Is it true that guys are different b4 & after...
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Is it true that guys tends to change after finally courted the ger (as in as gf ). They will not be romantic, certain things when they tends to do like hold hands, constantly ask the ger out, wan to do things wif the ger, will not feel fed up easily wif the ger, will do things for the ger willingly etc... do they changed???
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I dun know abt the others but currently I am after a girl. She is perfect in my eyes and I will never change the ways I treat her.. cos I think its impt to keep the fire going...even after we are an item.Originally posted by Prec|ous:Is it true that guys tends to change after finally courted the ger (as in as gf ). They will not be romantic, certain things when they tends to do like hold hands, constantly ask the ger out, wan to do things wif the ger, will not feel fed up easily wif the ger, will do things for the ger willingly etc... do they changed??? -
ermmOriginally posted by Prec|ous:Is it true that guys tends to change after finally courted the ger (as in as gf ). They will not be romantic, certain things when they tends to do like hold hands, constantly ask the ger out, wan to do things wif the ger, will not feel fed up easily wif the ger, will do things for the ger willingly etc... do they changed???
this type of guys usually are libra
cause in their sign, their behaviour is like that
so cant change
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before and after marriage even worse
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Originally posted by X-men:before and after marriage even worse
just kidding...
Yah. Ahhshahaaaahaaa.
Toilet paper finish don't know how to change. (from what I read in a book)
Whahahahhaaahaaa -
Wah.. u very zhun wor...the person is a libra....hahahaha then die lah like that...Originally posted by doghouse837:ermm
this type of guys usually are libra
cause in their sign, their behaviour is like that
so cant change 
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to tell u the trueOriginally posted by Prec|ous:Wah.. u very zhun wor...the person is a libra....hahahaha then die lah like that...
i also libra
i used to done that
and i now i regrade doing it 
and if u choose to leave him, he will be able to do stuff to make your heart soft again and back to him
he can be a good lover, provided he know what he wants and ask for
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Sad but quite true. Not to scare you but after married even worse. Seen too many cases already.Originally posted by Prec|ous:Is it true that guys tends to change after finally courted the ger (as in as gf ). They will not be romantic, certain things when they tends to do like hold hands, constantly ask the ger out, wan to do things wif the ger, will not feel fed up easily wif the ger, will do things for the ger willingly etc... do they changed??? -
Things that you find difficulty in getting,you tend to treasure more. But once in a relationship and she is there yours for the taking,you tend to take her for granted.
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i dunnoe...haiz...Originally posted by doghouse837:to tell u the true
i also libra
i used to done that
and i now i regrade doing it
and if u choose to leave him, he will be able to do stuff to make your heart soft again and back to him
he can be a good lover, provided he know what he wants and ask for
hope u would led him to understand what he wants and ask for
Im sick of being in a r/s like this.. why guy dun learn to treasure their gf when she is there for him & usually the ger will treat the guy faithfully with affection... everything changes -
I think it's human's nature leh... Once achieve the target liao, the feelings kinda fade away slowly by slowly...Or is it only me?
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Such things are not definite. Though it's quite unlikely that you can change a person's character totally, it's quite possible that you can 'teach' your partner to love you in the right way... By being more appreciative of him / her at the correct time... To let him / her learn in a smooth pursuasive manner which is not pressurising at the time time... It's a part like teaching a 'pet'...Originally posted by Prec|ous:i dunnoe...haiz...
Im sick of being in a r/s like this.. why guy dun learn to treasure their gf when she is there for him & usually the ger will treat the guy faithfully with affection... everything changes More actions than words... And you can change your method a bit depending on what kinda person he / she is.... -
Love is blind...Originally posted by X-men:before and after marriage even worse
just kidding...
Marriage is a real-eye opener.
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Originally posted by edwinSSM:I think it's human's nature leh... Once achieve the target liao, the feelings kinda fade away slowly by slowly...Or is it only me? You are loving the wrong person then. As what games always teaches us 'Game over. Try again next time.' I am sure there would be one that you would feel differently.
