Would you tell someone that you like him/her even though...
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ask him directly loh... thats what i did!Originally posted by crystalangel:actually.. it depends on how well u know each other. and how she respond to u too. if she responds to u like a normal fren and she show clear signal that she really treat u as fren. hold on and let the frenship develops. but if she respond well to ur ..hm.. so called flirting signs or playful signals eg u played with her hair and she din't object.. she may or maybe not likes u back but one thing for sure. she is comfortable with u..that's y she let u play with her hair and stuff like that. if this the case, play with her more.. gradually try to hint her that u like her and so on.. c wat happens ba... hahaha...
actually i myself also have a qns for u all... i've meet this guy... he is older than me two yrs. i'm 21 yrs. went out a few times together.. he did mention that he find me to be a potential gf.. means i'm the type he likes. but he din't says he have interest in me. he says i'm pretty and so on.
called me once or twice or thrice a week..depends..this has been going on for one month.. went out at least once a week jus the two of us.. once or twice a week with our own mutual frens... now the qns is that..he treat everyone with the same attitude.. same friendliness and so on.. how do i know if he's interested in me? is the few outing we had to ourselves only consider date? haha..i dunno. honestly i'm confused. another thing, he did talk about his future with me eg, he wanna change his work and so on. so.. is this a sign or jus a normal discussion .. can i say he's interested in me? hee.... long story..haha...
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there are often several red herrings in a platonic relationship which will confuse either party and you seem to have mentioned several..but if you think deep enough, you will know that it does not mean much or anything at allOriginally posted by crystalangel:actually.. it depends on how well u know each other. and how she respond to u too. if she responds to u like a normal fren and she show clear signal that she really treat u as fren. hold on and let the frenship develops. but if she respond well to ur ..hm.. so called flirting signs or playful signals eg u played with her hair and she din't object.. she may or maybe not likes u back but one thing for sure. she is comfortable with u..that's y she let u play with her hair and stuff like that. if this the case, play with her more.. gradually try to hint her that u like her and so on.. c wat happens ba... hahaha...
actually i myself also have a qns for u all... i've meet this guy... he is older than me two yrs. i'm 21 yrs. went out a few times together.. he did mention that he find me to be a potential gf.. means i'm the type he likes. but he din't says he have interest in me. he says i'm pretty and so on.
called me once or twice or thrice a week..depends..this has been going on for one month.. went out at least once a week jus the two of us.. once or twice a week with our own mutual frens... now the qns is that..he treat everyone with the same attitude.. same friendliness and so on.. how do i know if he's interested in me? is the few outing we had to ourselves only consider date? haha..i dunno. honestly i'm confused. another thing, he did talk about his future with me eg, he wanna change his work and so on. so.. is this a sign or jus a normal discussion .. can i say he's interested in me? hee.... long story..haha...
angel
if he really likes you, he will tell you straight in the face rather than have so many xiao dong zhuo
on the other hand, if you really want to know how he feels about you, it's really simple: just ask lor! doesnt really what gender you are coz only you and you alone can fight for your own happiness
anyway it's something i intend to do and mayb at the expense of losing a friend but it really beats having that lousy feeling all the time wondering whether he/she likes you or not -
thanks donjng and simulacrum for replying..
hm.. been thinking bout asking him directly though it isn't my style.. haahah.... well, when we first know each other.. he did ask me this qns before.. do i like him? haha.. at that moment i dun think i have feelings for him. only maybe a good impression. thus i say no.. i'm guess i'm lucky that he still wanna remain a fren with me till now..its been a month?.. some where there..
infact he asked my fren also.. if i'm interested in him.. i really dun understand wat's he is thinking.. actually i'm wondering if he is interested in me that's y he asked or if he scare that i'll fall for me? if the latter is wat he scare of..then y keep continue to call me and so on? haha.. yeah.u can say i'm a super confuse ger
another thing.. i'm scare he dun feel the same way as i did.. and i'll lose a fren..
btw, he has the potential to be a really really close fren...hahaha... 
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hm....anyone got any idea if he has any interest in me? hahaha...i know this sound ridiculous.... been.....hm....anyone?
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wouldnt the answer sound much sweeter if u can hear it from him rather than anyone from this forum?Originally posted by crystalangel:hm....anyone got any idea if he has any interest in me? hahaha...i know this sound ridiculous.... been.....hm....anyone? -
Hmm... Personally, I think a close friend sounds like a good bargain? Sometimes it's even much harder to get a close friend than a bf...?Originally posted by crystalangel:hm....anyone got any idea if he has any interest in me? hahaha...i know this sound ridiculous.... been.....hm....anyone? -
Originally posted by simulacrum:wouldnt the answer sound much sweeter if u can hear it from him rather than anyone from this forum?
of course it'll sound much much more sweeter... but..hahaha.. i jus wanna know.. though i may not ask him myself..hee... any way.. 'sui yuan' ba.... -
lol i met this girl, for 1 wk, i think it was infatuation lol, so i decided to end it all by telling her how i felt . LOL.
Anyways u neo the answer, but den she didn't block me or anything, so even if u tell him/her tt u like them, i don;t think they will stop being friends with you though ..
unless u pester them la then i gt nth to sae liaoz
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orh... haha.. ya.. maybe its jus infatuation...
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lols
i asked her out lo hahahah
she said nw she exams after tt den see hw
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kkee......good sign......at least she din reject u...Originally posted by beagle:lols
i asked her out lo hahahah
she said nw she exams after tt den see hw 
me still waiting..... wait wait wait.... -
u think tt's gd? i dunnoe leh .. i think i dun lk gd haha later sian½
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Originally posted by simulacrum:
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you feel you might be rejected?
what strategy would you take?
01. no venture, no gain [b]OR 02. hold on to the chips. at least the friendship will not be lost 
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I will gamble for it...when you got nothing...you have nothing to lose