My Heart is Crying...though nobody noes
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I am deeply in love with a girl from my class...She is the innocent type and i love everything about her.
Recently just spoke to her on the phone den we started talking abt having feelings for people at first sight..
Den i asked her did she feel anything the first time she saw me..she said NO...
Maybe not a big deal to anyone...but just a No from her just had my heart breaking into pieces.
Since dat day...i have been avoiding coming home to sleep cause the moment i lay on my bed alone...i will start thinking of her again...and my heart starts crying again.
Maybe i sound stupid to u guys..but i love her too much.[/list][/b] -
1st love? dont worry, u'll get used to it...its the kinda pain all haf to go thru.
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Shes not my first love.Originally posted by De|usi0n:1st love? dont worry, u'll get used to it...its the kinda pain all haf to go thru.
But she is the first girl hu can make me feel so terrible...even now as i type this I am thinking of her.
I do not noe wat is happening to me...if i had a choice i rather not ask her if she had any feelings for me when she saw me the first time.
Things were going quite smoothly so far until her one "NO'' had me so disheartened...i do not noe whether to commit myself anymore in going after her.
I am afraid that i cannot take the disappointment again. -
Originally posted by _Riemin_:
I am deeply in love with a girl from my class...She is the innocent type and i love everything about her.
Recently just spoke to her on the phone den we started talking abt having feelings for people at first sight..
Den i asked her did she feel anything the first time she saw me..she said NO...
Maybe not a big deal to anyone...but just a No from her just had my heart breaking into pieces.
Since dat day...i have been avoiding coming home to sleep cause the moment i lay on my bed alone...i will start thinking of her again...and my heart starts crying again.
Maybe i sound stupid to u guys..but i love her too much.[/list][/b]
if you don't sleep at home, where can you sleep? unless you got hostel. -
thats why for the past few days i have staying out or going to my friend's house for the night...i just do not want to be alone...or else my mind will start thinking about her again.Originally posted by boy in blues: if you don't sleep at home, where can you sleep? unless you got hostel.
Can anyone advise me wat to do? -
Originally posted by _Riemin_:Shes not my first love.
But she is the first girl hu can make me feel so terrible...even now as i type this I am thinking of her.
I do not noe wat is happening to me...if i had a choice i rather not ask her if she had any feelings for me when she saw me the first time.
Things were going quite smoothly so far until her one "NO'' had me so disheartened...i do not noe whether to commit myself anymore in going after her.
I am afraid that i cannot take the disappointment again.
her 'no' simply meant she did not love you at 1st sight. that's all. it has no other meaning. -
Originally posted by _Riemin_:thats why for the past few days i have staying out or going to my friend's house for the night...i just do not want to be alone...or else my mind will start thinking about her again.
Can anyone advise me wat to do? since everything's been going smoothly until that 'no' got you, just forget that you ever asked that question. it probably has much less significance then you imagine. -
i noe that her "No" meant only dat.Originally posted by boy in blues: her 'no' simply meant she did not love you at 1st sight. that's all. it has no other meaning.
But do u think i should continue going after her? -
Originally posted by _Riemin_:i noe that her "No" meant only dat.
But do u think i should continue going after her? why not? not every marriage started from love at 1st sight, and not every '1st-sight-love' end well. -
It won't be quite wise to do so. When chance is rare, it's better to just stick as friends for now...Originally posted by _Riemin_:i noe that her "No" meant only dat.
But do u think i should continue going after her?
About thinking too much of her... I'm afraid can't help you on that. Sorry. You've just got to learn to control your own thinking a bit. It's will-power. Don't be too discouraged if you can't stop thinking of her even if you thought you've tried hard enough though? There're many things we would be learning in life, this is just one of them... -
Originally posted by _Riemin_:
At least U did smth which helped U. U asked her abt her feelins. Its betta than NOT asking at all. Da feeling of being told "no" & da feeling of NOT noeing is 2 seperate emotions. But NOT asking is a far worse "slow poison" for U to bear. Trust me.
I am deeply in love with a girl from my class...She is the innocent type and i love everything about her.
Recently just spoke to her on the phone den we started talking abt having feelings for people at first sight..
Den i asked her did she feel anything the first time she saw me..she said NO...
Maybe not a big deal to anyone...but just a No from her just had my heart breaking into pieces.
Since dat day...i have been avoiding coming home to sleep cause the moment i lay on my bed alone...i will start thinking of her again...and my heart starts crying again.
Maybe i sound stupid to u guys..but i love her too much.[/list][/b]
Perhaps at yr age where da raging hormones r in U, U shld learn how to control it. U shld start to SEE everything ard U. Yes, at yr age curiousity abt "love", bgr, watever, is common & normal. Such emotions have no immediate cure for it. Only thru family guidance, help from frens, advices from elders, good living examples, etc, etc... will U learn wat is goin on & help U pass thru dis period.
I have some suggestions. U can get smth to do. Play video games, play sports, go shopping, read books, go work out, anything as long as U keep yrself occupied. BEST is if U concentrate on yr studies. Matters of da heart can only be eased thru time. Time is a very GOOD medicine. So while U have dat, do something useful & beneficial for yrself.
Oh yah... U can oso try dis. TREAT her as a fren, NOT as a gal. Meaning U treat her as a fren like how U treat yr guy frens & gal frens whom U dun have much feelins for. Juz dun act like a WUSS in front of her. Be natural & throw da past away. U r walking towards da FUTURE.
