V-DAy Hoo Ha...(a tot from me)
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its juz a day once a yr...
even u are romantic throughout the year..
juz make this day more special..its juz once a yr anyway...
that girl u haf nw is someone u love.. seeing her happy..makes u happy too right..
when u rebuke her idea bout v-day..haf u tot of her feelings? hw disappointed she can be..hw she think of u..
nt that girls want to compare between each others boyfriends, if u are really good.. y scared of comparisions? She will appreciate u if u are really good.
u may nt haf to spend alot of money to make that day really sweet, romantic.. like what rainbow princess said.. cooking a meal and enjoying it together can be as sweet...juz that whether u want to put in the effort anot..its the effort that counts. -
*nodz nodz*
Many pple dun understand the word, "EFFORT"
Juz buy a diamond ring, buy somethg expensive, & tt's it, end of story.
But wat abt little thgs which shd matter the most? : )
RPOriginally posted by twinkle_stars:its juz a day once a yr...
even u are romantic throughout the year..
juz make this day more special..its juz once a yr anyway...
that girl u haf nw is someone u love.. seeing her happy..makes u happy too right..
when u rebuke her idea bout v-day..haf u tot of her feelings? hw disappointed she can be..hw she think of u..
nt that girls want to compare between each others boyfriends, if u are really good.. y scared of comparisions? She will appreciate u if u are really good.
u may nt haf to spend alot of money to make that day really sweet, romantic.. like what rainbow princess said.. cooking a meal and enjoying it together can be as sweet...juz that whether u want to put in the effort anot..its the effort that counts. -
Originally posted by twinkle_stars:its juz a day once a yr...
even u are romantic throughout the year..
juz make this day more special..its juz once a yr anyway...
that girl u haf nw is someone u love.. seeing her happy..makes u happy too right..
when u rebuke her idea bout v-day..haf u tot of her feelings? hw disappointed she can be..hw she think of u..
nt that girls want to compare between each others boyfriends, if u are really good.. y scared of comparisions? She will appreciate u if u are really good.
u may nt haf to spend alot of money to make that day really sweet, romantic.. like what rainbow princess said.. cooking a meal and enjoying it together can be as sweet...juz that whether u want to put in the effort anot..its the effort that counts.
twinkle_stars: Your post was written to seem like i'm biase against V-day. Trying to talk me out... Haha. Alamak....i'm ok!Originally posted by RainbowPrincess:*nodz nodz*
Many pple dun understand the word, "EFFORT"
Juz buy a diamond ring, buy somethg expensive, & tt's it, end of story.
But wat abt little thgs which shd matter the most? : )
RP
I'm just posting my tot, about the people's perception on V-day,... not against it V day itself.
About the rebuke statement. Which didn't happen. I made sure that we have a common ground expectation from one another so that V-day won't be a day that we give points to one another when they do things right. Your are right with the effort comments.
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I went for a morning jog with her and suppose to go fishing after that. Very unromantic hor. Haha!
My findings for this year was.
The trend wasn't bouquet of roses (very few couples were seen holding a bouquet of flower! Surprise man!)
Just for information sake.
(i bought Lilies for her. And spent 36 sleepless hours to fine-tune a PP Presentation for her.)
Anyway, she wanted the present and presentation but not the Lilies...she said too paiseh to bring home. She told me that i was supposed to bring it to her house. (I suppose it a girl's thing - you can never fully satisfy a girl)
V-Day was just like other days. Presents and Effort made the difference! -
My tots are, one can still be lomantique without going to the expense of going through the commercialisation chain. Most things lomantique comes from the simplest tots and actions.. there are myraids of ways to do it.. but of course, you will have to suit the likings of your partner..
All in all somehow i feel that v-day is more a day for ladies.. Most things are really commercialised for guys to please ladies.. flowers fancy dinner ambience etc etc.. -
agree.. .Originally posted by Ecxentrique:My tots are, one can still be lomantique without going to the expense of going through the commercialisation chain. Most things lomantique comes from the simplest tots and actions.. there are myraids of ways to do it.. but of course, you will have to suit the likings of your partner..
All in all somehow i feel that v-day is more a day for ladies.. Most things are really commercialised for guys to please ladies.. flowers fancy dinner ambience etc etc..