Comparing u and her ex bf
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Have u guys have this experience that the gal u r going after tends to tell u things about her ex-bf whether intentionally or not... that makes u feel inferior...? (E.g. her ex has a big house, car, good career, reputable family background, etc..)
Any solution to circumvent this loss of pride as a result of these things?? -
ai qing bu neng zuo bi jiao
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If happen my gal do dat. Sayonara to da R/S.Originally posted by FireIce:ai qing bu neng zuo bi jiao
If compare me to her ex. Y they bweak up in da 1st place? Go back to him & live happily ever after lah.
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hv to hou lian pi.... jz ignore those things n carry on, but its a sign to work harder...Originally posted by B_ored:Have u guys have this experience that the gal u r going after tends to tell u things about her ex-bf whether intentionally or not... that makes u feel inferior...? (E.g. her ex has a big house, car, good career, reputable family background, etc..)
Any solution to circumvent this loss of pride as a result of these things?? -
haha.. then u shoot her with ur ex gf lor..Originally posted by B_ored:Have u guys have this experience that the gal u r going after tends to tell u things about her ex-bf whether intentionally or not... that makes u feel inferior...? (E.g. her ex has a big house, car, good career, reputable family background, etc..)
Any solution to circumvent this loss of pride as a result of these things??
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X2Originally posted by FireIce:ai qing bu neng zuo bi jiao
P.S: I love that song.
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u got such prob ?Originally posted by B_ored:Have u guys have this experience that the gal u r going after tends to tell u things about her ex-bf whether intentionally or not... that makes u feel inferior...? (E.g. her ex has a big house, car, good career, reputable family background, etc..)
Any solution to circumvent this loss of pride as a result of these things??
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hmmm... does reputable families background still part and parcel of every relationship? the guy's parent who is a hawker cannot be with a girl's parents who are lecturers? does the guy have to carry the problems created from the former generation? did God ask us who we wanted our parents to be when we were brought into this world? i guess we just have to make the best out of what we have...
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how come cannot.. its like if you love some one y would u chap abt their past .. its the present and future together that counts ya?.. its like love conquers all.. i know it sound very fairtale but ya. y can't a hawker centre girl go with a rich guy ?nothing wrong wat.. its ppl who make it look like its a crime to go out with a person one level lower/higher then you .. ya?Originally posted by shawnsh:hmmm... does reputable families background still part and parcel of every relationship? the guy's parent who is a hawker cannot be with a girl's parents who are lecturers? does the guy have to carry the problems created from the former generation? did God ask us who we wanted our parents to be when we were brought into this world? i guess we just have to make the best out of what we have... -
hmm...what if it's a hawker centre guy going for a rich girl? The relationship is possible but I think most of the people will say the guy is going after the girl's money lor. Think the guy must be able to take the criticOriginally posted by _attitude_:how come cannot.. its like if you love some one y would u chap abt their past .. its the present and future together that counts ya?.. its like love conquers all.. i know it sound very fairtale but ya. y can't a hawker centre girl go with a rich guy ?nothing wrong wat.. its ppl who make it look like its a crime to go out with a person one level lower/higher then you .. ya?
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yeah but if u love someone i guess all those critisim is mothing to u lor.. as long happy can liao wat.. hahaOriginally posted by Bochupi:hmm...what if it's a hawker centre guy going for a rich girl? The relationship is possible but I think most of the people will say the guy is going after the girl's money lor. Think the guy must be able to take the critic -
hehe, true lah but most man got pride one mah...just imagine people calling you xiao pai lian. Unless the guy very thick skinned if not sure kanna affected one.Originally posted by _attitude_:yeah but if u love someone i guess all those critisim is mothing to u lor.. as long happy can liao wat.. haha -
yeah tat is so true.. but wat i can't understand is y ppl have to be so judgemental.. sad...Originally posted by Bochupi:hehe, true lah but most man got pride one mah...just imagine people calling you xiao pai lian. Unless the guy very thick skinned if not sure kanna affected one. 
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nice.. well said. totally agree.. how to find 2 guy identical? if she is the materialistic sort and ur conditions lose to her ex.. den ask her y be with u..Originally posted by Bontakun:If happen my gal do dat. Sayonara to da R/S.
If compare me to her ex. Y they bweak up in da 1st place? Go back to him & live happily ever after lah.
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Thank you~~~ wanna be my stead? Lolx!Originally posted by WrX_STi:nice.. well said. totally agree.. how to find 2 guy identical? if she is the materialistic sort and ur conditions lose to her ex.. den ask her y be with u..
Horse stead...
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dump her!
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How much do you love her?
If she's the one, then no choice have to bear it and try to work to be better...
If just a normal relationship, tell her go back to her ex or tell her ur dream ger is rich, talented, giving, humble etc... why u cant get this kind of gal...
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Originally posted by B_ored:Have u guys have this experience that the gal u r going after tends to tell u things about her ex-bf whether intentionally or not... that makes u feel inferior...? (E.g. her ex has a big house, car, good career, reputable family background, etc..)
Any solution to circumvent this loss of pride as a result of these things??
