Masturbation Worries
-
Hi
Self intro first, I am a 20 year old guy. Actually I also faced similar masturbation problem during the age between 12 to about 15++. Just like you, I find it hard to control myself and just wanting to do it often, very often maybe worse, 3 times a day I can still remember and lasting 3 months after which I start to tone down. The worst thing was my results during exams are just like roller coaster! I felt guilty over it, at times I ask myself what the f*** am I doing, is this my real nature? NO, I have to fight this thought. My mind was strong enough to prevent myself from doing wrong things. So I start to keep myself BUSY with work. I took up taekwondo, and learn self discipline. Then I posed up another challenge for myself, if I can resist the masturbation urge for 1 day, I will reward myself with something, like buyin some ice-cream to eat. As time goes by, I lengthened my challenge, I can still remember my highest record was 1 month without masturbation, from then I know I have succeeded in self control. Nowadays, I can easily stop masturbation for 3 weeks, even under the influence of porn pics. I am not joking, serious.
I kept telling myself that I would not want my parents to worry about me unduly, that's the spirit that keep me fighting on with the temptation.
Trust me, if I can do it, so can you, the key once again, KEEP URSELF BUSY, at the end of the day, you will feel tired. Even a dick in front of you, u will show no interest in it after a tired day. Or you can go running everything you start to have the thoughts, run for a kilometre or 2. U will be damn tired and also, try not to be alone in the house, be around with your family or rather if your mother go out to the market, follow her, then you will have no time to think about it. Or you can also ask ur classmates out for revision. Most importantly, never never get bf at this point of the time until you have learn to conquer ur masturbation thoughts. Serious, I have seen a case of tragedy of what can happened if the urge is not under control. I will with-held the name of the case I have seen for privacy purpose.
Once again, wish you luck, YOU CAN FIGHT IT!! =0)
Yours sincerely
Grey ( A mix of good and evil ) -
After seeing your other topic regarding sleeping with your brother you might as well just enjoy masturbating each other!
http://incest.sexplanets.com/siblings
It is a great place to get ideas and to fantasize about sex with your sibling!
------------------
Closet Consanguinal Crusader
http://taboo.sexplanets.com -
This gal can help you sure: http://www.angelfire.com.weird/airen117
-
Some christians preach control and discipline. But if you control too much you will be too horny to contrrol yourself when you are seduced by your BF! Masterbating more than once a day is good for health... It's good excercise - good for your heart! At least, that's what doctors said in mag.
So next time b4 you go meet your BF, masterbate 1st - the safest way!!!
Make sense??
------------------
Math Online Tuition > www.math4.esmartstudent.com
Interesting Brainteasers N Web Puzzle Treasurehunt > www.webpuzzles-treasurehunt.com -
If you musturbate, that means you are mature enough to know about sex. Whether enough to be on the safe side or not, I do not know. What makes you want to musturbate and do it everyday? Is it because of somebody, boredom or just lust. In any case, it is still normal and consider healthy. It has nothing to do with loosing your energy but instead will refreshens you after doing it. You should feel satisfied and happy after your session of musturbation. I recommend you seek council at school to find the actual cause for your tierdness in school. Do not worry about telling them about your sexual interest for it will help them more to help you. You may also try eating better diets and getting enough rest.
-
Anyway, if you are going to go for the real thing, do it right and protect yourself.
Probably best not to have sex in such an early stage of your life. -
NO SWEAT,girl...i masturbate when i am ur age...having to masturbate almost everynite...but ever since my parents put away all those porno dis...i cut down and NOW...i not even -bit- of interested!!!!
trust-me
smie:=) -
you are only 14. try to divert your attention to other thing like study ECA etc. And warning to guys out there, it's illegal to have sex with underage girl. think about the recent scandal.
