Pre-seminal fluid (precum lah)
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I am worried and need some advice from you guys and ladies here in this forum...
My bf and me had mutual masturbation last friday...in the middle of the process, he accidently brushed his fingers and palm across his dick...and some precum (the transparent fluids) was on his fingers.
He fingered me with the same hand after that...and he never realised...I am still a virgin so he cant go all the way in with his finger...
My question and worry is...will I get pregnant by the precum?
Does it contains sperm? we never had sexual intercourse, only fingering...can the sperm swim up my vaginal and make me pregnant by the precum? is the chance high in this way?
wat is the process of getting pregnant?
please help me....i am troubled. losing sleep
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Well, there could be a chance that the fluid contains enough active sperms. But to be really sure, go for a checkup. There will assure yourself to the maximum.
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CHANCES are there but SLIM? Other FACTORs to take into consideration is your menstrual Cycle, his age, the DURATION of the session and whether you washed yourself up IMMEDIATELY after that?
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errmm..
its true tt the fluid contains sperm..but in very small amount though..
however..
spems die when come in contact with air (or in conditions tt is not "body temperature")
so the chances are tt the sperms in the fluid are dead by the time his hands reach u..but u cant be too sure on this..
and anyway..i hope u are not 13...are u?
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no lah...i'm only eight......een.
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oh okai..
glad to hear tt...
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Hey your bf posted the same things at www.delphi.com/sg_frenz
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is it???
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wah..then to add ah.. will get pregnant thru petting one or not huh? provided both parties are dressed.. i remember i read in a magazine that it is possible but then dun seems quite possible rite?
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Petting has two forms: light and heavy, both of which will not in any way make a female pregnant. (which mag did u read that trash from?)Originally posted by joanne:wah..then to add ah.. will get pregnant thru petting one or not huh? provided both parties are dressed.. i remember i read in a magazine that it is possible but then dun seems quite possible rite?
Magazine articles are mostly stories, especially the sexual "facts" section where ppl write in their uncertainties and teh editor responds accordingly.
celestine88: best method is to go for a checkup or do a pregnancy test. Then u won't lose anymore sleep over it. However unlikely it seems, it is also not impossible. -
why like both posts totally identical one?
hmmmmmz -
that man cut and paste lah. i don noe him
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i think i read that in teenage magazine a few years back.. they say heavy petting can lead to pregnancy.. how then u noe if ur petting is heavy or light???
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There MIGHT be CHANCEs of PREGNANCY in the CASEs of HEAVY PETTING through CONTAMINATION though the chances are REALLY SLIM.
For JOANNE:
LIGHT PETTING is the process whereby the SEXUAL GENITAL of the PARTIES are not TOUCHED.
HEAVY PETTING is the process whereby the SEXUAL GENITALs are INVOLVED.
PETTING in general refers to KISSING and TOUCHING of a partner.
CONTAMINATION can happen if ANYTHING which comes into contact with the SPERMs of the GUY comes into contact with VIRGINAL of the FEMALE. This possibility does NOT EXCLUDE the fact that it is POSSIBLE for SPERMs to SWIM or be BACKFLOWED into the body of a FEMALE when it comes into contact with the BODILY LIQUID of the FEMALE! -
Originally posted by Devil1976:There MIGHT be CHANCEs of PREGNANCY in the CASEs of HEAVY PETTING through CONTAMINATION though the chances are REALLY SLIM.
For JOANNE:
LIGHT PETTING is the process whereby the SEXUAL GENITAL of the PARTIES are not TOUCHED.
HEAVY PETTING is the process whereby the SEXUAL GENITALs are INVOLVED.
PETTING in general refers to KISSING and TOUCHING of a partner.
CONTAMINATION can happen if ANYTHING which comes into contact with the SPERMs of the GUY comes into contact with VIRGINAL of the FEMALE. This possibility does NOT EXCLUDE the fact that it is POSSIBLE for SPERMs to SWIM or be BACKFLOWED into the body of a FEMALE when it comes into contact with the BODILY LIQUID of the FEMALE! -
then i ask u ah, u say touch the genitals parts hor..u mean they touch without clothings or with clothes leh??? if 2 person wearing clothes but some sort their private parts touch each other's WITH clothings counted or not leh? haha..Originally posted by Devil1976:There MIGHT be CHANCEs of PREGNANCY in the CASEs of HEAVY PETTING through CONTAMINATION though the chances are REALLY SLIM.
For JOANNE:
LIGHT PETTING is the process whereby the SEXUAL GENITAL of the PARTIES are not TOUCHED.
HEAVY PETTING is the process whereby the SEXUAL GENITALs are INVOLVED.
PETTING in general refers to KISSING and TOUCHING of a partner.
