Need Advice....
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If you as a guy have a GF and you likes another gal whom u think is much better then your current GF ...
If you as a gal have a BF and you likes another guy whom u think is much better then your current BF ...
what should you do?? -
Please define... "much better".Originally posted by SuN^sEt:If you as a guy have a GF and you likes another gal whom u think is much better then your current GF ...
If you as a gal have a BF and you likes another guy whom u think is much better then your current BF ...
I think having a partner and then having second thoughts just because you see a better one coming your way is quite childish leh.
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donno leh..will tell you when i meet one.
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'much better' as in??
tink most impt is who loves and cares for u more and is indeed true to you. uso shd be able to take good care of you, whom u can trust and lean on. -
You should do some self-reflection. Think of what you really want.
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You should do some self-reflection. Think of what you really want.
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better as in better in anyways ... like character , independant etc etcOriginally posted by MooKu:Please define... "much better".
I think having a partner and then having second thoughts just because you see a better one coming your way is quite childish leh.
Anyway its not me loh...
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better as in better in anyways ... like character , independant etc etcOriginally posted by MooKu:Please define... "much better".
I think having a partner and then having second thoughts just because you see a better one coming your way is quite childish leh.
in general loh...
Anyway its not me loh... -
no lah. the "you" is used generally.. heh.Originally posted by SuN^sEt:better as in better in anyways ... like character , independant etc etc
in general loh...
Anyway its not me loh... 
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okei...Originally posted by MooKu:no lah. the "you" is used generally.. heh.
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If i ever were to commit, i would commit till death do us part. If I EVER commit, which is highly unlikely.
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yi san hai you yi san gao... how many more r u going to compare?
By the time u tot u hav found the right one, u r one minute from being six feet underground...
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I thought it depends more on chemistry and feeling?
Your current gf/bf may not be the best person with the best character in the world , but he/she is def the one you loved most -
nothing...Originally posted by SuN^sEt:If you as a guy have a GF and you likes another gal whom u think is much better then your current GF ...
If you as a gal have a BF and you likes another guy whom u think is much better then your current BF ...
what should you do?? -
Originally posted by SuN^sEt:If you as a guy have a GF and you likes another gal whom u think is much better then your current GF ...
If you as a gal have a BF and you likes another guy whom u think is much better then your current BF ...
what should you do?? There are weakness/flaws in every partner no matter how strong their strength is to veil them or whatever karmic magnetic pull there is. In the end, its not the best qualities that wins - it's the best suitability.
Sugar with prata taste good - but doesn't mean sugar with water taste well, irregardless of the quality of sugar.
Cheers -
Basically there's nothing you can do...
You cannot have two people on your mind in a relationship.
This will definitely not work out.
What i suggest is that if you're in this kind of situation,
do stick to your current girlfriend/boyfriend .
It is definitely unfair to them if you break up just because
of a new found friend.
All the best. -
Alrite, call me Naive/Gullible/Idealistic, wat haf u... But I'd rather stay this way...
I haf a bf, & by many pple's definitions, he comes up "short" against other guys. He doesn't haf a degree, he doesn't haf a high-flying career, he doesn't earn mega bucks & so he can't afford to "gimme much" <-- I quote him.
But to me, he's downright gorgeous, & he's the best guy in the world. He's my best fren & confidante, he makes a r'ship fun, we do thgs together, he's my rock & I wldn't swap him for another guy.
Why? Cosh there's Nobody else better. He doesn't gimme baubles nor expensive items & he doesn't take me to expensive restaurants. But he's still the best. Why? He gave me his heart, he buys little trinkets whenever he's out, for absolutely NO reason other than cosh he thot of me whilst shopping. He cooks meals for me, & makes the effort to decorate it nicely, & to make it yummy.
So, I'm wif him, he gives me ev. thg I need, all the love I wan. Why wld I think anyone is better? : )
RPOriginally posted by SuN^sEt:If you as a guy have a GF and you likes another gal whom u think is much better then your current GF ...
