Originally posted by MeOwSuSan:
when you got hurt?
when someone hurt you or your heart? ( not your boyfriend)
when you feeling and sadness is in deepest pain? (not cause by broke off from your boyfriend or your dear)
Who will you think of first? who you want to be with you ? and why is that so ? who you hope to give you all the support ? May I ask ? Please ...
all reply are welcome thank !
Reply :
Girlfriend/ boyfriend=
Friends=
Mother/father=
brother/sister=
Well, in this type of situtation, I think you gotta look at case-by-case basis. It really goes down to who knows you best. For me, I will definitely find someone who knows me best and whom I have shared most of my happiness and sadness. When my beloved left me...I was at a total loss. I went to my best pal........I know all the consolations he gave won't bring my beloved back. But why did I still go there? Bcos during that time, I let emotions rule over my head. I needed support. I wanted to hear the consoling words from him...........but later.....I realise that it still doesn't help in the situation. It can only give you momentary 'relaxation'.....
To solve this sadness.....there is only one person to help u. That is yourself....Although I'm still not totally able to come to terms with it...I know I still got to. And if u see from past threads from those who were heart-broken....u will see that most are encouraged to let go and continue their life....