Is there anything wrong in it??
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Originally posted by RainbowPrincess:Precious,
Let HIM call u : ) Let HIM SMS u : ) Sometimes it's difficult, but when he's bz, the last thg he needs is to check his fone for texts asking how he is, etc etc etc.
It's hard, believe me, I noe how it feels, believe me. When he calls, tell him tt u din wanna disturb him, tt was why u din contact him. I think he'll appreciate ur thoughtfulness : ) My guy did : )
Gd luck!
RP
Ya. It's hard not to keep in contact wif one u love n esp. when both used to do so in the past. But how many days could u wait? 2 days, 3 days, a week or more? -
This is a personal INSTINCTIVE opinion... Err...Originally posted by Prec|ous:Farmer : u are cool n understanding. I understand that it is my fault. But i cant be blame partly bcos after the quarrel, he basically neber keep in contact wif me. Now i realli dunoe wat his daily lifestyle is liao.
When i met him yest, he is so cool n stern. N he sat in his car to pass me my disc(which i borrow fm him) he din say much nor any expression to show that he miss me. It's like pass n go.
Abt a hr later, i sms him n ask him if we could tok. he call me back. In a frustrated tone, he reply me when i ask him how is he these few days, he say " dun u noe that im bz all these days?', then i say i noe. Trying to find out how u r cos u r not ard to tok to me, and tis is making me uneasy. Then again i ask him if he had forgiven me (cos i send a sorry sms to him previous nite, but no reply). Then he say forgive wat?. Haiz..nvm Then i ask him if there is anything wrong between us? he say no. Then i ask him if he had reach home, he say yes n i ask him to haf a early rest n gd nite. It's only later part, his tone change to beta.Haiz..
I felt suckyt after hearing his response n tone, but was relief when he say there was nothing wrong. But i still wondering if he still haf the same feeling. If not, i guess, this vday, it wun mean anything more special to me. Btw,he din mention anything abt vday to me also..
Either you're BUGGING him too much or there's something REALLY WRONG with him....
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it all after the quarrel. Wehave many quarrels. n i think mostly i startedthem first. Now that he wanted to concentrate onhis career i guess. Frenz relate their experience to me that saying the r/s is normal. Some din even get in contact wif their gf/ some even 1-3 weeks cost due to bz schedule at work. They keep telling me that he is bz that y he sounded a bit frustrsated. I was being very free at work, yearn for his attention affection which i understand that i cannot be done since he work everyday, n i cant expect him to meet me as n when i like. i juz nid to get adjusted to it now cos it was not the same way as b4.
Maybe im thinking too much here n there n thus adding pressure to him. I dun realli call him unccessary. He make the calling when he got something to share or go out. I only sms himthose misc sms recently cos he is so cold towards me.Haiz..Love sux