sigh...its THAT feeling again(part 2)
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hmmm seems i've slipped back in that mood.. i dunno why... sick of it...really have got no life... anyone wanna add comments?
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Originally posted by Farmer Brown:hmmm seems i've slipped back in that mood.. i dunno why... sick of it...really have got no life... anyone wanna add comments?
go and visit your favorite waitress tomorow lor. -
haha ppl actually rem that waitress... hmmm maybe lor...for the united match... haha... sigh...
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its the 5th year of that feeling for meOriginally posted by Farmer Brown:hmmm seems i've slipped back in that mood.. i dunno why... sick of it...really have got no life... anyone wanna add comments?
i understand u -
Read somewhere that we have an Emotional cycle in us that lsat for 28 days. I wouldn't say its accurate. But if it is, maybe its going down for you. But it will climb back again, after all, its a cycle.
Cheers and Have a nice day. -
maybe for me its 28 yearsOriginally posted by AdAptAliS:Read somewhere that we have an Emotional cycle in us that lsat for 28 days. I wouldn't say its accurate. But if it is, maybe its going down for you. But it will climb back again, after all, its a cycle.
Cheers and Have a nice day. -
mood swings? periods? u wil get out of it soon.
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oh dear.. heard that you've qualified for something major!
maybe in time, you'll slip out of this mood?
i do hope so...
here's something i believe in.. do think about it?
"Most folks are about as happy as they make up their minds to be." - Abraham Lincoln -
oh absolutely! no matter wat the circumstances are, we stil haf the choiceOriginally posted by the Bear:"Most folks are about as happy as they make up their minds to be." - Abraham Lincoln -
Guess Abraham's quote is for you.Originally posted by ntu slacker:maybe for me its 28 years 
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thx.. smile... woke up this morning to a beautiful sunrise.. coincidentally..aunt norah was singing "sunrise"
maybe everything's not as bad as it seems... i may be lonely but i def have better things to live for. and yes bear.. I've been accepted to the University of Southern California.. the initial joy has faded off but i wanna see what i'll be feeling when i'm on that plane.. -
wow. congrats. i can guarantee u the feeling wil be great even though theres a fear of uncertainty and feeling of loss.Originally posted by Farmer Brown:thx.. smile... woke up this morning to a beautiful sunrise.. coincidentally..aunt norah was singing "sunrise"
maybe everything's not as bad as it seems... i may be lonely but i def have better things to live for. and yes bear.. I've been accepted to the University of Southern California.. the initial joy has faded off but i wanna see what i'll be feeling when i'm on that plane.. -
Originally posted by Farmer Brown:hmmm seems i've slipped back in that mood.. i dunno why... sick of it...really have got no life... anyone wanna add comments?
So you have thought about it? Maybe it's time to think have you done anything to change that? I think there is alot of difference between thinking and attempting to change your status. I have couple of friends who lament about how lifeless they are, but does nothing to change their fate, or at least improve them.
I dunno what's your definition of life, but, things that makes you happy and fulfilling - you should indulge in them to a certain extend. Begin from there.
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so aunty yun.. have you got any proposals... yea i can sit around and think but if i can't think of anything i can't be faulted for doing nothing right?
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Originally posted by Farmer Brown:so aunty yun.. have you got any proposals... yea i can sit around and think but if i can't think of anything i can't be faulted for doing nothing right? That's why - you will never get out of your cycle and periodic mood swing will haunt you and you will never gain that kind of confidence others have.
What makes life complete; is a question rather subjective and personal. Even if I don't feel my life is 100% complete, at least I know I am not lifeless. But how you may say (think I repeated this before twice, but don't worry man, I am a naggy sort. When the situation arise, I will repeat without sweat
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The psychological feel of lifeless is due to unfulfilling things we do everyday. It doesn't give us confidence, neither much satisfaction nor happiness in doing them. Likely, they are social & personal duties, liabilities or tasks we have to perform. You do them because have to and don't have much choice. You can do them less of course: but they can share extra energy on the next part:
Seek and understand your interest first; your leisure time (residual time after work) It could be anything, from Origami to sports. These things are likely to make you feel good, but confidence only flows in if you are quite expert/good in them (In your own opinion). It always goes hand in hand - good at something automatically gives you confidence.
With confidence, you would want to do more of the thingy. In the process, you get to know people with similiar interest or at least it may help you in the future. (You can use your skills in Origami to fold all sorts of lovely dopy thingy for your gf in the future, for example).
By keeping your mind open and the desire to try new things - you effectively repeat the process. Keep in mind that these things are interest which makes you feel happy in doing them - then as time goes by, you wouldn't feel lifeless because they are things you want to do on your on accord.
P.S: Here's the theory; practical is the part on how you go about reflecting about your liking and execute the plan like above. With a vast interest, if also affects your communication skills for the better - imagine chatting with someone who knows many things than one who is 'lifeless'. With good communication and confidence comes Art of Seduction, blar blar blar.... it's a linked cycle.
Knowing is only one thing; attempting is another.
Cheers -
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juz hv to pick up the pieces and move on? no matter how sad, no matter how hard...life still goes on.....
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.... too FB..Originally posted by Farmer Brown:... -
Originally posted by Farmer Brown:...
Age? Star sign?
I think it's good in a way that you set yourself thinking... But of course, it's only so if you set it in a positive way?
In your own opinion... Is it more out of boredom or is it more because something's troubling you? Or something which has happened in life which set you thinking? Hmm... Certain something... String of thoughts? -
FB,
Hehehe, I'm in SG
So, u may contact me Then I can tok nonsense until u're feeling better again
RPOriginally posted by Farmer Brown:hmmm seems i've slipped back in that mood.. i dunno why... sick of it...really have got no life... anyone wanna add comments? -
But of cosh lah hor, I'll put HIM 1st U noe wat I mean lah, hor???
RPOriginally posted by Farmer Brown:hmmm seems i've slipped back in that mood.. i dunno why... sick of it...really have got no life... anyone wanna add comments? -
You're IN already?Originally posted by RainbowPrincess:FB,
Hehehe, I'm in SG So, u may contact me Then I can tok nonsense until u're feeling better again
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Aiyoh, I've been in Hawaii too long, & in 1 of the commercials, the guy sez, "U're in" q. a few times
So when I 1st read this post, I was wondering why u're referring to tt commercial *laffs*
Yesh, I'm in
RPOriginally posted by Devil1976:You're IN already? -
Err... You shoots commercials?Originally posted by RainbowPrincess:Aiyoh, I've been in Hawaii too long, & in 1 of the commercials, the guy sez, "U're in" q. a few times
So when I 1st read this post, I was wondering why u're referring to tt commercial *laffs*
Yesh, I'm in
RP
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rofl...devil's a lil bit confused... anyway...yes welcome back rp...