tok kok?) coz I never had dis situation B4... Muah ha ha ha haOriginally posted by Devil1976:I used to hold that form of mentality? Like, take your example? 1 out of 3 points is 'governed' by you... And point 2 somehow there MIGHT be something you can do about it... No hard and fast rules here... You DO have a part to play in the whole picture.. It's not about BLAMING. It's about getting things 'right' and getting things done... Especially for your loved one and the relationship?
So... in any case be happie.
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getting things 'right'?? how?? hmm.. ???Originally posted by Devil1976:I used to hold that form of mentality? Like, take your example? 1 out of 3 points is 'governed' by you... And point 2 somehow there MIGHT be something you can do about it... No hard and fast rules here... You DO have a part to play in the whole picture.. It's not about BLAMING. It's about getting things 'right' and getting things done... Especially for your loved one and the relationship? -
By whatever means appropriate? I just disagree with Loneryu that one should take things just it is always, merely stating that all's to be blamed and just let it be... Sometimes (like the case I'd mentioned much earlier) things could be done... But of course, it would also means knowing when to let go....Originally posted by Coco_Coco:getting things 'right'?? how?? hmm.. ??? -
I agree wif Dev too. But I dun disagree wif LoneRyu here. Every1 have their own waes of seeing things. No matter how its done or handled, as long as U learn from it can liao. How to hold, how to let go. How to move forward, how to back track... Its all in experience here.Originally posted by Devil1976:By whatever means appropriate? I just disagree with Loneryu that one should take things just it is always, merely stating that all's to be blamed and just let it be... Sometimes (like the case I'd mentioned much earlier) things could be done... But of course, it would also means knowing when to let go.... -
Hmm... Well said. No hard and fast rules...Originally posted by Bontakun:I agree wif Dev too. But I dun disagree wif LoneRyu here. Every1 have their own waes of seeing things. No matter how its done or handled, as long as U learn from it can liao. How to hold, how to let go. How to move forward, how to back track... Its all in experience here. -
Haha! Oei... until now U still haven tell me yr "real" name... only got yr contact... No change rite...? Dun worry... some dae I WILL find out yr "real" name... muah ha ha ha haOriginally posted by Devil1976:Hmm... Well said. No hard and fast rules...
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letting go? it isn't easy....Originally posted by Devil1976:By whatever means appropriate? I just disagree with Loneryu that one should take things just it is always, merely stating that all's to be blamed and just let it be... Sometimes (like the case I'd mentioned much earlier) things could be done... But of course, it would also means knowing when to let go.... -
You have my contact no.?Originally posted by Bontakun:Haha! Oei... until now U still haven tell me yr "real" name... only got yr contact... No change rite...? Dun worry... some dae I WILL find out yr "real" name... muah ha ha ha ha 
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Like I've always said... For a normal individual? It's never an easy thing... Doesn't mean it's impossible? Doesn't mean you don't have to do it when it's necessary....?Originally posted by Coco_Coco:letting go? it isn't easy.... -
Yesh... U gave me 1 wat... U oso smsed mee... U said I call U by Dev can liao... we met 3 times liao... last time we met we play pool wat... wif wendy... remember?Originally posted by Devil1976:You have my contact no.? 
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YA... SO my guess is CORRECT...Originally posted by Bontakun:Yesh... U gave me 1 wat... U oso smsed mee... U said I call U by Dev can liao... we met 3 times liao... last time we met we play pool wat... wif wendy... remember? Just STRANGE why you're posting in here...? Hehhehheh... -
Muah ha ha ha ha ha!!!Originally posted by Devil1976:YA... SO my guess is CORRECT... Just STRANGE why you're posting in here...? Hehhehheh...
So wats new?
FUMO! >__< -
Nay... Nothing much... TOO BUSY and OCCUPIED lately... And THINGS AWAITS me....Originally posted by Bontakun:Muah ha ha ha ha ha!!!
So wats new?
FUMO! >__< -
hmm...i heard it from somewhere is that since the gers are best fren they probably share a somewhat similar interest or personality including types of bf. and since the guy like dat kind of personality in a ger he would probably choose the more attractive one.Originally posted by Coco_Coco:i've always read and heard about the 'best friend' coming in between a couple. either the best friend seduces the partner or the partner being increasingly attracted to the best friend.
i've got a friend's friend trying to hit on his gf's best friend as he found out the latter is more chio than his gf after getting together.
why does this 'best friend' thingy happen and how can we prevent it?? any suggestions/opinions/personal experiences???? -
Ah IC... its so normal when it comes to work... busy & preoccupied... frankly I like to keep my self occupied... time flies faster dun U tink? so no need to get bored & start hallucinating. eh?Originally posted by Devil1976:Nay... Nothing much... TOO BUSY and OCCUPIED lately... And THINGS AWAITS me.... -
Time will mellow almost everything ...Originally posted by Coco_Coco:letting go? it isn't easy....
AND sometimes letting go will not necessarily mean "game over"...
sometimes, the other partner will then "treasure" your value and the relationship and come back ...
Then will live happily ever after ... -
I'll certainly enjoy more free time for myself to exercise? I don't really hallucinate. Many things I wish done, but too busy and occupied? Hmm... Maybe I should start practising a better time management system?Originally posted by Bontakun:Ah IC... its so normal when it comes to work... busy & preoccupied... frankly I like to keep my self occupied... time flies faster dun U tink? so no need to get bored & start hallucinating. eh? -
I tink U shld!Originally posted by Devil1976:I'll certainly enjoy more free time for myself to exercise? I don't really hallucinate. Many things I wish done, but too busy and occupied? Hmm... Maybe I should start practising a better time management system?