Originally posted by crystalangel:
actually.. it depends on how well u know each other. and how she respond to u too. if she responds to u like a normal fren and she show clear signal that she really treat u as fren. hold on and let the frenship develops. but if she respond well to ur ..hm.. so called flirting signs or playful signals eg u played with her hair and she din't object.. she may or maybe not likes u back but one thing for sure. she is comfortable with u..that's y she let u play with her hair and stuff like that. if this the case, play with her more.. gradually try to hint her that u like her and so on.. c wat happens ba... hahaha...
actually i myself also have a qns for u all... i've meet this guy... he is older than me two yrs. i'm 21 yrs. went out a few times together.. he did mention that he find me to be a potential gf.. means i'm the type he likes. but he din't says he have interest in me. he says i'm pretty and so on.
called me once or twice or thrice a week..depends..this has been going on for one month.. went out at least once a week jus the two of us.. once or twice a week with our own mutual frens... now the qns is that..he treat everyone with the same attitude.. same friendliness and so on.. how do i know if he's interested in me? is the few outing we had to ourselves only consider date? haha..i dunno. honestly i'm confused. another thing, he did talk about his future with me eg, he wanna change his work and so on. so.. is this a sign or jus a normal discussion .. can i say he's interested in me? hee.... long story..haha...
angel
there are often several red herrings in a platonic relationship which will confuse either party and you seem to have mentioned several..but if you think deep enough, you will know that it does not mean much or anything at all
if he really likes you, he will tell you straight in the face rather than have so many xiao dong zhuo
on the other hand, if you really want to know how he feels about you, it's really simple: just ask lor! doesnt really what gender you are coz only you and you alone can fight for your own happiness
anyway it's something i intend to do and mayb at the expense of losing a friend but it really beats having that lousy feeling all the time wondering whether he/she likes you or not