How to tell if a guy is interested in a girl..
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Wah...Originally posted by BaByBoY:good advice..
i`m a fan of urs since the ho yao sun feng bo..
u really rite well...
/me bank in cheque into babyboy's account.
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no prob..Originally posted by Yunhaier:Wah...
/me bank in cheque into babyboy's account.
/me whisper 'thanks for the publicity'
u deserve the credit...
and i deserve the $$..
hehe
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This is just to update...I am actually crying as I type this in now...I think I have lost him..wait no, you can't lose something you have never had..where have I heard that before? I feel so alone right now. Listening to Jacky Cheung's 'I can't forget you' and trying desperately to drown my sorrow and anger...
So what had happened? Well today there was a special lunch in my dorm. I can go to that special lunch because I stay in a special dorm and he does not. So today the dining hall food just sucks. But I got all the nice food cos I can go to the special lunch area. Then he told me he wanted to eat something that is served in that area. I have already finished eating at that time and because of him, I made my second trip to that area ( I can't actually do that, I can only go in once) and begged the person guarding the door to let me in. Luckily it was sumone I know and she let me in le. Then I got the food already and was about to bring it to him but then the normal dining hall people won't let me in! So I can't bring him those stuff, I was quite disappointed but then when I got back I asked him if he still wanted it. He talked to me for a while and then suddenly stopped talking to me. I was puzzled because he had never done that to me before. An hour later, I saw that his sign in name has changed. To "Dearest (fill in the gal's name here) it is so nice to be able to talk to you again." Yes it is that girl. The one he likes.
So why am I angry? See after all I have done for him, he dropped everything he is doing at the moment to talk to that girl. Who has ignored him for months. Who has been listening to his problems, listening to him bitch, cheering him up, supporting him in everything that he does?? Definitely not her. What I am angry at is...he didn't even seem grateful for the trouble I took during the lunch time. He didn't even say thank you. I can't stand the thought of that. I hate him now. Even if we are just friends, can't he jus show that he is just, well, grateful? It is like he will forget all about me once that girl appears.
I am just going to try to let go. I guess it is pretty clear who he likes now. There is no need for me to ask. I dun think he has ever liked me. Suan le ba. -
hmmmOriginally posted by icyprincess:This is just to update...I am actually crying as I type this in now...I think I have lost him..wait no, you can't lose something you have never had..where have I heard that before? I feel so alone right now. Listening to Jacky Cheung's 'I can't forget you' and trying desperately to drown my sorrow and anger...
So what had happened? Well today there was a special lunch in my dorm. I can go to that special lunch because I stay in a special dorm and he does not. So today the dining hall food just sucks. But I got all the nice food cos I can go to the special lunch area. Then he told me he wanted to eat something that is served in that area. I have already finished eating at that time and because of him, I made my second trip to that area ( I can't actually do that, I can only go in once) and begged the person guarding the door to let me in. Luckily it was sumone I know and she let me in le. Then I got the food already and was about to bring it to him but then the normal dining hall people won't let me in! So I can't bring him those stuff, I was quite disappointed but then when I got back I asked him if he still wanted it. He talked to me for a while and then suddenly stopped talking to me. I was puzzled because he had never done that to me before. An hour later, I saw that his sign in name has changed. To "Dearest (fill in the gal's name here) it is so nice to be able to talk to you again." Yes it is that girl. The one he likes.
So why am I angry? See after all I have done for him, he dropped everything he is doing at the moment to talk to that girl. Who has ignored him for months. Who has been listening to his problems, listening to him bitch, cheering him up, supporting him in everything that he does?? Definitely not her. What I am angry at is...he didn't even seem grateful for the trouble I took during the lunch time. He didn't even say thank you. I can't stand the thought of that. I hate him now. Even if we are just friends, can't he jus show that he is just, well, grateful? It is like he will forget all about me once that girl appears.
I am just going to try to let go. I guess it is pretty clear who he likes now. There is no need for me to ask. I dun think he has ever liked me. Suan le ba.
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i think it is really time you move on and forget about that guy..
firstly, he dun deserved you...
secondly, you dun need such a jerk...
be good to yourself and throw him aside..
even if in future he come looking for you again cos the other gal ignored him, think twice about helping him...
to put it badly, you are a spare tire to him... he only comes to you when he needs to... you are definitely not high ranking in his heart..
so put him aside, take some time out and get over the whole thing.. life still carries on... it dun stop for anyone.. let alone some jerk..
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haha..i m done wif him...i have blocked him off evthing oledi...no way for him to contact me...muahahaha...damn i m evil
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look @ her eye.
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bribery..call mata...unless u bank some into mi account too lahOriginally posted by Yunhaier:Wah...
/me bank in cheque into babyboy's account.
/me whisper 'thanks for the publicity' 
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Everything is you think. There is nothing concrete here.Originally posted by icyprincess:This is just to update...I am actually crying as I type this in now...I think I have lost him..wait no, you can't lose something you have never had..where have I heard that before? I feel so alone right now. Listening to Jacky Cheung's 'I can't forget you' and trying desperately to drown my sorrow and anger...
