fogetting someone is realli hard,,,,,,
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rainbow princess thanks for ur reply....appreciated that...
thanks...i will learn to let go....i knw it is not easy and i dun know how long it will be....but that is the onli choice i have,,,,hiaz,,,,,
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rainbow princess...thanks for ur reply....realli appreciated it...
i knw that it is gonna be a long and hurting road for me,....but i will try to learn to let go....cos that is the onli choice that i have......haiz..... ...
hope lover out there can be in love with each other and stay faithfull to each other always.... -
sorry repeat post....
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Look on the bright side, @ least u care & love her enuff to feel sad. If love were so ez, then there wldn't be the sez'g, "The path to true love never did run smooth".
Until u find the Right One, u'll experience pain, hurt, rejection & the works. Even after u find the Right One, u'll need to put in the effort to make tt person feel treasured & loved.
Take ur time to cry, but I wan u to remain positive after u've grieved, okie? *hugz*
RPOriginally posted by eyewitness:rainbow princess thanks for ur reply....appreciated that...
thanks...i will learn to let go....i knw it is not easy and i dun know how long it will be....but that is the onli choice i have,,,,hiaz,,,,, -
"The path to true love never did run smooth".
i agreed....and is this from midsummer night dream....
i used to answer my mom when she ask how come my friends all managed to have good & nice bf who dotes on them and i had so many failed relationship....so told my mom that one will only appreciate things that do not come easily. after going through failed ones, will then allow us not to take the other party for granted.Originally posted by RainbowPrincess:Look on the bright side, @ least u care & love her enuff to feel sad. If love were so ez, then there wldn't be the sez'g, "The path to true love never did run smooth".
Until u find the Right One, u'll experience pain, hurt, rejection & the works. Even after u find the Right One, u'll need to put in the effort to make tt person feel treasured & loved.
Take ur time to cry, but I wan u to remain positive after u've grieved, okie? *hugz*
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Or perhaps the Right One hasn't come along?
I'd rather marry late, than marry the wrong guy : )
RPOriginally posted by jusgal:"The path to true love never did run smooth".
i agreed....and is this from midsummer night dream....
i used to answer my mom when she ask how come my friends all managed to have good & nice bf who dotes on them and i had so many failed relationship....so told my mom that one will only appreciate things that do not come easily. after going through failed ones, will then allow us not to take the other party for granted. -
try to occupied yrself wif work... busy n busier
it takes time lots lots of time
time wil heal yr wound -
wanna have a crying session???
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...........thanks for ur console ple....thanks.....the thing now i realli wan to do is faster finish up my final year project and my upcoming exams...then i will be going into ns...i guess that is the time i will realli realli give up and forget every bit of her....if i still cannot....i will train and train very hard so that i get very tired that i dun have any energy to tink of any thing but sleep... i guess i realli have to put her in my memories.........her pics in a drawer....lock them up....see them when fews years have past.....no matter wat she did...i wil not blame her....if she ever get to see this post...i jus wan to say,,,tk care....u was once part of my life,is jus we have different aspect in life and choose different paths...i therefore wish u all the best in future....no matter how long time has past...even if the photos were to turn from colour to black and white,,,,it will still nv fail to make me smile.....
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Hey, u're thinking positive oredi
RPOriginally posted by eyewitness: ...........thanks for ur console ple....thanks.....the thing now i realli wan to do is faster finish up my final year project and my upcoming exams...then i will be going into ns...i guess that is the time i will realli realli give up and forget every bit of her....if i still cannot....i will train and train very hard so that i get very tired that i dun have any energy to tink of any thing but sleep... i guess i realli have to put her in my memories.........her pics in a drawer....lock them up....see them when fews years have past.....no matter wat she did...i wil not blame her....if she ever get to see this post...i jus wan to say,,,tk care....u was once part of my life,is jus we have different aspect in life and choose different paths...i therefore wish u all the best in future....no matter how long time has past...even if the photos were to turn from colour to black and white,,,,it will still nv fail to make me smile..... -
brudder, dun think so much lar, i understand how u feel,i also kanna it last month....but only mine was few more yrs den u.
Try to get urself busy, do things to occupie urself,do something worthwhile...or groom urself to make her regret...which i did.........
Time heals any wound but time cun erace memories..either live wid it or get a new 1 lor...or tell urself, to let her go to let her find her happiness,1 day she will know tat u had once really love her wid ur heart.Take it as she is not qualified to hv ur love.bo bian lar...
Dun cry, some female find guys tat drop tears is not a man or hv inmatural thinking, lik a kid lik tat, but sometime..sigh...te tears automatic 1...
Now expand ur group of friends, let her regret ,let her tel herself tat she is wrong for letting u go.Dun think so much.Close The Chapter & Move On. -
the course of true love never did run smooth...
letting go of someone u truely love is never easily.
pain is inevitable, suffering is optional.
i'm in a similar position as you too.
cry if u must, dun hold the tears back for each and every drop you shed makes u realised that u too have once tastes true love and that u have given ur all. love takes time to heal when u're hurting so much.
u're getting enlisted soon? it could in a way be a good thing to you. time in the army turn boys into men. dun worry too much yah.Originally posted by eyewitness:rainbow princess...thanks for ur reply....realli appreciated it...
i knw that it is gonna be a long and hurting road for me,....but i will try to learn to let go....cos that is the onli choice that i have......haiz..... ...
hope lover out there can be in love with each other and stay faithfull to each other always.... -
its hard to 4get some1 espescially when tat person meant a lot to u.
i'm also in this situation and the onli thing i can do now is to keep myself fully occupied and the onli free time i have will be my slping time.
try not to let urself be alone with nothing to do as that's the time when you will think about the past.
if you start thinking of your past, you gotta try to divert your thoughts to others things.
