Originally posted by beagle:
I not yandao ... ...... and if i'm not mistaken, if u meet a girl somewhere, perhaps in ur CCA, and u ask her for her no. or out for a date, the first thing she will look at are ur looks. if u dun appeal to her she wouldn't even consider that, and if she doesn't cosdier those stuff then she will nvr get to noe me better, and thereofre it seems from here tt looks are primary, before advancing to personality and style, which are secondary.
I don't mean to tell you that i understand girls very well.
But i'm very sure that your perpection towards women were very deluded.
u ask her for her no. or out for a date, the first thing she will look at are ur looks. - So did you actually try?
Or did you do a scenario mentally?
if u dun appeal to her she wouldn't even consider that - How wicked are the people nowadays....Hai....only select the good looking ones to talk to.
I wonder how those not so hunky(good lookin) ones seemed to always get wonderful lookin babes.
and if she doesn't consider those stuff then she will nvr get to noe me better - You're either really doing the qns and answer thing mentally....or the girls you've met are really damn CMI.
Moreover....you don't get her to know you better by havin her no. or dating her out.
***You'll get her to know you betta at the exact place/moment you spoke to her!!!!!

If she doesn't know you in the first place.
There would be a natural defence/barrier to prevent you from the final quest - Phone number.
All you have to do is to break that barrier by conversation....simple.
It's not about your looks/body/hair or what ever(look at William Hung - he's my personal beachmark

). So you can imagine how i look.
thereofre it seems from here tt looks are primary, before advancing to personality and style, which are secondary. - then the people whom you know will be at face value...cos you can't see beyond that.
Lastly, i want to say...please understand that i'm not trying to be sacarstic, i wanna help you see the other perspective. That it is possible for you to have a changed life.
P.S you haven't post me your photo
