What to do, help~
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Then what kind of help do you want?????Originally posted by beagle:haha .. i mean how can u help me ? in what way?
What do you want to change yourself? -
yeah i do dude.
but i dun't think tts possible. -
Ok.Originally posted by beagle:yeah i do dude.
but i dun't think tts possible.
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dun b in a relationship for the sake of being in one.Originally posted by beagle:for 4 yrs i have nvr been in contact with any girls at all. now that i am going to poly soon i dunnoe what to do. what if i dun fit in? i also feel tt i look like crap (honestly) and will not get a gf
help me 
dun claim u 'love' a girl if u dun.
dun 'love' her for the sake of having her.
true love is hard to come by often.
but it will come someday.
someone out there is the one for you.
dun b so eager.
if u noe wad i mean.
just my 2 cents' worth.
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we are not talkin about love....
We are talkin about saving a kid on his self destructive inferiority.
And i'm at a point of raising my white underwear.
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I raise mine, but its kinda stained. Blood stained.Originally posted by M©+square:we are not talkin about love....
We are talkin about saving a kid on his self destructive inferiority.
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The idea is to be more confident of yourself...
If a girl is gonna like you for your looks than dun bother...
I mean when you are 40, most of us wun look as good as we did when we were younger...
You want a speical girl to be your gf becos you love her and want to spend the rest of ur life with her...
Far fetch but its the truth...
Getting a gf just becos everyone has one or for the sake of having one and I suggest dun bother...
Lastly dun worry too much and just enjoy your poly life...
make friends and join activities...
3yrs will fly by very soon...
Than its time to serve the nation...
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i suppose u are in all boys sch... no worries la.. dun too shy and everything will be ok..Originally posted by beagle:for 4 yrs i have nvr been in contact with any girls at all. now that i am going to poly soon i dunnoe what to do. what if i dun fit in? i also feel tt i look like crap (honestly) and will not get a gf help me
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Ouch!!!Originally posted by ditzy:I raise mine, but its kinda stained. Blood stained. -
eeeeeee, pmsOriginally posted by ditzy:I raise mine, but its kinda stained. Blood stained. 
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beagle, dun worry too much.. cos the more u worry, the more u wil find it harder to know/talk to gals.. jus dun think too much!
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somehow i can't stop thinking lol ..
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Like i said... i seriously think you think too much. And on what ground are you standing to assume that you look like crap when no one told you that?
You said you haven't interacted with a girl, it doesn't mean the next interaction will turn out bad. Seriously, if you keep thinking that it would, it really would, and you start saying it haven't worked and all girls dislike you and such. But in the first place, have you even given yourself a chance to interact with anyone? By thinking that interaction will result in failure, that's not exactly giving yourself a chance. It's straight condemnation even before the event happened.
Best now don't even think about it. At this rate you are going, i think this fear in you would never be overcomed. Go occupy yourself with something else. Or participate more in sgforums.
To note, when the time comes, and no girls approach you, don't think negatively again. They are probably just as shy and there's nothing wrong with your looks. You can't expect everyone to initiate, and like bear said, if you said hi and they ignore, just do it again another day. What's the harm being friendly?
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*add in* girls kind of like *pure* guys ahahah
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Originally posted by ^sylvia^:*add in* girls kind of like *pure* guys ahahah
pure? -
x2Originally posted by AdAptAliS: pure? -
don't worry too much.. it don't affect anything anyway
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i must have been too tired or our frequency isn't the same.Originally posted by ^sylvia^:don't worry too much.. it don't affect anything anyway
I don't understand a word......
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Whats a "pure" guy -_-?
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still lost ..
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okay... kid-gloves off...
we have offered our take on things.. but you have decided to not do anything but whine...
the only thing you can do is to get off your own butt and decide to develop a personality... to make a decision to be an interesting person rather than to wallow in your own self-pity and be a boring and pathetic loser...
but you keep saying you are lost, and whine about it!!
face it! you DON'T want to be "found" do you?
you don't want to make the decisions that will get you out of your own world of pity...
probably because it is EASIER to not have to make the decisions, easier not to go out there, face the world and accept the challenges, easier to say "i'm useless" rather than to accept the responsibility that comes with humanity.. the responsibility of sentience.. the responsibility that we can make choices to change our lives for the better!
you'd rather just go "i'm lost", hoping that someone will come and provide you with a foolproof way out of your mess? yet, when someone offers you a hand, you slap it away?
would you keep trying to help someone who refuses to be helped?
you are refusing to be helped... and that is why the brain haemorrhages, and the buckets of blood vomitted...
go think about it...
kid-gloves back on, i do hope you just get up, stop pitying yourself and making yourself pathetic and join the rest of humanity... -
k.. how should i start... ehh.. sorry for late replies. yeah and im just joking. what i mean is 4 years without relationship doesn't affect anything right.. simple as that mahz
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nah its just jokingOriginally posted by beagle:Whats a "pure" guy -_-? -
FULLY AGREE!Originally posted by the Bear:okay... kid-gloves off...
we have offered our take on things.. but you have decided to not do anything but whine...
the only thing you can do is to get off your own butt and decide to develop a personality... to make a decision to be an interesting person rather than to wallow in your own self-pity and be a boring and pathetic loser...
but you keep saying you are lost, and whine about it!!
face it! you DON'T want to be "found" do you?
you don't want to make the decisions that will get you out of your own world of pity...
probably because it is EASIER to not have to make the decisions, easier not to go out there, face the world and accept the challenges, easier to say "i'm useless" rather than to accept the responsibility that comes with humanity.. the responsibility of sentience.. the responsibility that we can make choices to change our lives for the better!
you'd rather just go "i'm lost", hoping that someone will come and provide you with a foolproof way out of your mess? yet, when someone offers you a hand, you slap it away?
would you keep trying to help someone who refuses to be helped?
you are refusing to be helped... and that is why the brain haemorrhages, and the buckets of blood vomitted...
go think about it...
kid-gloves back on, i do hope you just get up, stop pitying yourself and making yourself pathetic and join the rest of humanity...
actually what u can do currently is get a life. its never been a problem. your just over worrying
build confidence. 
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bahx