Will relationship drift if a couple seldom got time to meet?
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He is the quiet type, that like to put his feeling in his heart. He dun like to place the "I love you" thingy in his mouth alway also. But i can sense his enthusiatic when he call me at times to share his piece of good news or his feelings.Originally posted by tibirg:while u all chat online or over the phone...is there like a loss of feelings?
i dont know but nowadyas when me and my bf talk over the phone, we dont seem to b very enthusiastic, if u noe wat i mean....the "i love yous" dont seem very sincere too...
I do feel that it had become monotonous...but that the way of life.. -
Even if couple meet up everyday, relationship will still driftOriginally posted by Prec|ous:Will relationship drift apart if a couple seldom got time to meet up cos one party haf a bz work schedule? But still maintain contact almost everyday? -
yes.. i do agree that there are cases like that.Originally posted by JeweL81:Even if couple meet up everyday, relationship will still drift -
Maybe u are rite.. a relationship does stained. I msg him "miss him" no reply . That was on sat. Then yest.. i was having a situation.. i msg him to tell him abt it.. no reply also.. yets nite asked him if he did receive my sms.. he say yes n everytime when he is driving sure receive my sms
I like to highlight lor... that was only the 2nd time i sms him since he was driving. kaoz. I was getting a bit depress n hurt by the situation occured. But the moment he came back... all he tok abt was his paln to buy a new car.. nothing else....
Why do i sleep so late everyday alway? Cos i wanna wait for him & get in touch with. I really feel abit tired... like love not being appreaciated. Yes.. he is VERY bz...i accepted that... but even a single sms to tell me he miss me or so... n in the end. like kenna reprimanded for alway getting my sms when he is working... -
Originally posted by Prec|ous:Maybe u are rite.. a relationship does stained. I msg him "miss him" no reply . That was on sat. Then yest.. i was having a situation.. i msg him to tell him abt it.. no reply also.. yets nite asked him if he did receive my sms.. he say yes n everytime when he is driving sure receive my sms
I like to highlight lor... that was only the 2nd time i sms him since he was driving. kaoz. I was getting a bit depress n hurt by the situation occured. But the moment he came back... all he tok abt was his paln to buy a new car.. nothing else....
Why do i sleep so late everyday alway? Cos i wanna wait for him & get in touch with. I really feel abit tired... like love not being appreaciated. Yes.. he is VERY bz...i accepted that... but even a single sms to tell me he miss me or so... n in the end. like kenna reprimanded for alway getting my sms when he is working...
Tell him, let him know. Before you can punish a student, the teacher has to inform the student what's wrong.
The real problems comes in only after he knows of your thoughts, yet remains the same. (Of course, if things improve, do tell him that you are appreciative of that as well. This gives him the confidence and thingy to repeat 'that' again.)
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X 2.Originally posted by JeweL81:Even if couple meet up everyday, relationship will still drift -
If i think he is not making an effort to keep this relationship alive, i will give up.Originally posted by Prec|ous:Maybe u are rite.. a relationship does stained. I msg him "miss him" no reply . That was on sat. Then yest.. i was having a situation.. i msg him to tell him abt it.. no reply also.. yets nite asked him if he did receive my sms.. he say yes n everytime when he is driving sure receive my sms
I like to highlight lor... that was only the 2nd time i sms him since he was driving. kaoz. I was getting a bit depress n hurt by the situation occured. But the moment he came back... all he tok abt was his paln to buy a new car.. nothing else....
Why do i sleep so late everyday alway? Cos i wanna wait for him & get in touch with. I really feel abit tired... like love not being appreaciated. Yes.. he is VERY bz...i accepted that... but even a single sms to tell me he miss me or so... n in the end. like kenna reprimanded for alway getting my sms when he is working... -
Duunoe lah...i only know that he is the workaholic kind... would prefer to concentrate on his job unless realli emergency
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spend his money + dump him
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This are all base on my side of story. The feelings n affection n loneliness of it. But come to think of it, wat will u react or do if u were in his shoes? Work fm day to wee nite everyday, no off n multiple job tasks cos lack of manpower. Distance of work is from east to west. wat u think?
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I refer to your earlier posting and felt that maybe it's time u have a small chat with him...though he had a bzy work schedule, this does not equate to neglecting his relationship.. Maintaining the relationship is very important, as well as being committed in one's career. However, it's obvious that he did not strike a balance between his work and the relationship bet u and him... From my point of view, at the very least, he can sms u before he sleeps or any other time when he's not very bzy... keeping the relationship alive is vital.
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Originally posted by venn:spend his money + dump him
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by the way, thats for
Prec|ous -
this happen to me
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So wat happen? wat ur ending?Originally posted by antoh:this happen to me -
We did chat online till he is very tired.. then he go to sleep. He is damn bz..cos lack of manpower.. then he not the romantic kind of person... haiz... damn my luck to have such a insensitive guy. EVen if a small hug or a sms to say "miss me" will make my day also...Originally posted by tranquil2:I refer to your earlier posting and felt that maybe it's time u have a small chat with him...though he had a bzy work schedule, this does not equate to neglecting his relationship.. Maintaining the relationship is very important, as well as being committed in one's career. However, it's obvious that he did not strike a balance between his work and the relationship bet u and him... From my point of view, at the very least, he can sms u before he sleeps or any other time when he's not very bzy... keeping the relationship alive is vital. -
We did chat online everyday till he is very tired.. then he go to sleep. He is damn bz..cos lack of manpower.. then he not the romantic kind of person... haiz... damn my luck to have such a insensitive guy. EVen if a small hug or a sms to say "miss me" will make my day also...Originally posted by tranquil2:I refer to your earlier posting and felt that maybe it's time u have a small chat with him...though he had a bzy work schedule, this does not equate to neglecting his relationship.. Maintaining the relationship is very important, as well as being committed in one's career. However, it's obvious that he did not strike a balance between his work and the relationship bet u and him... From my point of view, at the very least, he can sms u before he sleeps or any other time when he's not very bzy... keeping the relationship alive is vital.