choosin dream or bf??
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always my dream to be a air stewardess.. but somehw my bf hate this occupation a lot n he told me tt if i choose to be one, our relationship sure be affected...
well.. i won't give up my dream cos i grow up dreaming to be one...
but what he says hurts me...
i mean how can a guy can be so selfish.. i'm just following my heart to pursue this career...
n yet he is threatening me with our relationship... or is it that our love have no strong foundation, and tt he has no faith in me.. (he perceived air stewardess to be very busy, bitchy n materialistic) oh my god... what u pple think?
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well, follows your heart...
job , esp air stewardess is not a job u can do when u get older...now u hav the opportunity, go for it...one day, your bf will understand
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imo i think hes not worthy enuff to b ur bf.
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Yeah... Go and be an air-stewardess...Originally posted by RaTtY81:imo i think hes not worthy enuff to b ur bf. -
actually he is one of the best guy i have met, but when come to this matter he is so persistent... very stubborn.... so unlike his normal self.. usually he is very sensitive to me, and a very good listener.. but haiz....Originally posted by RaTtY81:imo i think hes not worthy enuff to b ur bf.
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Follow your dreams. talk to him and find out why he objected...maybe he has got a point.Originally posted by Lovespirit:always my dream to be a air stewardess.. but somehw my bf hate this occupation a lot n he told me tt if i choose to be one, our relationship sure be affected...
well.. i won't give up my dream cos i grow up dreaming to be one...
but what he says hurts me...
i mean how can a guy can be so selfish.. i'm just following my heart to pursue this career...
n yet he is threatening me with our relationship... or is it that our love have no strong foundation, and tt he has no faith in me.. (he perceived air stewardess to be very busy, bitchy n materialistic) oh my god... what u pple think?
got a friend in the line. she says its quite hei1 an4 (dark). need to play politics to get good flights (eg Spore to UK etc). you'll end up flying to KL or jakata everyday if you don't "socialise" with the top ppl. -
follow your heart...
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haha mayb u havent met a better guy?
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maybe he's worried for her safety?Originally posted by RaTtY81:imo i think hes not worthy enuff to b ur bf. -
let us know wat u decide. it's ur decision to make.
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i know y he thinks that way...
he knows that being an air stewardess means u will be flying all over e place all e time...so ur relationship sure get affected one....
number 2....u will know alot of pple when u strat working n will know some guys who r better than him n he doesn't wanna lose u..... -
Yup... It's your career... He can advise you but ultimately, he'll still have to respect your decision...?Originally posted by jOhO:let us know wat u decide. it's ur decision to make. -
i support u to choose ur dream
but i like the way ur bf is protecting u.... -
if he really love you, he will encourage you in everything you do instead of threatening non stop..Originally posted by Lovespirit:always my dream to be a air stewardess.. but somehw my bf hate this occupation a lot n he told me tt if i choose to be one, our relationship sure be affected...
well.. i won't give up my dream cos i grow up dreaming to be one...
but what he says hurts me...
i mean how can a guy can be so selfish.. i'm just following my heart to pursue this career...
n yet he is threatening me with our relationship... or is it that our love have no strong foundation, and tt he has no faith in me.. (he perceived air stewardess to be very busy, bitchy n materialistic) oh my god... what u pple think?
guess you have to reconsider about your relationship.
if he perceived so, which means you too are some sort of the air stewardess in his heart?
you can try to sort things out with him again and see whether he will change his views towards this.. if not really should consider about this yourself.
just my views, don't flame me thanks
and also take care k? don't worry too much 
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There's always two side to da coin. What you percieve is passiveness from her BF.Originally posted by ^sylvia^:if he really love you, he will encourage you in everything you do instead of threatening non stop..
guess you have to reconsider about your relationship.
if he perceived so, which means you too are some sort of the air stewardess in his heart?
you can try to sort things out with him again and see whether he will change his views towards this.. if not really should consider about this yourself.
just my views, don't flame me thanks
and also take care k? don't worry too much
Her boyfriend must have know something negetive about being as 'Airline industry' from someone. Hence views are not likely to change. The only thing would change would be the relationship.
Somethings Gotta Give.
Just like FireIce said, he's trying to protect her.
The couple have to put the relationship into test this time.
True Love >>> Let Go
True Love also protects!!!
There are two sides....2 sides.