I had this kinda problem before with my ex fucking b/f.
He's always (I mean ALWAYS) comparing me with his fucking ex g/f.
And you know what...I dunno abt. ur g/f but my ex b/f was STILL comparing me with his ex until the last minute we're together.
He said : "From this minute, u r no longer my g/f. And u know what, i think she's a lot better than u".
Then I said : "Oh Ok. U can reunited with her now."
I felt so relieve and grateful that I'm no longer with him. I'd die now if I still stay with him.
And you know what..now he's begging me to come back with him.
I said : "What about her ???"
He said : "U r better than her. Will you be my g/f again ?"
"WTF !!!! No Way, Man !!! U can go to hell with her. I dun care !!!"
See...he never stops comparing. I bet if he has another g/f, he'll start comparing and comparing again.
If u can stand her always comparing u with his ex..then stick with the consequences, that u'll be hurt by it.
Anyway..if she thinks that his ex is better, then why broke up ? Oh..I know..she must did the "comparing" also to his ex.
If not...get a new one !!! There's still plenty of nice gals out there, who's not comparing u with their ex. -
I used to be after this bigboobs gal who has nothing good to say about me... always say this guy that guy so nice to her, so handsome, so rich, etc...
i must admit i was infatuated with her 40% because of her looks, 25% of her bigboobs, 25% coz she nice gal besides the things she talk abt me... and 10% coz i sympathise in her family situation...
gee... after one year, really cannot take it...
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wah maya so fierce!!!Originally posted by Maya061:
I had this kinda problem before with my ex fucking b/f.
He's always (I mean ALWAYS) comparing me with his fucking ex g/f.
And you know what...I dunno abt. ur g/f but my ex b/f was STILL comparing me with his ex until the last minute we're together.
He said : "From this minute, u r no longer my g/f. And u know what, i think she's a lot better than u".
Then I said : "Oh Ok. U can reunited with her now."
I felt so relieve and grateful that I'm no longer with him. I'd die now if I still stay with him.
And you know what..now he's begging me to come back with him.
I said : "What about her ???"
He said : "U r better than her. Will you be my g/f again ?"
"WTF !!!! No Way, Man !!! U can go to hell with her. I dun care !!!"
See...he never stops comparing. I bet if he has another g/f, he'll start comparing and comparing again.
If u can stand her always comparing u with his ex..then stick with the consequences, that u'll be hurt by it.
Anyway..if she thinks that his ex is better, then why broke up ? Oh..I know..she must did the "comparing" also to his ex.
If not...get a new one !!! There's still plenty of nice gals out there, who's not comparing u with their ex.
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ai zhai...........Originally posted by B_ored:Have u guys have this experience that the gal u r going after tends to tell u things about her ex-bf whether intentionally or not... that makes u feel inferior...? (E.g. her ex has a big house, car, good career, reputable family background, etc..)
Any solution to circumvent this loss of pride as a result of these things??
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True living legendary example.Originally posted by Maya061:
I had this kinda problem before with my ex fucking b/f.
He's always (I mean ALWAYS) comparing me with his fucking ex g/f.
And you know what...I dunno abt. ur g/f but my ex b/f was STILL comparing me with his ex until the last minute we're together.
He said : "From this minute, u r no longer my g/f. And u know what, i think she's a lot better than u".
Then I said : "Oh Ok. U can reunited with her now."
I felt so relieve and grateful that I'm no longer with him. I'd die now if I still stay with him.
And you know what..now he's begging me to come back with him.
I said : "What about her ???"
He said : "U r better than her. Will you be my g/f again ?"
"WTF !!!! No Way, Man !!! U can go to hell with her. I dun care !!!"
See...he never stops comparing. I bet if he has another g/f, he'll start comparing and comparing again.
If u can stand her always comparing u with his ex..then stick with the consequences, that u'll be hurt by it.
Anyway..if she thinks that his ex is better, then why broke up ? Oh..I know..she must did the "comparing" also to his ex.
If not...get a new one !!! There's still plenty of nice gals out there, who's not comparing u with their ex.
Peep, got yr ans??? -
YES..find someone else.Originally posted by B_ored:Any solution to circumvent this loss of pride as a result of these things??
She still in love with her ex or his big house, car....watever, no point being with her. -
aiyoh..i'm not lah..heng. trust me. i was really nice at him, he just never appreciate what i've done for him.Originally posted by HENG@:wah maya so fierce!!!
*scared*
if u were in my position, i bet u'd even want to smack him or make him out of ur life forever. he's like the pain in the ass.
never comparing ur loved one with ur ex. from now on, if i have a b/f and he starts comparing...he can just vanish and get out fm my life. once is MORE than enough, man !!!
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Yeah!Originally posted by Maya061:aiyoh..i'm not lah..heng. trust me. i was really nice at him, he just never appreciate what i've done for him.
if u were in my position, i bet u'd even want to smack him or make him out of ur life forever. he's like the pain in the ass.
never comparing ur loved one with ur ex. from now on, if i have a b/f and he starts comparing...he can just vanish and get out fm my life. once is MORE than enough, man !!!
I dun have to compare... coz I got mth to compare...