Originally posted by misery=(:i have tried to change but to no avail. the same problem still persist cos it is very diffcult to change my thinking and perception of things.
she has forgave me time and time again but i think this time, she means it. what should i do?
Originally posted by misery=(:i love my best friend. i want the best for her so much so that i become very paranoid when she takes a "different path" from what i perceive as the right one. she is like a very very dear sister to me. i really dont wish to see her being upset.
Originally posted by misery=(:things have reached such a stage that i dont know how to reconcile the differences anymore. there is much tension between us now and whenever we talk, we always end up quarrelling. now, she doesnt even want to see or talk to me. how?
let her cool down, just as you are upset, recognise the fact that so too is she, remember she juz broke up too y'know?Originally posted by misery=(:but she refuse to talk to me or see me
silly!Originally posted by misery=(:upset? i dont think she is upset. she sounded very cold yest when i called her. she said that she was busy at work and hang up. bet she went out with that guy tonight. so how can i be convinced that she is upset about this breakup? it is just me this moron who is upset
Originally posted by misery=(:Dear all
Today marks the 2nd day of my breakup with my best friend. i am feeling very miserable and lost. i have never want to let her go. i have never want to let go of this friendship. i cant bear to. i feel as if a major part of me has died.
she told me that she cant stand it anymore. i am a control freak. i expect her to tell me where and with who she is going out with. recently, she started seeing this guy which i feel that wasnt good enough and whenever she goes out with him, i would get very upset about it. my stand is that i want the best for her and i couldnt see why she doesnt view the same way.
these 2 days i have been doing lots of thinking. i know that it is all my fault that things turn out this way. i shouldnt impose my views on her but i cant help it. i just want the best for her and because of these differences, we quarrel almost everyday. i really dont know how to reconcile these differences and make myself change to "let go".
please help me. i really dont wish to lose her.
Originally posted by misery=(:things have reached such a stage that i dont know how to reconcile the differences anymore. there is much tension between us now and whenever we talk, we always end up quarrelling. now, she doesnt even want to see or talk to me. how?
Originally posted by nww16:i nv believe in platonic relationship wit the opp sex.......i think u should wake up ur idea liao....![]()