does this guy truly love this gal?
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based on this scenerio...
one day this gal told her bf if she is depressed, she may jump off a high rise building to commit suicide. actually she was not serious about this but only trying to test what will be the guy's response.
the guy's 1st response was, "if you ever jump off, please remember to leave some of your most beautiful photos for me to remember you by."
the gal was disappointed cos the guy did not make any attempt to stop her, discourage her or anything. later the guy went on to say that it was because he wants to forever remember her even if she's not around. he wants to be the one crying for her, missing her and forever remembering her.
last but not least, he said that if he were there at that time when she wanna jump down.............. he would have jumped down together with her.
hmmm.... so wad do ya guys think? what exactly does he mean? does he truly love her??
izit that the one who suffers most is always the one who is alive and well but without his/her love with him/her....? -
no.. he thinks his life's more impt and won't die with this girl or for her
he will just suffer the pain and then get over it and get a chio gf! then a wife! then live happily till he die!!!!!
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Woah....what kind of answer.....Originally posted by ^sylvia^:no.. he thinks his life's more impt and won't die with this girl or for her
he will just suffer the pain and then get over it and get a chio gf! then a wife! then live happily till he die!!!!! 
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Originally posted by M©+square:Woah....what kind of answer.....
nothing to do. so anyhow post lor~
anyway, also don't know how to define this guy~
no definite ans too -
WEll, i would question on. How will this test prove if this girl truly loves this guy?
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yup.. instead, by doing this can't really define the guy as we don't know him.. so maybe we should question on how will this test prove if this girl truly loves this guy?Originally posted by M©+square:WEll, i would question on. How will this test prove if this girl truly loves this guy? -
The guy may have his own problems and may even be as depress as the gal. that's why he said, if he is there with her, he will jump too.
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well, we never know..Originally posted by Magnus:The guy may have his own problems and may even be as depress as the gal. that's why he said, if he is there with her, he will jump too.
so guess by this scenerio, we couldn't response much lo~ -
I do not noe whether da guy truely loves her or not. I only noe there r MANY waes to express love. Using "jumping off building" to test may not be a good idea.Originally posted by Coco_Coco:based on this scenerio...
one day this gal told her bf if she is depressed, she may jump off a high rise building to commit suicide. actually she was not serious about this but only trying to test what will be the guy's response.
the guy's 1st response was, "if you ever jump off, please remember to leave some of your most beautiful photos for me to remember you by."
the gal was disappointed cos the guy did not make any attempt to stop her, discourage her or anything. later the guy went on to say that it was because he wants to forever remember her even if she's not around. he wants to be the one crying for her, missing her and forever remembering her.
last but not least, he said that if he were there at that time when she wanna jump down.............. he would have jumped down together with her.
hmmm.... so wad do ya guys think? what exactly does he mean? does he truly love her??
izit that the one who suffers most is always the one who is alive and well but without his/her love with him/her....? -
yup, this will only turn the r/s sour..Originally posted by Bontakun:I do not noe whether da guy truely loves her or not. I only noe there r MANY waes to express love. Using "jumping off building" to test may not be a good idea.
foolish act though
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it could be this...... the guy was stunted by the question so answered 1st, but after answering, noe's his answer is guaran-DAMN-tee lousy....so he followed up with better answersOriginally posted by Coco_Coco:based on this scenerio...
one day this gal told her bf if she is depressed, she may jump off a high rise building to commit suicide. actually she was not serious about this but only trying to test what will be the guy's response.
the guy's 1st response was, "if you ever jump off, please remember to leave some of your most beautiful photos for me to remember you by."
the gal was disappointed cos the guy did not make any attempt to stop her, discourage her or anything. later the guy went on to say that it was because he wants to forever remember her even if she's not around. he wants to be the one crying for her, missing her and forever remembering her.
last but not least, he said that if he were there at that time when she wanna jump down.............. he would have jumped down together with her.
hmmm.... so wad do ya guys think? what exactly does he mean? does he truly love her??
izit that the one who suffers most is always the one who is alive and well but without his/her love with him/her....?
or it could be this.....the guy dunno how to handle the situation so have to give such answers, immaturity.......
or it could be as mentioned, think life is too precious.....
but the pathetic thing the guy didn't do is as what u mentioned, try to console or discourage his gf. but then again, if he noes the root of the depression problem and can't do SH-IT about it, then maybe that's the best answer he can come up with.... -
Bontakun to Sylvia:Originally posted by ^sylvia^:yup, this will only turn the r/s sour..
foolish act though
"I wanna jump, wanna jump along?"
Sylvia to Bontakun:
"I feeling depress! May wanna jump!"