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watever tat has happen to u will become part of ur memories.
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Eyewitness...my heart goes out to you. I can understand your situation. Sometimes there is just no definite reason why she wants to leave you. She doesn't think about you, your relationship, your memories and anything. She cares only for herself and that is a fact. The fact that everybody cares for themselves still exists in this world. Her decision to leave you is probably to the best of her benefits. Never think that it is also for your own good unless you are enjoying your tragic moment right now.Originally posted by eyewitness:my heart goes out to newg and jusgal as well....i know how u r feeling rite now?thanks for console very one...realli appreciated it alot....thanks ple..
there is one ting still left in my heart...if u ple have any idea on this let me know......"does she ever think abt me,our reationship,our memories or anything?????"
I know it is very difficult for you to move on right now. You don't feel like doing anything and don't know what you can do. Time passes very slowly on you and you can question yourself what you did to deserve all these sorrows but you can never find an answer. This is the sad part of life as a guy, but on the other hand...I guess you wouldn't want to be the person to initiate the breakup as you loved her too much. So ultimately she has to be the bad person to initiate the breakup with you. You are a nice person, I hope you will find somebody who will appreciate you for who you are and not because of what benefits you can bring to her.
Girls are very much like your guys friends. You have good friends, bad friends, friends you don't want to get closer to, friends you have to guard yourselves against their intentions most of the time, and friends you don't even want to see them again. It is very difficult to find a good guy friend who will eventually be your best friend, and so is the true fact that it is also very difficult to find a good girl who will eventually be your girlfriend. Keep an open heart and good things will come your way. -
r/s is full of ???
u can give everything for the r/s but some how still have to end in break up and the other party can just take it so easily as though nothing ever happened and carry on with his/her life.
you guys might say tat 1 should carry on with his/her life be it wat happens and don look back but i doubt there's anyone who can get over a r/s easily unless he/she no longer have feelings for the r/s.
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well.. actually i also have the same problem as u are facing right now. i try my best to forget this particular guy but i just cun do it . it been months since he left me but til now i still keep thinking about him. even though i keep thinking of him now and then, but i nv let this affect my sch work or become moody in front of my fres. i still remain as i am. only when i feel alone, i will then think about him. i think forgettting someone is very hard. but i belive that time heals. maybe as the time goes by, u will slowly forget about the person. take it slowly..Originally posted by eyewitness:fogetting someone is realli hard,,,,,,do u guys or gals have any idea to help me on this?????do ur think if i see the person i wan to forget a gd idea or better not to see her???? -
Do something, go out of the country for a while by taking leaves and not to see the person for a few long weeks. I am like u last time
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i think u should continue to see her..other if you avoid her..it's not easy to be frens with her again..be frens..then slowly you will forget her.
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i also abt the same. just don let urself be alone and slowly u will forget the person. go have fun with frens etc.Originally posted by huy:well.. actually i also have the same problem as u are facing right now. i try my best to forget this particular guy but i just cun do it . it been months since he left me but til now i still keep thinking about him. even though i keep thinking of him now and then, but i nv let this affect my sch work or become moody in front of my fres. i still remain as i am. only when i feel alone, i will then think about him. i think forgettting someone is very hard. but i belive that time heals. maybe as the time goes by, u will slowly forget about the person. take it slowly.. -
i finally see the whole picture,.....she has changed already....i did try to give her chance to change but no,she will not change back till her old self anymore,.....not now....onli till something realli big happened or wat,,,but by than,it will be over....
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now tat u seen the whole picture, don think so much abt it (hard at first)Originally posted by eyewitness:i finally see the whole picture,.....she has changed already....i did try to give her chance to change but no,she will not change back till her old self anymore,.....not now....onli till something realli big happened or wat,,,but by than,it will be over....
go enjoy urself wif ur frens and mix arnd knowing more frens or do things u nv had a chance to do when ur wif her etc.
its hard 4 a person to change unless he/she is determined to do it
sometimes its better to let go rather then to hang on to it
might be better for both parties
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Reading all the posts.... reminds very much of myself... Had a 4yr+ relationship wif my ex.... seems like we could get married sometime in future... but suddenly changed ever since she start working.... found a new guy.. moved on.. and left me behind... couldnt take it initially.. on the verge of depression... its almost been a yr now.. brain tell me to gif up... heart tell me to hold on.... its been hard.. everytime i see get to see her incidentally outside or on photos.. i find dat she gets prettier each time....Originally posted by eyewitness:fogetting someone is realli hard,,,,,,do u guys or gals have any idea to help me on this?????do ur think if i see the person i wan to forget a gd idea or better not to see her????
but guess wat... gotten myself a new gf now.... a real wonderful ger too... though i still tink of my ex very often.. n i do miss her.. but i must say.. at least she left me wonderful memories and i can smile at the thoughts of them... and i dun tink of the bad ones so dat i'll be happier then being sad or angry..... haf to move on wif life.... dats life... -
its easy to fall in love.. but its never easy to forget of love...
haiz... cheer up dude...
me also very fan of this kind of things at times... fate is cruel... -
Ya...since it all over... no point dwelling on it.. NO matter wat u do wun change her/his mind...so wat for pinning on someone of no return???Believe in urself... saying that u can do beta...even after the previous r/s. Be more confident. U will succeed.
