choosin dream or bf??
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hey.. thank you for all the advices.. will consider it carefully...
anyway i believe all of you post reply here is for good intention, therefore there shouldn't be any criticise or unhappiness arising from this topic, rgt??
pple like ,enigmatic1 or shawngh.. really thanks for your advice, but there's no use insulting each other rgt?
thanks you thank you.. will consider it carefully...
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It got all personal yeah?Originally posted by Yunhaier:Sorry but I have to ask this 'What the hell does it have to do with IQ, poly and neighbourhood school?'
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Lovespirit, I don't think its a matter of choice. Your bf disapproves of you being an air stewardess because you would be travelling around quite a bit and would not have much time to spend with him. My sis is an air stewardess and is barely at home so I know how it is like.
You just need to reassure him that you would find time to be with him despite your job and that you will still love him just as much, if not more, and he should approve of your dream/future career. Oh, and do remember to tell him how happy you will be when you get to be an air stewardess. This way he will realise that he is being selfish if he stops you from becoming one. It always works on the guys. -
Originally posted by M©+square:It got all personal yeah?
Dao bu tong, bu xiang wei mo.
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If ur guy means alot to u, & he feels insecure/uncomfy rgding ur occupation, u may wish to reconsider. Putting urself in his shoes may help u better understand his reasons for trying to dissuade u from ur chosen profession.
Perhaps u might feel insecure too, if he decides to become a massage therapist in a Turkish baths, where he massages 1/2 naked women all the time?
I noe this is a prettie terrible comparison, but juz to give a general idea of how he might be feeling...
If u feel tt strongly tt u wanna pursue ur air stewardess dreams, then by all means, go ahead. Perhaps after some time, he'll see tt it isn't tt bad a job. Juz make sure u dun neglect him & be sensitive towards his feelings.
RPOriginally posted by Lovespirit:always my dream to be a air stewardess.. but somehw my bf hate this occupation a lot n he told me tt if i choose to be one, our relationship sure be affected...
well.. i won't give up my dream cos i grow up dreaming to be one...
but what he says hurts me...
i mean how can a guy can be so selfish.. i'm just following my heart to pursue this career...
n yet he is threatening me with our relationship... or is it that our love have no strong foundation, and tt he has no faith in me.. (he perceived air stewardess to be very busy, bitchy n materialistic) oh my god... what u pple think?
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I don't know lah. Chinese E8 ahOriginally posted by Yunhaier: Dao bu tong, bu xiang wei mo.
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well..find a chance and have a good talk with him,if he still insist,then is up to you to decide to go for dream or to stay for love...Originally posted by Lovespirit:always my dream to be a air stewardess.. but somehw my bf hate this occupation a lot n he told me tt if i choose to be one, our relationship sure be affected...
well.. i won't give up my dream cos i grow up dreaming to be one...
but what he says hurts me...
i mean how can a guy can be so selfish.. i'm just following my heart to pursue this career...
n yet he is threatening me with our relationship... or is it that our love have no strong foundation, and tt he has no faith in me.. (he perceived air stewardess to be very busy, bitchy n materialistic) oh my god... what u pple think? 
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It means on different track... Go different ways....Originally posted by M©+square:I don't know lah. Chinese E8 ah
Usually used to describe people who share different mentality or opinions...