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thanks, thanks for all the advices.. seem like majority feel tt i should pursue my dream... well tt what my heart is telling me also..Originally posted by jOhO:let us know wat u decide. it's ur decision to make.
gonna try again n again to be a air stewardess til the day SIA close down....
meanwhile will try to "negotiate" with my bf... if he love me, he should trust me... i really dun wish to lose him....he's a great guy..
hopefully i would have both.. my dream job n my bf... if not... haiz.... -
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jia you bah.. i will give you my moral support~!Originally posted by Lovespirit:thanks, thanks for all the advices.. seem like majority feel tt i should pursue my dream... well tt what my heart is telling me also..
gonna try again n again to be a air stewadess til the day SIA close down....
meanwhile will try to "negotiate" with my bf... if he love me, he should trust me... hopefully i would have both.. my dream job n my bf... if not... haiz.... -
I believe going for your dreams is more important. He has to love you and support you including your goal.Originally posted by Lovespirit:always my dream to be a air stewardess.. but somehw my bf hate this occupation a lot n he told me tt if i choose to be one, our relationship sure be affected...
well.. i won't give up my dream cos i grow up dreaming to be one...
but what he says hurts me...
i mean how can a guy can be so selfish.. i'm just following my heart to pursue this career...
n yet he is threatening me with our relationship... or is it that our love have no strong foundation, and tt he has no faith in me.. (he perceived air stewardess to be very busy, bitchy n materialistic) oh my god... what u pple think? -
Heck care him, and go do watever you want!
Honestly, you should talk to him about this issue. Understand his stand in this matter, and decide. It's always hard to balance dream and love sometimes. You shld just talk, understand, think, decide.
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i think u're making it harder for her to decide....Originally posted by FireIce:i support u to choose ur dream
but i like the way ur bf is protecting u.... -
probably ur bf is afraid of losing u in the future, and thats why he said that... decision is urs...Originally posted by Lovespirit:always my dream to be a air stewardess.. but somehw my bf hate this occupation a lot n he told me tt if i choose to be one, our relationship sure be affected...
well.. i won't give up my dream cos i grow up dreaming to be one...
but what he says hurts me...
i mean how can a guy can be so selfish.. i'm just following my heart to pursue this career...
n yet he is threatening me with our relationship... or is it that our love have no strong foundation, and tt he has no faith in me.. (he perceived air stewardess to be very busy, bitchy n materialistic) oh my god... what u pple think?
but in the future will u neglect him becos of work?(thats wat he is afraid of) if u travel for like 2 weeks or more, will u miss him? will u meet another person and dump him? well, guys do feel this way.. think of the long term effect b4 u choose and make the decision...
the decision is urs, make it wisely.. gd luck
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Heh. It's true mah....the BF is really nice to her wad.Originally posted by jOhO:i think u're making it harder for her to decide.... -
He perceived air stewardess to be busy(what is wrong with that?), bitch and materialistic(are you?)?Originally posted by Lovespirit:always my dream to be a air stewardess.. but somehw my bf hate this occupation a lot n he told me tt if i choose to be one, our relationship sure be affected...
well.. i won't give up my dream cos i grow up dreaming to be one...
but what he says hurts me...
i mean how can a guy can be so selfish.. i'm just following my heart to pursue this career...
n yet he is threatening me with our relationship... or is it that our love have no strong foundation, and tt he has no faith in me.. (he perceived air stewardess to be very busy, bitchy n materialistic) oh my god... what u pple think?
Your boyfriend has a low IQ, is very insecure about himself, does'nt trust you at all and does'nt know you well enough, high percentage is from Poly, came from neighbourhood school... am I right?
I mean being a air stewdress is a decent job with good pay. Whatsmore, you get to travel to all these places, meet new people, see interesting cities paris london new york...
What does he know about being an Air stewdress? Has he ever been on plane?
You're still young, you should chase your dream otherwise you will regret it for the rest of your life. Imagine you could have gone to all these countries and meet all these new faces and people...
What your shallow poly bf going to support you with his $1.4k job as a technician or sales personnel? -
my bf is selfish but he has his reasons for asking you to do so.
he probably treasure the relationship that you two have now and he's apprehensive abt changing the balance of it at this moment.
no doubt he's insecure. no doubt he's selfish.
you wan to follow ur dream, he wants to be together with you.
we can't offer you any solutions. you have to weight it urself. pursuing your dream, or giving up on the relationship, if that's the onli 2 choices u have.Originally posted by Lovespirit:always my dream to be a air stewardess.. but somehw my bf hate this occupation a lot n he told me tt if i choose to be one, our relationship sure be affected...
well.. i won't give up my dream cos i grow up dreaming to be one...
but what he says hurts me...
i mean how can a guy can be so selfish.. i'm just following my heart to pursue this career...
n yet he is threatening me with our relationship... or is it that our love have no strong foundation, and tt he has no faith in me.. (he perceived air stewardess to be very busy, bitchy n materialistic) oh my god... what u pple think?