How will you get over it?

• bus

  7 Feb 04, 22:28

  Wow. After reading all your threads about all your respective sad pasts make me join this thread.
  
  Yes, I did associate with someone for 6 months and well, it is all over. The problems lies with her inability to solve/get over her Family/Personal Past bad experiences. As time goes by, I feel it is meaningless to drag on as she is indirectly wasting my time to find my TRUE HAPPINESS as she knew she can't COMMIT herself to me despite not letting me go. I start asking "What/Who/Where I stand in her heart"
  
  I do feel sad about time and do want to contact her again but I bear with it as I tell myself I must get over this issue or else I will never recover.
  
  I guess determination and time are 2 factors that are needed to pull oneself out of this situation and to look for someone else whom deserve U better.
  
  All the best to U all. Valentine Day is becoming a day where I will stay at home wishing that PARTICULAR day will be over ASAP. Thanks.
• Lingos

  8 Feb 04, 12:30

  Originally posted by WrX_STi:

  slowly waiting for the next person..

  It also helps if you don't have mutual friends.
  
  Also don't brood over what had happened and who was at fault. It doesn't matter, just move on.
• ontrack

  9 Feb 04, 11:46

  You people have been great with the replies.
  
  It's been 4 days.I try to pack my schedule with work and stuff i enjoy.Moemories of the past do keep coming back and at times,it really hurts to know that it's all over.
  
  God give me the strength and will to get over these trouble times.
• Lingos

  11 Feb 04, 08:24

  Fantastic Ontrack!
  Remember that you don't need her problems affecting your life in a negative way.
  Be positive and enjoy singlehood.