x2Originally posted by skeujin:its easy to 4giv bt u can nvr 4gt...
well trust takes alot of buildg up bt oni a single mistake to tear it all down. if u tink tt the r/s is worth saving n u hav the patience to start fresh. thn go for it.Originally posted by p|gGyPeN:Then what do u do??
carry on w the r/s? or otherwise?
x3Originally posted by True_Xerion:x2![]()
i nvr 4giv or 4gt my personal mistakes. this way ill remember nvr to do thm again...Originally posted by p|gGyPeN:how abt forgiving urself and forgetting the mistake u made??
i think its not ez ....
x4Originally posted by AdAptAliS:x3![]()
x2Originally posted by skeujin:well trust takes alot of buildg up bt oni a single mistake to tear it all down. if u tink tt the r/s is worth saving n u hav the patience to start fresh. thn go for it.
u shd always feel bad if u hav dissapointed yr partner. its up to her to forgive u n for u to make her hapi n in turn, her hapiness will b yours...Originally posted by p|gGyPeN:But if u dun forgive and forget ur mistake .. u'll always be guilty and always feel bad ... which doesn't make the r/s any better?
In what way is forgiving self? I don't know but i don't forget my mistakes, that is if one is kind enough to tell me about it, so that i won't commit them again.Originally posted by p|gGyPeN:how abt forgiving urself and forgetting the mistake u made??
i think its not ez ....
not forgettin one's mistakes in a r/s helps set the bar for the future of that r/s & IF it doesn't work out in the end, at least it'll be a reference point for next r/sOriginally posted by p|gGyPeN:But if u dun forgive and forget ur mistake .. u'll always be guilty and always feel bad ... which doesn't make the r/s any better?
i can almost always forget the small and unhappy stuffs in my life coz i m bo chup. yet i can't do it this time.Originally posted by laurence82:I forget them all, even forum quarrels or personal snipe which I ignore.
Forget about them, and move on. Life goes on anyway.
Dont sweat the small stuff!![]()
Its human to err. That mistake has happened, the only thing you can do is to prevent it from happening again ma. Its not running away from it, its accepting the presence and then prevent prevent and prevent.Originally posted by p|gGyPeN:i can almost always forget the small and unhappy stuffs in my life coz i m bo chup. yet i can't do it this time.
I think it's unhealthy never to bring things up again (not tt i want to) but ... its like running away from what has happened.