why is he doing this...
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u need to be truthful abt how u feel regarding such issues...Originally posted by tibirg:i mentioned it to him but i didnt clarify my feelings to him....arghhh silly me! -
Have you been possessive? Over Jealous?
Do you make a mountain out of a molehill when his female friends talk to him, joke, laugh, sms him cheeky nonsense?
Do you slap him when he even takes a glance at a passing gorgeous beauty?
Well you've got your answer if any of the above is YES
honestly, i've been guilty of wat your bf did as well... many a times my i would lie to my ex and say i'm sleeping early when i actually spent the whole night gaming online or having a chat with my close gal pals who are having problems. U need to put your guy at ease so that he can be totally honest with you in the future.
But then... if u have been giving him the space and freedom to do his own things on his own free will and he still treats you like that.. dump him and give me a call.. hahaha -
woah.. didn't know you had so much support already...
as i said...i lied to my gf abt my gaming and all.... but thats because she never allowed me.. although she said "go ahead and play your games" its obvious she was unhappy... and too often i felt obligated not to play and spend time with her instead(she lives ONE bus stop away only) as a result i felt really restricted.. funny thing is she never restricted me from going out with my friends... but i dun get why she psychoed me to give up gaming...AND SATURDAY SOCCER!! yah!! i rem now... blardy hell.. i practically didn;t watch the whole 2002/03 season of the epl.. well ok la.. i was in the army and weekends were precious..
my point is.. i broke up with her and one of the factors (albeit a small minute factor) is that i felt restricted..i felt obligated to live according to the pressure she asserted on me and i resorted to lying to get my way...haha.. well its over now and i've learnt and i've grown...
tibirg, take my advice.. if he likes to play badminton.. let him.. if u don't, go bowling or something.. do something u like at that time (if possible) just go out... with your friends.. if not can ask me out (i'm super free and no one wants to date me)..please? hahahahaha joking ah.. but really.. look at the broad picture.. do you love him? does he love you? thats all that matters.. whatever it is, thru thick and thin thru health and illness thru lies, deciet, truth, sadness, happiness whateverf**kshit.. if u love him.. its all that matters...
sigh.. see la.. now i'm despondent about my own situation.. oh well.. back to gunbound.. trying to pick up 14 yr old girls.. WAHAHAHA kidding kidding kidding... -
Ehh... sorry huh !!! but MISS, I don think your BF lied to you, he just did not tell you the whole truth !!! He only told u a partial truth and that does not constitute a lie..... unlessu got evidence to proof that "there were no guys there and only a ger present. "
