My Heart is Crying...though nobody noes
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I dun disagree wif wat U said. But to be ready for it mentally & early is better than waiting & hoping for smth dats 50/50... & wif da amt of emotions piling up while waiting for it is not good for health. I tried my method & yr method b4 & cld see da diff...Originally posted by men_@_arms:Hey mate, you should just forget about her. If she did like you NOW as in when you spoke to her, she would have the empathy to say something like "but now... the feeling is different from when I 1st saw you etc". But she did not did she? THus this is complete rejection in my book, you can expect her to feel awkward with you now, and you have no real friendship with her now.
I disagree, for instance, even if I have feelings for people, I don't say it because 99% says the feeling is not mutual, as brilliantly demonstrated by Riemin here. Let me ask you all, how many of you loved a person and the feeling WAS mutual? Well?
Thus, if I like someone, it will just show in my actions as in I help/talk as friends. If I spill the beans the whole friendship thing is ruined because she will feel awkward and avoid me (Girls avoid me anyway in general, but she will avoid me EVEN MORE). Plus there;s the added poison of heartache.
So the rule for tough Men_@_Arms and people like me (rare)... don't spill it. Show it, but don't spill it, showing it will get the message across without the awkwardness. But ofcourse don't show it too obviously.
I waited for a gal for 5 yrs b4 finally realised it was never meant to be was a LONG time wasted & slow poison... Another was a short 1, considering dat I told her my feelings & she was not on da same wavelength. Dat hurts too but was rather fast.
Chang tong bu ru Duan tong...
Every1 have their own wae of handling it. I believe yrs is as good as my wae... cept dat diff ppl diff pattern, diff results.
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Just called her once yesterday...she didnt answer...Sms her once too...didnt reply...Guess thats the end guys.
Anyway her birthday is round the corner...will just buy her something meaningful and let everything be back to normal...Anyway shes my classmate..do not want things to be awkward between us.
Shouldnt even called her in the first place..in this way things would not turn out as they are today..but nvm at least i noe what to do now.
I will still think of her still but i believe will the help of other girls in singapore...my heart will recover in no time...cheers. -
dude, be well yah?
tell you what.. your classmate
you still have lots of time in the world... you're still young
make friends... lots of them.. see how it goes..
again, be well yah?Originally posted by _Riemin_:Just called her once yesterday...she didnt answer...Sms her once too...didnt reply...Guess thats the end guys.
Anyway her birthday is round the corner...will just buy her something meaningful and let everything be back to normal...Anyway shes my classmate..do not want things to be awkward between us.
Shouldnt even called her in the first place..in this way things would not turn out as they are today..but nvm at least i noe what to do now.
I will still think of her still but i believe will the help of other girls in singapore...my heart will recover in no time...cheers. -
yeah...and im sure you will do...and very glad to hear that...cheers....Originally posted by _Riemin_:Just .but nvm at least i noe what to do now.
I will still think of her still but i believe will the help of other girls in singapore...my heart will recover in no time...cheers.
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Originally posted by _Riemin_:Just called her once yesterday...she didnt answer...Sms her once too...didnt reply...Guess thats the end guys.
Anyway her birthday is round the corner...will just buy her something meaningful and let everything be back to normal...Anyway shes my classmate..do not want things to be awkward between us.
Shouldnt even called her in the first place..in this way things would not turn out as they are today..but nvm at least i noe what to do now.
I will still think of her still but i believe will the help of other girls in singapore...my heart will recover in no time...cheers.
i'm glad you're on the road to recovery. though what beats me is why should you even think about someone who ignores another's attempts at communication. isn't she being a little too insensitive to others' feelings?
however, your keen readiness to find another girlfriend suggests to me an attitude which undermines boy-girl relationships. most disturbing. but perhaps you had well-meaning intentions to reassure us you'll be alright, in which case i take it back. -
Agreed. If some1 never replies U, it only means they "bo sim" at all & NOT worth yr time & effort loh. Time will tell who da so-called "eventual" winner is.Originally posted by boy in blues: i'm glad you're on the road to recovery. though what beats me is why should you even think about someone who ignores another's attempts at communication. isn't she being a little too insensitive to others' feelings?
however, your keen readiness to find another girlfriend suggests to me an attitude which undermines boy-girl relationships. most disturbing. but perhaps you had well-meaning intentions to reassure us you'll be alright, in which case i take it back.
Well... hes still young. When he grows "old" he will start to worry abt other stuffs other than BGR...
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u will be okay once u numb urself to these kind of pain....anyway...u might not have left an impression on her at first sight but that does not mean u cannot make her love u in future by being there for her n being the best that she will ever have.
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Just reach home guys..was at my friend house over the night...couldnt stop thinking of her again thats y went there to make myself occupied.
Earlier in the day...not knowing whether its a coincidence or heaven playing a joke on me...saw her at PS in Cafe Cartel but i m not sure whether did she see me.When i saw her all the negative thoughts came back to me again...immediately left the place to avoid seeing her face to face.
But thought over it already...will just buy her a "small" birthday gift for her birthday. Have not contacted her since she did not answer my call or reply to my msg. Will sms her one lat time to tell her that i got her birthday present and would just want to pass it to her...if she still doesnt give a darn...i guess she isnt the type of girl i thought of her to be.
But not to worry guys just going to buy a birthday present since i did say i would get her one. Just the birthday present and thats all.Full stop to this draggy piece of nonsense.
Turst me i will be up and well again. Thanx guys for everything. -
We shall see?
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do wat u feel is right n dun regret ur decicion dude..... be at peace with ur inner self.....
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not having love at 1st sight doesn;'t mean she wun ever like u romantically mahz. there;s such a thing called 'ri jiu shen qing': feelings being developed over time.