CONTAMINATION can happen if ANYTHING which comes into contact with the SPERMs of the GUY comes into contact with VIRGINAL of the FEMALE. This possibility does NOT EXCLUDE the fact that it is POSSIBLE for SPERMs to SWIM or be BACKFLOWED into the body of a FEMALE when it comes into contact with the BODILY LIQUID of the FEMALE! -
perhaps u're still rather young hmmm..Originally posted by joanne:then i ask u ah, u say touch the genitals parts hor..u mean they touch without clothings or with clothes leh??? if 2 person wearing clothes but some sort their private parts touch each other's WITH clothings counted or not leh? haha..
light petting usually involves normal caressing and kissing wif clothes on...
heavy petting usually involves fondling private parts (but does not necessarily mean mastubation). Of course this is accomplished without ur clothes or is done underneath them.
For more info, maybe u can surf: www.asia1.com and look under the newasiawomen section - <sex files> -
think it should be too late..
be careful nxt time, but if it happen again, go get a morning after pill at any nearby clinic within 24 hrs
until now, just wait for a few wks or so, get a pregnancy kit -
Get the crib, baby clothes and diapers ready and welcome it into the world!!!!!!!!!
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wah seh ah T experienced liao ah...
hahaha anyway if really got anything go far east $300 can settle liaoz :p
(hear frm my fren one ah, not i go find out one hahahhaha)
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Hahaha..no lah..i no need to surf for this.. i am not the main character in this post.. heeOriginally posted by controversay:perhaps u're still rather young hmmm..
light petting usually involves normal caressing and kissing wif clothes on...
heavy petting usually involves fondling private parts (but does not necessarily mean mastubation). Of course this is accomplished without ur clothes or is done underneath them.
For more info, maybe u can surf: www.asia1.com and look under the newasiawomen section - <sex files>
i dunno mah.so ask u all who are much more experienced..haha.. -
wa...if like that never do anything no intercourse yet..then get shotgun, damned bo hua leh...
die lah then on the street can see many teens with big balloon under uniform liao. every teenager couples also do petting one mah.
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i beg to differ. Most are still strictly the conservative type...stick to holding hands.Originally posted by Celestine88:die lah then on the street can see many teens with big balloon under uniform liao. every teenager couples also do petting one mah.
From there, things take off but certainly do not jump straight into petting and foreplay...
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ACTUALLY, I don't really see the need for you to classify between Heavy and Light petting lah.... The MAIN REASON for so would be the fact that HEAVY PETTING might lead to the proceeding of SEX or more EXACT TERM to use INTERCOURSE <- Which could spell TROUBLE if you don't take proper PRECAUTION, you're NOT experienced (Especially the GUY!!), AND you're NOT looking for a BABY!!!Originally posted by joanne:then i ask u ah, u say touch the genitals parts hor..u mean they touch without clothings or with clothes leh??? if 2 person wearing clothes but some sort their private parts touch each other's WITH clothings counted or not leh? haha..
Points to Note:
1. Light petting can often lead to HEAVY petting.
2. HEAVY petting could lead to SEXUAL INTERCOURSE.
3. Another way to DEFINE Light and Heavy petting would be...
During light petting, both parties are usually still IN CONTROL of their desires and enjoying the process of it.
During HEAVY PETTING, usually both parties would have high sexual hormonal flow in blood by then SYMPTOMs like HEAVY BREATHING, LOSS of TOTAL LOGIC THINKING (Try asking the person 3 x 6 = ? :p) and such... That's when TROUBLE MIGHT kick in... SEXUAL INTERCOURSE pushed by HEAVY PETTING could be DANGEROUS for INEXPERIENCE COUPLEs, CHANCEs of CONTAMINATION is ALSO there for INEXPERIENCE COUPLEs... CONTAMINATION could be CAUSED by transfer on SPERM into a FEMALE's body usually when a CONTAMINATED hand (Male's OR Female's) come into contact with the Female's VIRGINAL OR Bodily liquid around that region... CONTAMINATED CLOTHINGs or surface would have the SAME EFFECT...
Though CHANCES of CONTAMINATION may not be high due to exposure to air and such... It also depends on the QUALITY of the guy's SPERM..?
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In LIGHT I shall FEAR NOT. FOR what I AM is CUT so DEEP inside of ME.
I LIVE my FLESH and SOUL ONLY to BLEED for the OTHERS.
FEAR ME NOT. FOR I AM YOUR 'MASTER'. GIVE YOU STRENGTH. FOR YOU ARE MY 'ENEMY'.
DEVIL PHRASE I
I have no 'friends' nor 'family'.
I hold no past and see not future...
These are just samples of illusions....
I don't exist, but I shall live ETERNITY..... DEVIL PHRASE II
ße COOL, NOT s¢rr¥.... -
Don't understand nwadays teens why so "daring" lah, I'm rather a conservative type of guy so don't actually know how to answer your doubts, sorry...Originally posted by Celestine88:wa...if like that never do anything no intercourse yet..then get shotgun, damned bo hua leh...
die lah then on the street can see many teens with big balloon under uniform liao. every teenager couples also do petting one mah.
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Hope to b your frd forever, Mike signing off