Not a virgin?How much can you accept?
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if the gal wanna lie....it'll be rest of her life....in guilt.Originally posted by Angles:To those virgins out thr be proud if you are one keep it up, you wont regret your choice at least I have not regret mine but pls don condemn those who aint. You nv know one day u might b part of the non V grp and others saying u too. (things r unpredictable esp feelings)
Love = loving the person everytink including their past.
What some say tinks used cannot be unused... actually you don really love him/her, you just want possession of them to be your own, irregardless is person or tinks. (although I admit will have funny feeling). when you wan them to only yours, its ideal thought however thr is no perfection. So some people don mind monster to be their them partner than (attitude,character etc) in order to want a virgin partner?
People can accept divorced ppl but no sex b4 marriage. actuali both same products, diff approach. Besides, if ur partner is determined to lie, I doubt you can find out. Lastly, If one is willingly to give up someone who is willingly to die for jus bcos they aint Vs just to want a V. I seriously tink sth nds to change. Its hard to find someone who goes thru thick and thin but easy to find virgins even in a time like this.
if the gal can marry a guy she love, it means that its becuz of love. so why she can't give her 1st to the guy whom she married as she love him? ended up giving to a person whom she doesn't love at all in the past. -
if the gal wanna lie....it'll be rest of her life....in guilt.
you don just love one tink or person in ur life.
if the gal can marry a guy she love, it means that its becuz of love. so why she can't give her 1st to the guy whom she married as she love him? ended up giving to a person whom she doesn't love at all in the past.
besides i realise its the guys minding more than the girls in terms of such issues. people make mistake. besides, not ppl will feel guilt. and there r ppl who r willingly to accept. so they won b left alone, just no nd to discriminate them. -
True it is always about the guy who is more concerned about it. This is because of ego and how the guy thinks. We always treat our partners like precious things or a pet, as such we feel uncomfortable if someone has been close to it.
Example girls like to share their clothes with friends or relatives. For guys, although some of us shared clothes, we dun not really feel comfortable. -
for me...no problem.
As long as when we faithful 2 each other when we R to 2gether can..
...if she not V......no prob.
dun sleep arnd not lose type can loh -
I hope Singaporean be more advanced:
- Who care virgin or not
- Who care who is doing housework, of course any gender can do it -
again.....since virgin is not important....Originally posted by chualcsg:I hope Singaporean be more advanced:
- Who care virgin or not
- Who care who is doing housework, of course any gender can do it
pls...all give me.....
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hving less morals is not = to being more advanced.Originally posted by chualcsg:I hope Singaporean be more advanced:
- Who care virgin or not
- Who care who is doing housework, of course any gender can do it -
u oni live once, same theory apply to virginity..it depends on how the gers lose it
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ppl are keeping their morals not bcos they really hav any but becos they fear wat the society will see them so they keep their sexual desire under control... its not sth natural, how moral can tt be... And pls stop condemning girls for it. Its also out of love the gals gave in, to some of the beasts in your kind. No gal will go hunting for sex, even thr is either to fufill desire o for money. Cases like tt is rare.
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I don't think anyone would accept someone who goes beyond holding hands and keeping with too many partners. Would you? I doubt so. -
well, depends not all cant accept....diff ppl diff tinking
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well, depends not all cant accept....diff ppl diff tinking... as u can see fr some ppl replies
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I would really want my husband to be a virgin and i myself must b a virgin too
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I love my partner for who she is and not whether she's a virgin anot
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are you still one?Originally posted by Eternal Wind:I love my partner for who she is and not whether she's a virgin anot -
if you were to choose between true love and virginity issue, which will you choose?Originally posted by silver chris:I would really want my husband to be a virgin and i myself must b a virgin too
if he/she is willing to go the extent for you? while some virgins cant?
who will you choose?
Forumers? what's your opinion? -
dun really like the word 'used'.
i feel that if u really love someone, u wont mind his/her past. -
saying seems easier than done... and even they do... they probably treat their partners not as good as they would have treat them if them were still a virgin... this theoritically only applies to guys because afterall its the guys' kind that such things do happen but they are also the one who mind the most.Originally posted by babo:dun really like the word 'used'. i feel that if u really love someone, u wont mind his/her past. -
Can accept!
If you are not a virgin yourself, on what grounds do you have to condemn ppl?
If you are a virgin yourself, then, its a different story....
But, it also depends on one's mentality regarding the virginity issues!
Aiyah, normally its the guys who can't accept one lah... -
[quote]Originally posted by donjng:
Can accept!
If you are not a virgin yourself, on what grounds do you have to condemn ppl?
If you are a virgin yourself, then, its a different story....
But, it also depends on one's mentality regarding the virginity issues!
[b]Aiyah, normally its the guys who can't accept one lah...[/b][/quote]
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virgins still no right to condem... laughing at ppl no good, it might come back to you three folds... just be proud of yourself that you are -
Originally posted by Angles:saying seems easier than done... and even they do... they probably treat their partners not as good as they would have treat them if them were still a virgin... this theoritically only applies to guys because afterall its the guys' kind that such things do happen but they are also the one who mind the most.
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as long as guy dont have too many sex partner before(less than 3 perhaps) but those not so open minded one will mind i guess
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Why do people have sex? It's mainly for two reasons: 1] For pleasure 2] Reproduction. You don't have sex with a person because you love her/him as love can be expressed in other ways like chopping your limbs, gouging out the eyes or digging out your heart.
As long as these two purposes can be achieved with your partner, it doesn't matter what she is.*
*Applicable only if your partner is free from STDs and HIV. -
i mixed with bad company in primary 6 and sec 1.
i fell for a girl in sec 1 too.
for her sake
i tried to change
and now sec 2 im a changed person, and finally with her.
she knows abt my past.
she doesn't mind at all. the important thing to her is whether i reallie love her or not.
love is like a rollercoaster. ups and downs. but what u get at the end is truly up to u. if u keep as close to ur seat as possible during the ride, and not daring to look out, you wun haf much fun. but if u let urself go and truly scream in joy (~not literally~) and let it all out during the ride, you'll haf the hell of a good time.
if u noe wad i mean.
just my 2 cents' worth.
PeAcE~ -
no of parnters in the past is meaningless. that guy or gal can change and be very faithful to the current parnter, so its the heart n love that is the most important. u go into a relationship is becos of love from both parties. if u love him or her u have to accept his or her past. but pls make sure he or her is not those flirty 1 who will go behind u and start dating others or sleeping with others,