something stupid
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Originally posted by True_Xerion:xiao jie bu yao zhuo sha shi hor? ming tian bu yao zai bao zhi kan dao ni!!!
weak attempt at injecting humor into an otherwise downer of a threadOriginally posted by the_don:wat u mean? catch no ball
"Miss, dun do foolish thing hor? 2moro dun wan 2 c u in da newspapers!!!" 
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not sure... but i guess the common trait is that they are all guysOriginally posted by donjng:Well, I guess you are in a better position to identify the problem. There must be a similiar trait in all the guys whom have hurt you. Maybe, thats why you are attracted to them in the first place. Identify that problem first, becoz that is the thing that eventually left you feeling hurt!
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Originally posted by Parka: Pretty normal. Life's full of ups and down.
It's like a stock exhange. What goes up must come down. But unlike gravity, what goes down, will come up again.
thanks.. i'll try to remember this.... -
...................Originally posted by True_Xerion:weak attempt at injecting humor into an otherwise downer of a thread "Miss, dun do foolish thing hor? 2moro dun wan 2 c u in da newspapers!!!" 
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thanks everyone for listening and for your advise......
i'm going to sleep now.... nites all -
ciao, dude, I mean gal
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That was also one of the reasons why i decided not to call my ex although i'm very tempted to. Maybe he will be screaming at me instead, maybe i will be even more sad after listening to his voice. I feel that things may be worse after calling...Originally posted by the_don:just want to rant abt something...
decided to call my ex today as i was feeling really down and wanted to confide in someone. as we chatted i realised he is still the same. those feelings of hurt and pain just flooded back. i am reminded why it is better without him..... my judgement about guys is bad and so are my choices about life.... life sucks...... -
gosh... hope u will be feeling much better when u wake up tomolo morning...
erm... like what others say... just look at the bright side of life... is the nite making u lonely, that's why u will call ur ex to talk?? -
leave the past in the past? its history. and if people dun change , too bad for them.Originally posted by the_don:just want to rant abt something...
decided to call my ex today as i was feeling really down and wanted to confide in someone. as we chatted i realised he is still the same. those feelings of hurt and pain just flooded back. i am reminded why it is better without him..... my judgement about guys is bad and so are my choices about life.... life sucks...... -
like said in the other thread...
tough times never last.. tough people do..
things happen.. crap happens...
but we pick up ourselves coz we have to, no matter how tired we are, make a decision to move on, and do so...
if you keep looking back in life, you're going to walk into lampposts...
learn and be strong.. i think you have it in you
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Originally posted by the_don:just want to rant abt something...
decided to call my ex today as i was feeling really down and wanted to confide in someone. as we chatted i realised he is still the same. those feelings of hurt and pain just flooded back. i am reminded why it is better without him..... my judgement about guys is bad and so are my choices about life.... life sucks...... Its never easy leaving a relationship that stood for so long, though you both have already been over and attempting to move on.
One question is: sure you calling him just because you want someone to confide or you are checking if he has change, for better or ill?
These are the days where we just feel so fcuked up and wonder where did the sorrow came from. We have all the good support around, dishing out positive statements, but the mind wanders like a ghost and keep replaying messages that we want to shun and avoid.
I cannot tell you to trust guys because eventually this has to be a gradually thing.
When we were young and we fall when we run, did that stop us from running anymore later on in our life?
P.S: We can't judge the book by it's cover, but we can tell how much it's going to cost. You are better equiped now when dealing with guys in the future.
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thank you to everyone who listened, advised and encouraged.. i really appreciate it.. u guys are the best! muack muack!!
i've decided to keep my heart in a box for now... it's too scared and hurt to come out to see the world...
you know who you are: i am sorry. -
I'm just wondering if age is another factor - have all the guys been about your age?
The problem with men is their arrested development. If they're lucky, they'll figure out what they're about in their late twenties. In that case, girl, you might just be fishing in the wrong pond.
The other part of the equation, of course, is where you're at yourself. Have you identified what things about a partner are really important to you? I know that despite all of the thought I've put into it, I made the mother of mistakes time and time again. Having a girlfriend who's a doctorate student and a model, who also happens to come from an influential family, did wonders for my ego, but at the end of the day things didn't quite work and I let it go. Ah well, at least I still have her as a good friend and a federal judge on my side!
But seriously, it took a whole lot of self-examination before I figured out what I really wanted deep down inside, and right now I couldn't be happier! It'll happen, don, but it'll take time for growth before it does. -
Originally posted by the_don:thank you to everyone who listened, advised and encouraged.. i really appreciate it.. u guys are the best! muack muack!!
i've decided to keep my heart in a box for now... it's too scared and hurt to come out to see the world...
you know who you are: i am sorry. -
i don't know.. i think the problem lies with me. i'm silly, dumb, blind and go too much with my feelings.....
yes they are all the same age... 2 yrs older then me...
as for myself, i no longer know wat i want. all i know now is i can't take any more hurt and confusion. my heart is too battered...
thanks ged... really appreciated your concernOriginally posted by Gedanken:I'm just wondering if age is another factor - have all the guys been about your age?