-
hay dear
it is not a problem you enjoy your life as you like if u take your finger its good for you not use any thing for masturbation it would be harmfull for you dont warry done it every day r 2r3 times in a day and dont think about it it is normal sex is a life every man born for sex its a safe and no pain in this style of sex it never effect on health and enerages and other parts of body it relix our bodys carry on -
Hey...don't stop masturbating......
It's bad for your health!! kekeke
keep it up. Best thing if you can come find me for the real thing. :p -
Lord:
I find you most contradictory. I do hope you know that it is illegal to have sex with a underaged girl, and that includes >16 yr olds. It is not unhealthy to maturbate, but it would soon be if it is done at an excessive rate. -
I found this site which will be quite useful for you. If I'm not mistaken, you people in Singapore have sex education in school. But this site contains more than you want to know.
http://www.scarleteen.com
http://www.scarleteen.com/pink/goingblind.html
Take notes.
[This message has been edited by glscglsc (edited 21 March 2001).] -
Its PathEtic ... Sum relly sick ppl like advertising dun they
Dun play up to the party
If you dun wish to dance
All this bullsh*tnd F***
Just for a lil romance -
It's really stupid for you to think that people who are trying to help are actually advertising. This will make you helpless in future. It's fact that you did not even read what's in there yet and you are already insulting people.
-
hi,
this is one of the funniest thread i read.
u guys r kool man,
this's actually a facko posting the thread...
n there r so many ppl keen on giving advices and sharin experiences.
haha, this has to be the jerry springer/ opra winfrey version of a forum. -
Hmm....Originally posted by dante:hi,
this is one of the funniest thread i read.
u guys r kool man,
this's actually a facko posting the thread...
n there r so many ppl keen on giving advices and sharin experiences.
haha, this has to be the jerry springer/ opra winfrey version of a forum.
------------------
ße COOL, NOT s¢rr¥.... -
Dont worry.
Happens all the time
From wat i know....or believe that i know, it's just a part of growing up and learning abt your own body functions and wat exactly....erm.... interests your...erm.... ah...body. It's just part of your learning process so just dont fret.
Hey! i've got frenz who are more active than that....it's like they do it before sch, then after sch and before bedtime hahaa! But sooner or later they get a grip on their hormones and look at them now. They are fine and leading normal lives. So dont worry. Be HAPPY. not like me....sad all the time.... -
It's perfectly normal to masturbate. I would recommend any parent to discreetly "allow" their child to do it or at least talk to them about doing it. It's self-exploration, we're now so afraid to even say words pertaining to sex. Movies get censored or rated R(A) because of sex. People don't seem to know that it's so perfectly normal that sex is the center of our lives and what makes the world go round. It's just how each and everyone handles it.
Growing up will always encounter hormonal changes in a teenagers' body. And don't believe all that God crap about sin and how masturbation is related to the Devil etc. It's ALL CRAP! We didn't evolve to have hands reaching down there. If the Gods didn't want us to masturbate, our hands would have been way shorter!
P/S: If you can't seem to stop doing it, don't bother to. Perfect the art of masturbation! Be a master to your own body! -
Its normal to masturbate but u mus learn to control. dun do it every dae or u will slowly find yrself tiring out yrself. if possible use a vibrator, so that u wunt be so tired b4 the juice come out..
-
wait for the cum to come out.
-
-
lolx... yes u cannot masturbate in army camps as its illegal against army law. But not when u're at home or outside.... lolxx...Originally posted by jliu:I like to WARN you people, don't masturbate. Your Mothers and Fathers never tell you not to masturbate, but you know better than them that when you learn to control yourself, you learn the value of SELF-DISCIPLINE. I have to go through NS to learn that. I think people have a tendency to pleasure themselves and SELF-DISCIPLINE gives them a challenge in their lives. IF you dont believe in SELF-DISCIPLINE, someday there can be a BIG PROBLEM. -
wes brown....when will u take over???
-
pls control -
Face = so-soOriginally posted by skycrawler:wes brown....when will u take over???
Body = YEAH BABY YEAH!