If you as a gal have a BF and you likes another guy whom u think is much better then your current BF ...
what should you do?? -
aww that's sweet! both of him being so nice & u being so understanding! rare indeed!Originally posted by RainbowPrincess:Alrite, call me Naive/Gullible/Idealistic, wat haf u... But I'd rather stay this way...
I haf a bf, & by many pple's definitions, he comes up "short" against other guys. He doesn't haf a degree, he doesn't haf a high-flying career, he doesn't earn mega bucks & so he can't afford to "gimme much" <-- I quote him.
But to me, he's downright gorgeous, & he's the best guy in the world. He's my best fren & confidante, he makes a r'ship fun, we do thgs together, he's my rock & I wldn't swap him for another guy.
Why? Cosh there's Nobody else better. He doesn't gimme baubles nor expensive items & he doesn't take me to expensive restaurants. But he's still the best. Why? He gave me his heart, he buys little trinkets whenever he's out, for absolutely NO reason other than cosh he thot of me whilst shopping. He cooks meals for me, & makes the effort to decorate it nicely, & to make it yummy.
So, I'm wif him, he gives me ev. thg I need, all the love I wan. Why wld I think anyone is better? : )
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much better..is a thing,but than..suitable for being together anot...is another thing..
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*grinz* Yeah... He's darling, ain't he? : )
But posts like these make me wonder... When u're wif someone, dun u think he/she is the most gorgeous/prettiest, the most wonderful person ard?
I like to think so : ) And so does he : )
RPOriginally posted by True_Xerion:aww that's sweet! both of him being so nice & u being so understanding! rare indeed! -
that is almost the case,i think.. u will think someone else will be better only when u are bored with the relationship.Originally posted by RainbowPrincess:*grinz* Yeah... He's darling, ain't he? : )
But posts like these make me wonder... When u're wif someone, dun u think he/she is the most gorgeous/prettiest, the most wonderful person ard?
I like to think so : ) And so does he : )
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What do you mean by better?
RP always has romantic posts for relationship issues. Heheh.
Hmm.. i'm trying to wreck my brain for something like that, but i can't. I'm just no romantic. Heheh. -
Here, is where how much a couple treasures each other comes in.
If u're sure u wanna spend the rest of ur life wif tt person, u'll do watever to takes to make the other smilez, & watever tt person does for u will make u smilez.
A hugz, a kiss, cuddling in front of the TV, etc, may seem boring to some. But when a love is deep, will it become boring? I dun think so : )
We started out as best frens, my guy & I, we did thgs best frens do, & we're still doing it even tho we're now a couple. Haf we gotten bored? No...
It depends on an indiv's perspective & priorities. Are u willing to make the r'ship fun? Will the pillow-fights cease? Will the teasing & flirting end between a couple? It's up to them : )
Some take these thgs as routine after awhile & dun bother to think of the partner anymore. But when both indivs r committed to making a r'ship work, they'll think of ways to make the partner laff & the partner will appreciate it.
As I've emphasised over & over again, being in a r'ship means u think for 2, Not juz for urself. If pple can understand this, then the probability of boredom setting in cld be greatly reduced : )
RPOriginally posted by lolsuck:that is almost the case,i think.. u will think someone else will be better only when u are bored with the relationship. -
Eh, u're more romantic than u give urself credit for : )
U & ur guy do the laundry together, tt's v. romantic, pls
Romance doesn't hafta mean the exact same thg to ev. body, it doesn't always hafta be abt flowers & chocolates
Me??? I think I'm beyond hope oredi lah
RPOriginally posted by Lingos:What do you mean by better?
RP always has romantic posts for relationship issues. Heheh.
Hmm.. i'm trying to wreck my brain for something like that, but i can't. I'm just no romantic. Heheh. -
Love what you have or having what you love? I guess getting to know someone well is not easy, even the one you think is better may not be the best, so there is always someone better.. so when do you stop the comparison?Originally posted by SuN^sEt:If you as a guy have a GF and you likes another gal whom u think is much better then your current GF ...
If you as a gal have a BF and you likes another guy whom u think is much better then your current BF ...
what should you do??
I agree with mooku.. its a childish way to view a relationship by comparing with people? what do you think he/she is? a commodity?