"Ok... U jump, I see..." -
this test is to prove if the guy loves the gal, not if the gal loves the guy...Originally posted by ^sylvia^:yup.. instead, by doing this can't really define the guy as we don't know him.. so maybe we should question on how will this test prove if this girl truly loves this guy? -
hmm... den wad would be a better way to test the love?Originally posted by Bontakun:I do not noe whether da guy truely loves her or not. I only noe there r MANY waes to express love. Using "jumping off building" to test may not be a good idea. -
Gotto realise that one TEST will make the guy go all the way prove his love for her.Originally posted by Coco_Coco:this test is to prove if the guy loves the gal, not if the gal loves the guy...
Anyway, he'll feel cheated if he found out when it's all just a test to prove his love.
The second will make him frustrated.
Third, will make him obliging.
Test is never the right thing. Again....i say. Never.
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I've got this feeling that the person in that scenario is you.Originally posted by Coco_Coco:hmm... den wad would be a better way to test the love?
Just guessing.
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Originally posted by Coco_Coco:based on this scenerio...
one day this gal told her bf if she is depressed, she may jump off a high rise building to commit suicide. actually she was not serious about this but only trying to test what will be the guy's response.
the guy's 1st response was, "if you ever jump off, please remember to leave some of your most beautiful photos for me to remember you by."
the gal was disappointed cos the guy did not make any attempt to stop her, discourage her or anything. later the guy went on to say that it was because he wants to forever remember her even if she's not around. he wants to be the one crying for her, missing her and forever remembering her.
last but not least, he said that if he were there at that time when she wanna jump down.............. he would have jumped down together with her.
hmmm.... so wad do ya guys think? what exactly does he mean? does he truly love her??
izit that the one who suffers most is always the one who is alive and well but without his/her love with him/her....?
Firstly, it would be kinda childish, immature and impractical to measure love in such a way. Words are cheap - action speaks louder. Let me tell you, when real situation do take place, everything changes.
The girl's disappointment is because SHE DIDN'T HEAR THE THINGS SHE WANTED TO HEAR.
Ok, most guys are blocks of wood when it comes to the 'correct' answer to return whenever woman post silly and cute questions like these - She asked hypothetical questions, she received hypothetical answers.
P.S: Your friend worship idol dramas, love theme movies, shows and stories?
Cheers -
u jump lor.. i dun care~Originally posted by Bontakun:Bontakun to Sylvia:
"I wanna jump, wanna jump along?"
Sylvia to Bontakun:
"I feeling depress! May wanna jump!"
"Ok... U jump, I see..."
ohh please rem to gimme some of your beautiful pics before u jump k?
i want to remember you and keep this as the best memories ever
go go jump bah~
jia you oh?
i will be here waiting to hear your news -
k.. its stupid, immature to test his loveOriginally posted by Coco_Coco:this test is to prove if the guy loves the gal, not if the gal loves the guy...
everything will change when real situation occurs
if you really love the guy, you should have trust him but not testing him
once he found out, he will be hurt
or either that isn't the ans which your hoping for, you will be disappointed
this test simply couldn't figure out anything but bring negativities to you and your love
so did he prove anything? nope.. unsure ans too right?
this prove how much the girl loves the guy instead, you know you already hurting him by using this stupid test on him~
isn't it something which test how much the girl love the guy not vice versa -
Originally posted by Yunhaier:
woah~ cheers~ Firstly, it would be kinda childish, immature and impractical to measure love in such a way. Words are cheap - action speaks louder. Let me tell you, when real situation do take place, everything changes.
The girl's disappointment is because [b]SHE DIDN'T HEAR THE THINGS SHE WANTED TO HEAR.
Ok, most guys are blocks of wood when it comes to the 'correct' answer to return whenever woman post silly and cute questions like these - She asked hypothetical questions, she received hypothetical answers.
P.S: Your friend worship idol dramas, love theme movies, shows and stories?
Cheers[/b]
agree agree~ -
Originally posted by Yunhaier:
Ah... Thanks.. About sums up what I wanna say... But actually I'm quite a LAZY guy... So my original post would be.... Firstly, it would be kinda childish, immature and impractical to measure love in such a way. Words are cheap - action speaks louder. Let me tell you, when real situation do take place, everything changes.
The girl's disappointment is because [b]SHE DIDN'T HEAR THE THINGS SHE WANTED TO HEAR.
Ok, most guys are blocks of wood when it comes to the 'correct' answer to return whenever woman post silly and cute questions like these - She asked hypothetical questions, she received hypothetical answers.
P.S: Your friend worship idol dramas, love theme movies, shows and stories?
Cheers[/b]
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U so OUT leh... I jumped so~~~ many times in my life liao... Star jump, frog jump, standing broad jump.Originally posted by ^sylvia^:u jump lor.. i dun care~
ohh please rem to gimme some of your beautiful pics before u jump k?
i want to remember you and keep this as the best memories ever
go go jump bah~
jia you oh?
i will be here waiting to hear your news
Wat pic U wan? -
your out also lehx! you jump so many times also nv take a beautiful pics of yours doing frog jump star jump standing broad jumpOriginally posted by Bontakun:U so OUT leh... I jumped so~~~ many times in my life liao... Star jump, frog jump, standing broad jump.
Wat pic U wan?