My stead doesn't wanna forgive me.
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Dear Mark,
go back to your remedial classes and tuition..
Study hard so that you can get somewhere in life and the girls will flock to you.
Aunt Lingos has no time and patience for childish antics. I would leave her alone if that's what she wants. Then she might come crawling back to you. -
why not you try not to disturb her for awhile and sees if she panics?
you might be serious bout this relationship and treasure it, she might not. Things like tt although when known can trigger anger but to her extent is abit way off. than again if she really behaves like tt, situation might just get worst no matter what you do. Some damage in a relationship can be serious till the point.. u noe wat i mean. -
relax dude.. u done ur job by smsing her. it prove u still care for her. till now she mayb blowing her head still.. relax..Originally posted by lovinghurts:
i juz smsed her wishing her good morning.. and askin her nt to ignore me anymore. but.. no reply. 
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at night drop her another sms.. for another 1,2 days still no reply i guess u haf to call her liaoz.. -
Seriously... I think there're limited things you can do even if you wanna as she's simply avoiding you (at least for the moment)?Originally posted by lovinghurts:What i'm afraid of:
1) She'll break wif me even b4 our 6 mth anniversary.
2) She might not want to go out wif me on tat day.
3) I dunno what to do to make that day special.
1) If she really wants to do that, there might be little you can do about it.
2) Same as (1).
3) That is up to you... -
Hmm...Originally posted by lovinghurts:In the meantime,
Should i continue smsing her ?
or Should i not bother about her ? My GUESS based on NOTHING is you should continue to sms her....
Then again. How old are the both of you and what are both of your horoscope signs? -
i'm 16 tis year and shes 14 this year. I'm leo, shes scopio. I know you guys might say that we are onli kids and asking to grow up and maybe some might juz ask to break wif her. But.. i wun.
. Anyway, she's forgiven me and once again, i would like to thank all of you guys here for ur advice.
many thanks,
mark
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congrats... treasure the time together and dun make foolish again..
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Originally posted by lovinghurts:i'm 16 tis year and shes 14 this year. I'm leo, shes scopio. I know you guys might say that we are onli kids and asking to grow up and maybe some might juz ask to break wif her. But.. i wun.. Anyway, she's forgiven me and once again, i would like to thank all of you guys here for ur advice.
many thanks,
mark Don't let anyone look down on you because you are young, but set an example for the believers in speech, in life, in love, in faith and in purity.
You can't hurry physical growth, but you can gain wisdom through enlightenment much faster if you are matured enough.
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hey congrats on ur yu guo tian qing.
when i read the first post.. i looked at the date.. thinking, wah so recent only, then i decided better read on first, had then inkling that this will blow over as quickly as it came.
sure enuff i read until the last post, and it's ok liow! ehhe
seriously, girs just need to sulk for a while. ESP young girls. hmm then again... the older ones too, just that they don't let their friends know in the event they think she's being childish? ahhaha
anyway.. bleah, treasure her, great that u are able to be responsible and sensible about relationships at a young age. go go go!!
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Originally posted by lovinghurts:i'm 16 tis year and shes 14 this year. I'm leo, shes scopio. I know you guys might say that we are onli kids and asking to grow up and maybe some might juz ask to break wif her. But.. i wun.. Anyway, she's forgiven me and once again, i would like to thank all of you guys here for ur advice.
many thanks,
mark 
You're welcome Mark. She won't be easy for you to handle especially when she's still at this age. Not asking you to give her up. But just don't neglect your studies ok? -
I'm gonna be really frank and offer you nothing but brutal honesty here. What i tell you is going to really hurt.
You really abused her trust from the thing that you did, even if its just holding arms with another gal. Just put yourself in her shoes. If she told you one day that she's been going out with this guy and just holding his arm, how would you take it?
Seriously, if she's not going to give you a 2nd chance, its totally because you don't deserve it at all. If you can bluff her once, chances is it'll happen again. 102%.
Trust doesn't take 6 months to build up, it takes eternity. And it takes only a moment of folly to ruin it all. And all i can say is you just ruined it. If she gives you another chance, good for you. If she doesn't, you damn hell deserved it. -
Dun worry. I'll study hard.. Lolx..
