Ugly ducklings

• Farmer Brown

  14 Feb 04, 00:45

  Originally posted by Gedanken:

  Certainly you have to get into it, but at the end of the day it's more about the both of you gaining something when, as two seperate entities, intertwine and are enriched by the relationship.

  well.. thats what i meant actually when i said not to give yourself fully.. haha
  
  
• Farmer Brown

  14 Feb 04, 00:50

  Originally posted by RainbowPrincess:

  Farmer Brown,
  
  If u meant being clingy when u mentioned giving ur life to ur exes, mebbi u cld give ur next gf some space? : )
  
  RP
  
  

  RP ah... i was not clingy.. it wasn't about space and all.. ok maybe it is.. i just felt compelled to devote myself to them and it turned out wrong cause there were plenty of times i had to lie that i was studyin or sleepin or something else just to do my own stuff.
  
  i often had to face snide remarks whenever i told my exes that i wanted to do my own thing. things like "yah lor i'm not as interesting as (the thing i wanted to do)"
  
  or "sure.. go ahead.. i dun mind.. go spend more time on...." u see? sigh....
• Gedanken

  14 Feb 04, 03:35

  Originally posted by M©+square:

  This article is well-written. I'm impressed. Impressed with a tinge of sorrow.
  
  

  Thanks, MC2 - I'm glad you appreciate the aspect of sorrow that underlies the post. However, it is characteristic of the human spirit that we rise above sorrow, and that is the entire point of my post. That is the reason why I quoted the Bear.
  
  
• RainbowPrincess

  14 Feb 04, 11:22

  *laffs* U got clingy gfs??? Mebbi they're Not old enuff to realise tt u wan/need space U're younger than me afterall, old maids r more experienced than young birds
  
  So, moral of the story? Treasure ur old mother hens, dun juz pamper ur young spring chickens
  
  RP
  
  

  Originally posted by Farmer Brown:

  RP ah... i was not clingy.. it wasn't about space and all.. ok maybe it is.. i just felt compelled to devote myself to them and it turned out wrong cause there were plenty of times i had to lie that i was studyin or sleepin or something else just to do my own stuff.
  
  i often had to face snide remarks whenever i told my exes that i wanted to do my own thing. things like "yah lor i'm not as interesting as (the thing i wanted to do)"
  
  or "sure.. go ahead.. i dun mind.. go spend more time on...." u see? sigh....

• Farmer Brown

  14 Feb 04, 13:20

  Originally posted by RainbowPrincess:

  *laffs* U got clingy gfs??? Mebbi they're Not old enuff to realise tt u wan/need space U're younger than me afterall, old maids r more experienced than young birds
  
  So, moral of the story? Treasure ur old mother hens, dun juz pamper ur young spring chickens
  
  RP
  
  

  RP, they were both older then me.. the first one was my senior.. the second was 4 mths older(fine...technically older)
  
  and aren't girls supposed to be 2 years more mature then guys the same age?
• RainbowPrincess

  14 Feb 04, 14:38

  They're still young wat...
  
  U can try the Ashton/Demi kinda r'ship wat
  
  Experienced women r v. v. sexy
  
  RP
  
  

  Originally posted by Farmer Brown:

  RP, they were both older then me.. the first one was my senior.. the second was 4 mths older(fine...technically older)
  
  and aren't girls supposed to be 2 years more mature then guys the same age?

• Farmer Brown

  14 Feb 04, 14:40

  Originally posted by RainbowPrincess:

  They're still young wat...
  
  U can try the Ashton/Demi kinda r'ship wat
  
  Experienced women r v. v. sexy
  
  RP
  
  

  hmmm i'm 21.. you're 2*... (won't reveal your age)
  
  you're not implyin anything are u? haha sorry.. not interested in r'ships with anyone or anything...WAHAHAHA
• Gedanken

  14 Feb 04, 20:05

  Originally posted by RainbowPrincess:

  Experienced women r v. v. sexy
  

  I'll vouch for that!
• M©+square

  4 Mar 04, 11:04

  Originally posted by Gedanken:

  Thanks, MC2 - I'm glad you appreciate the aspect of sorrow that underlies the post. However, it is characteristic of the human spirit that we rise above sorrow, and that is the entire point of my post. That is the reason why I quoted the Bear.
  
  

  Hey Gedanken,
  i re read your post again....this time with a very emotional and heavy heart. I nearly teared!
  
  Humans will and always rise above the sorrowness we had experienced.
  We have the power of choice.
  
  Anyway....i'm going copy this article and share it with those are still lying within their sorrows.
  Do you mind?
  
• Gedanken

  6 Mar 04, 23:49

  No, not at all, MC2 - I'd in fact be flattered!
  
  It was a bit of a surprise to see this thread pop up again - I'd almost forgetten that I'd written it!