Ok?
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Originally posted by _Riemin_:
Its real silly when you are in love to ask questions like that. Of course, a heart in love commands the mind to do silly things. By the way, this is not a rejection - why are you crying then? She merely said that you do not trigger love at first sight. You even mentioned that only recently you people talk on the phone - pls lor, haven't learn how to walk you wanna attempt to fly? In other words: You haven't even do much to consider a decent chase and you expect results?
I am deeply in love with a girl from my class...She is the innocent type and i love everything about her.
Recently just spoke to her on the phone den we started talking abt having feelings for people at first sight..
Den i asked her did she feel anything the first time she saw me..she said NO...
Maybe not a big deal to anyone...but just a No from her just had my heart breaking into pieces.
Since dat day...i have been avoiding coming home to sleep cause the moment i lay on my bed alone...i will start thinking of her again...and my heart starts crying again.
Maybe i sound stupid to u guys..but i love her too much.[/list][/b]
In love, you don't always get the case of you liking someone else and she in return the same speed, velocity, intensity and feel.
P.S: In art of seduction: Do not express feelings/drop obvious hints right in the beginning of the chase. It is highly anti-seductive.
Cheers -
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1) she nvr love u at 1st sight mayb loving u now
2) she deny the fact tt she fall for u at the 1st sight so u wun think she is those "easy prey"
love sck tts it.. -
come on you are still ways to go man
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lol. love can be nurtured can't it..
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Originally posted by _Riemin_:
then u tell her u like her ?
I am deeply in love with a girl from my class...She is the innocent type and i love everything about her.
Recently just spoke to her on the phone den we started talking abt having feelings for people at first sight..
Den i asked her did she feel anything the first time she saw me..she said NO...
Maybe not a big deal to anyone...but just a No from her just had my heart breaking into pieces.
Since dat day...i have been avoiding coming home to sleep cause the moment i lay on my bed alone...i will start thinking of her again...and my heart starts crying again.
Maybe i sound stupid to u guys..but i love her too much.[/list][/b] -
Originally posted by _Riemin_:
come on boy....we guys shouldn't be like this...dun ever let a girl to make you feel so sad...try to think..if you really like her just go for it...just simply a (no) and you going to give up like that?
I am deeply in love with a girl from my class...She is the innocent type and i love everything about her.
Recently just spoke to her on the phone den we started talking abt having feelings for people at first sight..
Den i asked her did she feel anything the first time she saw me..she said NO...
Maybe not a big deal to anyone...but just a No from her just had my heart breaking into pieces.
Since dat day...i have been avoiding coming home to sleep cause the moment i lay on my bed alone...i will start thinking of her again...and my heart starts crying again.
Maybe i sound stupid to u guys..but i love her too much.[/list][/b]
go go go...go for the love you want... -
When you ask such a question, you shld be prepared.. most gals will say no, even if they like u a bit they will also say no, so dun be bothered by her answer so much, if you really like her, call her and ask her out often.. if she agrees to go out with you, most prob you got a chance.. good luck pal.. anyway if she doesnt, den dun think so much, look for another target.. sometimes in life the person you like may not like you back.. you got to accept that..
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Thanx guys for ur views
Didnt call her for a few days already...but after thinking over it ...i guess i will continue to treat her as a friend and let nature take its course
Anyway will be be meeting her in a few days time...hope dat sparks will fly...haha -
Thanx guys for ur views
Didnt call her for a few days already...but after thinking over it ...i guess i will continue to treat her as a friend and let nature take its course
Anyway will be be meeting her in a few days time...hope dat sparks will fly...haha -
good for you.
at least you straightened out your feelings and emotions and thoughts.
just let nature take its own course and dun rush into it. -
yea...thatz rite...and congrates u...finally u can get through...Originally posted by _Riemin_:Thanx guys for ur views
Didnt call her for a few days already...but after thinking over it ...i guess i will continue to treat her as a friend and let nature take its course
Anyway will be be meeting her in a few days time...hope dat sparks will fly...haha
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you can talk to me if you still feel sucky..... Antoh knows me the best.... what kinds of person I am
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Hey mate, you should just forget about her. If she did like you NOW as in when you spoke to her, she would have the empathy to say something like "but now... the feeling is different from when I 1st saw you etc". But she did not did she? THus this is complete rejection in my book, you can expect her to feel awkward with you now, and you have no real friendship with her now.
At least U did smth which helped U. U asked her abt her feelins. Its betta than NOT asking at all. Da feeling of being told "no" & da feeling of NOT noeing is 2 seperate emotions. But NOT asking is a far worse "slow poison" for U to bear. Trust me.
I disagree, for instance, even if I have feelings for people, I don't say it because 99% says the feeling is not mutual, as brilliantly demonstrated by Riemin here. Let me ask you all, how many of you loved a person and the feeling WAS mutual? Well?
Thus, if I like someone, it will just show in my actions as in I help/talk as friends. If I spill the beans the whole friendship thing is ruined because she will feel awkward and avoid me (Girls avoid me anyway in general, but she will avoid me EVEN MORE). Plus there;s the added poison of heartache.
So the rule for tough Men_@_Arms and people like me (rare)... don't spill it. Show it, but don't spill it, showing it will get the message across without the awkwardness. But ofcourse don't show it too obviously. -
get on with life