The problem with men is their arrested development. If they're lucky, they'll figure out what they're about in their late twenties. In that case, girl, you might just be fishing in the wrong pond.
The other part of the equation, of course, is where you're at yourself. Have you identified what things about a partner are really important to you? I know that despite all of the thought I've put into it, I made the mother of mistakes time and time again. Having a girlfriend who's a doctorate student and a model, who also happens to come from an influential family, did wonders for my ego, but at the end of the day things didn't quite work and I let it go. Ah well, at least I still have her as a good friend and a federal judge on my side!
But seriously, it took a whole lot of self-examination before I figured out what I really wanted deep down inside, and right now I couldn't be happier! It'll happen, don, but it'll take time for growth before it does. -
yup...i agree....Originally posted by Parka: always look on the bright side of life...... -
Silly girl...
It's actually better to give urself time to move on before u give ur ex a call. I'm Not sez'g there's anythg wrong wif remaining frens, but give ur heart time to heal 1st.
As for ur fear of guys, why let ONE guy, or A FEW guys, ruin the rest of ur life? If u dun try, u noe u'll never find The One. But @ least if u try, there's a chance u might.
*hugz Don tight* Be brave, girl.
RPOriginally posted by the_don:just want to rant abt something...
decided to call my ex today as i was feeling really down and wanted to confide in someone. as we chatted i realised he is still the same. those feelings of hurt and pain just flooded back. i am reminded why it is better without him..... my judgement about guys is bad and so are my choices about life.... life sucks...... -
Take a break...? And remember... Men and women ALIKE... No one's perfect...Originally posted by the_don:trying...
but how do u look on the bright side when the men in your life keep hurting u and breaking your trust? tell me how.. i would like to know..... -
Originally posted by Gedanken:I'm just wondering if age is another factor - have all the guys been about your age?
The problem with men is their arrested development. If they're lucky, they'll figure out what they're about in their late twenties. In that case, girl, you might just be fishing in the wrong pond.
The other part of the equation, of course, is where you're at yourself. Have you identified what things about a partner are really important to you? I know that despite all of the thought I've put into it, I made the mother of mistakes time and time again. Having a girlfriend who's a doctorate student and a model, who also happens to come from an influential family, did wonders for my ego, but at the end of the day things didn't quite work and I let it go. Ah well, at least I still have her as a good friend and a federal judge on my side!
But seriously, it took a whole lot of self-examination before I figured out what I really wanted deep down inside, and right now I couldn't be happier! It'll happen, don, but it'll take time for growth before it does.
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Always had this feeling tt when one enter the working environment its indeed tough to grade someone u know as ur true fren or even fren. Ppl seems more indulge in getting to their aim or simply faking it.
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thanks RP...Originally posted by RainbowPrincess:Silly girl...
It's actually better to give urself time to move on before u give ur ex a call. I'm Not sez'g there's anythg wrong wif remaining frens, but give ur heart time to heal 1st.
As for ur fear of guys, why let ONE guy, or A FEW guys, ruin the rest of ur life? If u dun try, u noe u'll never find The One. But @ least if u try, there's a chance u might.
*hugz Don tight* Be brave, girl.
RP
i ain't trying anymore.. at least for now. if it comes it comes... a little too disillusioned abt such stuff... -
ya... i guess so.. will be taking a break from everything... thanksOriginally posted by Devil1976:Take a break...? And remember... Men and women ALIKE... No one's perfect... -
Don.. ... it's not stupid what you did.
Ya know what stupid things I did!
Oh man.. i rang his office to listen to his voicemail hahah..
SAD! -
I understand : ) Take ur time to think over thgs & let it go. When u feel like crying, juz do so. Get a close fren to be ard u & to offer u support whenever u need it.
Slowly girl, u'll realise tt life is Not all juz abt ONE guy. Besides, u haf a winsome personality, I haf No doubt there'll be someone who appreciates tt : )
RPOriginally posted by the_don:thanks RP...
i ain't trying anymore.. at least for now. if it comes it comes... a little too disillusioned abt such stuff... -
And u sez u r Not the romantic sort
Be glad tt it's over now wif ur ex, & u're happee in a r'ship : )
RPOriginally posted by Lingos:Don.. ... it's not stupid what you did.
Ya know what stupid things I did!
Oh man.. i rang his office to listen to his voicemail hahah..
SAD!