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X2Originally posted by Devil1976:Such things are not definite. Though it's quite unlikely that you can change a person's character totally, it's quite possible that you can 'teach' your partner to love you in the right way... By being more appreciative of him / her at the correct time... To let him / her learn in a smooth pursuasive manner which is not pressurising at the time time... It's a part like teaching a 'pet'... More actions than words... And you can change your method a bit depending on what kinda person he / she is.... We learn and evolved as we move along the life of our relationship.
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u're still after the girl? then how u know u'll not treat her differently after u got her... ?Originally posted by B_ored:I dun know abt the others but currently I am after a girl. She is perfect in my eyes and I will never change the ways I treat her.. cos I think its impt to keep the fire going...even after we are an item. -
tis kind of ting very hard to say wan.... wait till u get her then u will noe...Originally posted by B_ored:I dun know abt the others but currently I am after a girl. She is perfect in my eyes and I will never change the ways I treat her.. cos I think its impt to keep the fire going...even after we are an item. -
x2Originally posted by Devil1976:Such things are not definite. Though it's quite unlikely that you can change a person's character totally, it's quite possible that you can 'teach' your partner to love you in the right way... By being more appreciative of him / her at the correct time... To let him / her learn in a smooth pursuasive manner which is not pressurising at the time time... It's a part like teaching a 'pet'... More actions than words... And you can change your method a bit depending on what kinda person he / she is....
agree, appreciation is the key cos when u feel hapi abt something, it will encourage u to continue doing it... -
i defnly agree, but it happens with gers too. i feel humans always take things, good things in particular, for granted
Originally posted by Prec|ous:Is it true that guys tends to change after finally courted the ger (as in as gf ). They will not be romantic, certain things when they tends to do like hold hands, constantly ask the ger out, wan to do things wif the ger, will not feel fed up easily wif the ger, will do things for the ger willingly etc... do they changed??? -
yes they change. how much they change depends on e guy himself....while courting, he will make u feel all sweet and important. after he gets u, sorta take u for granted...Originally posted by Prec|ous:Is it true that guys tends to change after finally courted the ger (as in as gf ). They will not be romantic, certain things when they tends to do like hold hands, constantly ask the ger out, wan to do things wif the ger, will not feel fed up easily wif the ger, will do things for the ger willingly etc... do they changed???
but i guess this is inevitable.... 
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So all the sweet moments will be gone? Conversation will be lesser? meeting up will be lesser as well? haiz...
Then the whole r/s wil be getting boring. So eventually it will not be working out rite? -
yesOriginally posted by Prec|ous:Is it true that guys tends to change after finally courted the ger (as in as gf ). They will not be romantic, certain things when they tends to do like hold hands, constantly ask the ger out, wan to do things wif the ger, will not feel fed up easily wif the ger, will do things for the ger willingly etc... do they changed???
i tend to change more caring -
wait till the guy realli loses some1 and i tink he will change for the gd.. i used to tk my ex sort of for granted.. and she leave mi and i am now changing for the better..Originally posted by Prec|ous:i dunnoe...haiz...
Im sick of being in a r/s like this.. why guy dun learn to treasure their gf when she is there for him & usually the ger will treat the guy faithfully with affection... everything changes
in and out of r/s will make one grow up and be stronger. -
When sweet moments are gone, it would usually mean that your "honeymoon" period is over. Now comes the next stage of your relationship which will test the endurance as well as faithfulness of both parties.Originally posted by Prec|ous:So all the sweet moments will be gone? Conversation will be lesser? meeting up will be lesser as well? haiz...
Then the whole r/s wil be getting boring. So eventually it will not be working out rite?
I think in a relationship, most of the time one party will tend to "give" more affection while the other just "sit" and receive. In your case, you seem to be the one who is the "giving" side.
But to maintain a relationship, both party have to put in some effort. I suggest that you don't have to bother too much about who's giving and who's receiving. This would most probably put more strain into your relationship. Give your partner a very positive outlook in your relationship, i.e. don't always brood over things, argue etc.
Don't let your doubts ruin this relationship you have created with your loved one. Believe that your relationship will work, if you don't believe, how will it ever work out. Be positive always. -
yah of coz, they will be different. most change for the worse... only a few change for the better.
