how do i know?
-
about you?
-
Originally posted by antoh:if she likes me.
she has been not telling me the truth.
i have asking her if we can be together... and she say dont know ...
Why do you feel that if she likes you, she has to enter a relationship with you?
Understanding this point and from www's wise words - life is not about BGR. Her answer doesn't drive you crazy - it is your expectation of an absolute answer leading to some kind of direct conclusion that is killing you.
Here's truth number one: A woman good in all aspects to you and herself, doesn't mean she is 'The One'. 'The One' can only be uncovered with the assistance of time (and sometimes regrets) because only by then, you will know.
You are expecting a complete yes or no answer - in love, nothing is absolute. Your signature speaks 'white is white, black is black...' if love was that simple, everybody would be so happy in their relationship (or joy without them).
She is confused over your sudden declaration. Her answer 'Don't know' signified her inability to confirm with herself to enter into a relationship with you. You can do two things:
I) Allow her to source for her own feelings. You would probably give her some private time for her own and if she has feelings for you and decide to give this relationship a try, she would let you know a while later in the future.
II) Woo her until you get her. This is straightforward. Because she is uncertain, chasing demonstrate a side of you, in which by right should add points and pull up your total score as she is considering. With time and good effort - either you succeed in your attempt or make a major flaw during process and turn her off completely.
Cheers -
gives her some more time lah,if you keeps asking her,this will only makes her find you very irritating only...Originally posted by antoh:if she likes me.
she has been not telling me the truth.
i have asking her if we can be together... and she say dont know ... -
These are not exactly 'failures'... As if you're the only one experiencing these..? What do you expect then? Every woman which you approach just can't wait to spend the rest of their lives with you?Originally posted by antoh:dont know why i m such failure in relationship
-
duno means yes......
but also can mean like U but not ready...not certain not sure wheter wana commit.
Ask her again....she will still say duno...
Most times they dun tell U direct one lah....
U surely can get hints thru her body language one la ma...
Try things like sit close close to her.....touch her face dat kind....
if she happy....or dun have strong reaction to ur "xiao dong zhou"....onz liao....
But U mus only do dat if U got certain confident N U feel comfortable also..
Then if U do all dat N she still zu dong look 4 U, even if U ask her she say duno but wat do U tink???? she's juz shy sometimes.
She won't tell U yes direct most times esp when U ask like dat.
If she say no....mean no hope....Duno...high chance.
Good luck -
sounds like on the rite track actually -
I wanna ask u guys arh ... when u ask a girl out, will she like ask someone to go along with her? then whats the pt of asking her out ? might as well ask the whole class to go.
-
she just wanna be friend lohs...simple as datOriginally posted by beagle:I wanna ask u guys arh ... when u ask a girl out, will she like ask someone to go along with her? then whats the pt of asking her out ? might as well ask the whole class to go. -
the converse, unfortunately, is not trueOriginally posted by xking:she just wanna be friend lohs...simple as dat
i.e. agreeing to go out with you alone does not mean she likes you or anything to that effect. girls would also go out with guys alone when they treat them as normal or good friends -
AGREE......Then mayb she not comfortable go out alone wif him even as just frenz baOriginally posted by simulacrum:the converse, unfortunately, is not true
i.e. agreeing to go out with you alone does not mean she likes you or anything to that effect. girls would also go out with guys alone when they treat them as normal or good friends -
Even the direct implication might not be true?Originally posted by simulacrum:the converse, unfortunately, is not true
i.e. agreeing to go out with you alone does not mean she likes you or anything to that effect. girls would also go out with guys alone when they treat them as normal or good friends
Go out with a whole group maybe she's not comfortable with '1 on 1' date yet? Not necessarily that she don't feel much for you... Can be that she feel much for you that's why especially shy?
Or maybe just wanna know each other better 1st? Or she could be shy in nature? No point 2 people go out, sit facing each other and got nothing to say...? Then maybe get the wrong impression?
The next question to pop up would be "Why she don't wanna talk to me?" or "Is she uninterested that's why she so quiet?" -
Bro,Originally posted by antoh:dont know why i m such failure in relationship
You're a typical Sg guy lor.
Don't use the man's view to interperate women's thinking.
Stop producing low esteem answers to your weak r/s please.
The reason why it's weak is because you're working with your thoughts, you're all along tolling on your own: (If you want to know the reason i say so, PM me.)
Somethings you do doesn't mean everything,
You gotto learn how to let things work in you favour!
Liking does not mean Relationship(BGR)
Time don't equate Love
Hard Work won't get Expected Results
Sincerity don't mean Success
Should ask Yun to teach you some lessons on Seduction.
WWW: Good points there.
You're a friend, i say the truth and leave it for you to think.
Cheers -
now is getting worse ... haiz ... we quarell today ...
-
cool down a bit! you may scare her like that!
-
haha ask her to call me i tell her for u
-
now msg her ... no reply
-
Eh you're not reading our advices right?
-
hmmz... i think both should cool down a little bit.. it makes good mind working.. think before action, more haste less speed
-
hmm...is that u anthony? eh.....do take care,dun thibk too much....
-
ummmm
