
Yeah... Go and be an air-stewardess...Originally posted by RaTtY81:imo i think hes not worthy enuff to b ur bf.
actually he is one of the best guy i have met, but when come to this matter he is so persistent... very stubborn.... so unlike his normal self.. usually he is very sensitive to me, and a very good listener.. but haiz....Originally posted by RaTtY81:imo i think hes not worthy enuff to b ur bf.
Follow your dreams. talk to him and find out why he objected...maybe he has got a point.Originally posted by Lovespirit:always my dream to be a air stewardess.. but somehw my bf hate this occupation a lot n he told me tt if i choose to be one, our relationship sure be affected...
well.. i won't give up my dream cos i grow up dreaming to be one...
but what he says hurts me...
i mean how can a guy can be so selfish.. i'm just following my heart to pursue this career...
n yet he is threatening me with our relationship... or is it that our love have no strong foundation, and tt he has no faith in me.. (he perceived air stewardess to be very busy, bitchy n materialistic) oh my god... what u pple think?![]()
maybe he's worried for her safety?Originally posted by RaTtY81:imo i think hes not worthy enuff to b ur bf.
Yup... It's your career... He can advise you but ultimately, he'll still have to respect your decision...?Originally posted by jOhO:let us know wat u decide. it's ur decision to make.
if he really love you, he will encourage you in everything you do instead of threatening non stop..Originally posted by Lovespirit:always my dream to be a air stewardess.. but somehw my bf hate this occupation a lot n he told me tt if i choose to be one, our relationship sure be affected...
well.. i won't give up my dream cos i grow up dreaming to be one...
but what he says hurts me...
i mean how can a guy can be so selfish.. i'm just following my heart to pursue this career...
n yet he is threatening me with our relationship... or is it that our love have no strong foundation, and tt he has no faith in me.. (he perceived air stewardess to be very busy, bitchy n materialistic) oh my god... what u pple think?![]()
There's always two side to da coin. What you percieve is passiveness from her BF.Originally posted by ^sylvia^:if he really love you, he will encourage you in everything you do instead of threatening non stop..
guess you have to reconsider about your relationship.
if he perceived so, which means you too are some sort of the air stewardess in his heart?
you can try to sort things out with him again and see whether he will change his views towards this.. if not really should consider about this yourself.
just my views, don't flame me thanks![]()
and also take care k? don't worry too much![]()
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thanks, thanks for all the advices.. seem like majority feel tt i should pursue my dream... well tt what my heart is telling me also..Originally posted by jOhO:let us know wat u decide. it's ur decision to make.
jia you bah.. i will give you my moral support~!Originally posted by Lovespirit:thanks, thanks for all the advices.. seem like majority feel tt i should pursue my dream... well tt what my heart is telling me also..
gonna try again n again to be a air stewadess til the day SIA close down....
meanwhile will try to "negotiate" with my bf... if he love me, he should trust me... hopefully i would have both.. my dream job n my bf... if not... haiz....
I believe going for your dreams is more important. He has to love you and support you including your goal.Originally posted by Lovespirit:always my dream to be a air stewardess.. but somehw my bf hate this occupation a lot n he told me tt if i choose to be one, our relationship sure be affected...
well.. i won't give up my dream cos i grow up dreaming to be one...
but what he says hurts me...
i mean how can a guy can be so selfish.. i'm just following my heart to pursue this career...
n yet he is threatening me with our relationship... or is it that our love have no strong foundation, and tt he has no faith in me.. (he perceived air stewardess to be very busy, bitchy n materialistic) oh my god... what u pple think?![]()
i think u're making it harder for her to decide....Originally posted by FireIce:i support u to choose ur dream
but i like the way ur bf is protecting u....
probably ur bf is afraid of losing u in the future, and thats why he said that... decision is urs...Originally posted by Lovespirit:always my dream to be a air stewardess.. but somehw my bf hate this occupation a lot n he told me tt if i choose to be one, our relationship sure be affected...
well.. i won't give up my dream cos i grow up dreaming to be one...
but what he says hurts me...
i mean how can a guy can be so selfish.. i'm just following my heart to pursue this career...
n yet he is threatening me with our relationship... or is it that our love have no strong foundation, and tt he has no faith in me.. (he perceived air stewardess to be very busy, bitchy n materialistic) oh my god... what u pple think?![]()
Heh. It's true mah....the BF is really nice to her wad.Originally posted by jOhO:i think u're making it harder for her to decide....![]()
He perceived air stewardess to be busy(what is wrong with that?), bitch and materialistic(are you?)?Originally posted by Lovespirit:always my dream to be a air stewardess.. but somehw my bf hate this occupation a lot n he told me tt if i choose to be one, our relationship sure be affected...
well.. i won't give up my dream cos i grow up dreaming to be one...
but what he says hurts me...
i mean how can a guy can be so selfish.. i'm just following my heart to pursue this career...
n yet he is threatening me with our relationship... or is it that our love have no strong foundation, and tt he has no faith in me.. (he perceived air stewardess to be very busy, bitchy n materialistic) oh my god... what u pple think?![]()
Originally posted by Lovespirit:always my dream to be a air stewardess.. but somehw my bf hate this occupation a lot n he told me tt if i choose to be one, our relationship sure be affected...
well.. i won't give up my dream cos i grow up dreaming to be one...
but what he says hurts me...
i mean how can a guy can be so selfish.. i'm just following my heart to pursue this career...
n yet he is threatening me with our relationship... or is it that our love have no strong foundation, and tt he has no faith in me.. (he perceived air stewardess to be very busy, bitchy n materialistic) oh my god... what u pple think?![]()