Anywayx.. Although it sounds quite sacarstic, but.. i'm not going to say anything bout it cuz i know its my fault and all i can do is to hope that she will forgive me and trust me once again.
Thanks again,
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two valuable pieces of adviceOriginally posted by lovinghurts:Hi Guys,
I've been together with my current stead for abt 6 mths already. During the second month, i did sth that i knew i shouldnt have done. I really regret it alot now. I went out wif a girl and the gal held hands with me. Its not really as in hold hand. She juz held onto my arm. But i didn't do anything.
I remember telling my stead that she did hold my hand. And hugged me at the end when i was taking cab. but she insistefd that i didn't tell her. She also say that i lie to her and she doesn't even want to talk to me now.
Since yesterday night when i send her home, she have been ignoring me until today. All the smses i send her, she only replied 8 or 9 smses. Cuz of my remedial today, i couldn't goto her school and wait for her to finish school. Therefore, after my remedial, i went to her house and waited for her.
In the beginning, when i told her that i was going to her house, she say dun need. Shes already at home. Then when i reached her house downstairs, she said that she is not at home and ask me to "GO HOME!". After that, i knew that she was at home. Then, i stayed downstairs and she came down with her mom.
In the end, i had to run. I ran into the lift and went up to 12 storey. Then i told her that i will wait for her. But ask her not to be afraid cuz no one will see me there. She keep on asking me to "GO HOME ! I DUN WANNA SEE YOU !". I say that i will continue waiting for her even if she feels that i'm irritating.
Then all of a sudden, she smsed me and say that "GO HOME LARX.. i also neber say going to break wif you.. GO LAR !". Then i had no choice but to go home. I dunno whether does she realli mean it or wad. But.. until now.. I call her, she hang up. I sms her she never reply. I msg her in MSN, she also never reply.
I really do not know what to do and our six month anniversary is coming soon. I really treasure this relationship alot and hope that she will forgive me. Can anyone tell me what to do ?
Thanks,
Mark
JFI = Just f-u-c-k it
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u try to two time her wat..so wat do u expect?? wake up...u deserve nothing less in my opinion..just hope she continues to ignore you...or even better still hold on to some other guy's hand...Originally posted by lovinghurts:Hi Guys,
I've been together with my current stead for abt 6 mths already. During the second month, i did sth that i knew i shouldnt have done. I really regret it alot now. I went out wif a girl and the gal held hands with me. Its not really as in hold hand. She juz held onto my arm. But i didn't do anything.
I remember telling my stead that she did hold my hand. And hugged me at the end when i was taking cab. but she insistefd that i didn't tell her. She also say that i lie to her and she doesn't even want to talk to me now.
Since yesterday night when i send her home, she have been ignoring me until today. All the smses i send her, she only replied 8 or 9 smses. Cuz of my remedial today, i couldn't goto her school and wait for her to finish school. Therefore, after my remedial, i went to her house and waited for her.
In the beginning, when i told her that i was going to her house, she say dun need. Shes already at home. Then when i reached her house downstairs, she said that she is not at home and ask me to "GO HOME!". After that, i knew that she was at home. Then, i stayed downstairs and she came down with her mom.
In the end, i had to run. I ran into the lift and went up to 12 storey. Then i told her that i will wait for her. But ask her not to be afraid cuz no one will see me there. She keep on asking me to "GO HOME ! I DUN WANNA SEE YOU !". I say that i will continue waiting for her even if she feels that i'm irritating.
Then all of a sudden, she smsed me and say that "GO HOME LARX.. i also neber say going to break wif you.. GO LAR !". Then i had no choice but to go home. I dunno whether does she realli mean it or wad. But.. until now.. I call her, she hang up. I sms her she never reply. I msg her in MSN, she also never reply.
I really do not know what to do and our six month anniversary is coming soon. I really treasure this relationship alot and hope that she will forgive me. Can anyone tell me what to do ?
Thanks,
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mmm..i remember this phrase on one of ACPS's walls..heh.Originally posted by Yunhaier: Don't let anyone look down on you because you are young, but set an example for the believers in speech, in life, in love, in faith and in purity.
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Start calling me senior then.Originally posted by sgFish:mmm..i remember this phrase on one of ACPS's walls..heh. 