Incest???
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Got a question for u people out there....can someone advise me on what is incest?? Does loving someone who is your cousin(father side) consider incest??? Just falling in love and not doing anything sexually....can someone please advise me....I have fallen in love with my cousin.....
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eh... first u must know why incest is wrong lor...
its due to the dna thingy where like if ur dna damaged, then if someone with the same blood type will suffer the same defect.. then if u 2 screw screw, the kid will get screwed up.
i think father side cannot rite -
it's not incest if no sexual activities are involved.
are you very young? yours sound more like an infatuation to me. in any case, such kind of r/s is still very unacceptable in conservative singapore.
you might just end up like what your sig has indicated. -
Insect is small animal with segmented body and 6 legs. And it can really freak you out.
Oops! You mean incest, not insect.
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well, i don't think it's infatuation coz i'm not a young kid....i'm in my mid-twenties....we have the same feeling towards each other....i just wanna know what's the definition of INCEST....coz it's affecting us rather badly whenever this word comes into our mind....we're worried that if we do get together and no one in the family can accept this fact.....of coz there won't be any sexually actions done....
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both of u dating?Originally posted by goblin80:well, i don't think it's infatuation coz i'm not a young kid....i'm in my mid-twenties....we have the same feeling towards each other....i just wanna know what's the definition of INCEST....coz it's affecting us rather badly whenever this word comes into our mind....we're worried that if we do get together and no one in the family can accept this fact.....of coz there won't be any sexually actions done....
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is he/she a son/daughter of your father/mother's brother/sister?Originally posted by goblin80:well, i don't think it's infatuation coz i'm not a young kid....i'm in my mid-twenties....we have the same feeling towards each other....i just wanna know what's the definition of INCEST....coz it's affecting us rather badly whenever this word comes into our mind....we're worried that if we do get together and no one in the family can accept this fact.....of coz there won't be any sexually actions done.... -
She's my dad's brother's daughter....we are not dating....
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she told she like u?Originally posted by goblin80:She's my dad's brother's daughter....we are not dating.... -
not dating is ok. don't you feel awkward when there is gatherings with her around?Originally posted by goblin80:She's my dad's brother's daughter....we are not dating....
btw, are you on good terms with her ?(e.g. know her hp no. , her birthday, her likes & dislikes, ever gave her presents B4 for any kind of occasion?) -
It means that both of you would probably not be able to get a normal child. And probably alot of PRESSURE from the people around you too?Originally posted by goblin80:Got a question for u people out there....can someone advise me on what is incest?? Does loving someone who is your cousin(father side) consider incest??? Just falling in love and not doing anything sexually....can someone please advise me....I have fallen in love with my cousin..... -
Y shd i be awkward? We're always on very good terms...She has told me before dat she likes me as well.....i know alot abt her.....i have given her presents as well....does it matter??? BTW, we're of the same age....
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I never intend to have any intimate actions towards her.....the pressure around us is too much....i do believe that in such a conservative country n tradition chinese thinking, it will causes alot of stress n pressure....
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i guess if you really serious all the way. prepare for childless family. you sure ok. what about your parents?Originally posted by goblin80:Y shd i be awkward? We're always on very good terms...She has told me before dat she likes me as well.....i know alot abt her.....i have given her presents as well....does it matter??? BTW, we're of the same age.... -
I won't mind being childless or anything....now the problem lies in how should our family members be informed of this...they won't be able to accept all these.....especially my grandparents....
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your grandparents are not immortal. wait for a few years, by that time maybe you won't like your cousin anymore......Originally posted by goblin80:I won't mind being childless or anything....now the problem lies in how should our family members be informed of this...they won't be able to accept all these.....especially my grandparents.... -
Just worried that we will drift apart as we wanna avoid this issue....time will heal the pain but is it really such a good idea? U can live in disappointment but can never live in regrets.....
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How long have you been with your cousin? Perhaps you should just see how things go? I have a friend who used to fall in love with his cousin too. Now he's married with a kid. But not with his cousin.Originally posted by goblin80:I won't mind being childless or anything....now the problem lies in how should our family members be informed of this...they won't be able to accept all these.....especially my grandparents.... -
It's a DOUBLE.
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we have never been together before...we just have the special feelings for each other....we care alot for each other.....the feelings aroused only after we get to see each other more often in the past few months....she had this kinda feelings earlier than me.....at least this is what she told me.....
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tread carefully...
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if the two of you do not see each other as often, maybe the feelings will change.....Originally posted by goblin80:we have never been together before...we just have the special feelings for each other....we care alot for each other.....the feelings aroused only after we get to see each other more often in the past few months....she had this kinda feelings earlier than me.....at least this is what she told me..... -
If only we can avoid seeing each other.....rather impossible not to see each other.....everyone in the whole family knows that we r on very very good terms....so if she didn't come over for some time, they will keep asking me where is she, etc etc.....
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triple post