So what had happened? Well today there was a special lunch in my dorm. I can go to that special lunch because I stay in a special dorm and he does not. So today the dining hall food just sucks. But I got all the nice food cos I can go to the special lunch area. Then he told me he wanted to eat something that is served in that area. I have already finished eating at that time and because of him, I made my second trip to that area ( I can't actually do that, I can only go in once) and begged the person guarding the door to let me in. Luckily it was sumone I know and she let me in le. Then I got the food already and was about to bring it to him but then the normal dining hall people won't let me in! So I can't bring him those stuff, I was quite disappointed but then when I got back I asked him if he still wanted it. He talked to me for a while and then suddenly stopped talking to me. I was puzzled because he had never done that to me before. An hour later, I saw that his sign in name has changed. To "Dearest (fill in the gal's name here) it is so nice to be able to talk to you again." Yes it is that girl. The one he likes.
So why am I angry? See after all I have done for him, he dropped everything he is doing at the moment to talk to that girl. Who has ignored him for months. Who has been listening to his problems, listening to him bitch, cheering him up, supporting him in everything that he does?? Definitely not her. What I am angry at is...he didn't even seem grateful for the trouble I took during the lunch time. He didn't even say thank you. I can't stand the thought of that. I hate him now. Even if we are just friends, can't he jus show that he is just, well, grateful? It is like he will forget all about me once that girl appears.
I am just going to try to let go. I guess it is pretty clear who he likes now. There is no need for me to ask. I dun think he has ever liked me. Suan le ba.
Sure you can take this opportunity to end all these - but I am sure, feelings will surface whenever the circumstance rise to the occasion.
You can avoid yourself by not trying to speak, but you have to face your emotions everyday. Why not just drop in a final attempt and close that chapter in peace forever? Say what you want to say and move somewhere else forever.
Cheers -
Don't make me call the croco skin dealer.Originally posted by sgboy2004:bribery..call mata...unless u bank some into mi account too lah
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Yes U rOriginally posted by icyprincess:haha..i m done wif him...i have blocked him off evthing oledi...no way for him to contact me...muahahaha...damn i m evil
Take dis time (I sae preferbly 2 - 3 weeks) to go do smth U wanna do but never had time or da chance to do it. Go out more wif frens, catch up wif yr family & remember to get a pressie for yr mother next wk. Pamper yrself oso while U can. enjoy life too!
Dats all folks! I go kun again... -___-zZzzzzZZZzzz -
about the same hereOriginally posted by freestyle:hey u know wad princess ? i have the same problem as you , just that im the guy. Troubles...
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Update
new msn sign in name-forget,forget,forget...time to erase all memories...dun let me fail again...
listening to: sun yan zi's wo bu nan guo
mood: yea it is 3am here. and i m still awake. i m starting to feel like i m making too much of this. no. it doesn't mean i m going to turn back. eventually it will hurt both of us but it will only hurt more if i let this drag on. so I think I am making the right decision here. Tho I do wish I will be less of a coward one day and finally has the courage to tell him why I do the things I am doing now...
Everyone, thanks for the kind words. Esp the two hours just now at the shoutboard. Sorry if I am long-winded and annoyed anyone. I am holding up well for now. I guess this topic will become like my little diary of this whole letting go process...if you dun find it too depressing, pls do read and give comments. I welcome support
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Cheers!
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I finally told one of my friends here about what had happened. At first she thought the problem was regarding B. But I haven't told her who the person is..but I am guessing at the way things are going now, she will know sooner or later.
I am acting according to plan. But I am thinking about should I delete all the pictures I have taken of him and with him. I just opened my albums just now and I saw all the pictures we have taken together during our vacation and during those times we have spent together. We looked so happy together. Who would know things would turn up this way? As I look at each picture I was crying. I wanted to delete them but then they were really precious to me...
I realize I can't stop loving him this fast. I am taking small steps now. Maybe one day I will finally have courage to just get rid of all those pictures. -
well done!
not bottling up everything is a very good first move!
hmm.. when are pictures portraiting unhappiness? unless at the time of photo-shooting, both of you are unhappy...
the happiness that both of you enjoyed are memories.. cant be wiped out wif a click of a button.. nor can be wiped out by burning photos that show these memories.. these memories are shelved right in your mind... whether delete pictures or not, it does not erase memories in ur mind..
who has ever flip back their photo albums and not found happiness that they once used to have?
we all have our past, our present and our future... if he is past, he is past. not present nor in future... he becomes your past memories, to be shelved and kept... not be regularly reviewed... if we dun have our memories, we wun be wat we are...
no one's telling u to push a button and stop loving him immediately.. if u can do tt, u cant be human... what you need is jus the firmed first step... it doesn't matter how big are the steps as long as it is firm and u r moving on.. (not backwards! heehee )
the day that you can walk out of his shadow is the day you can throw away the pictures.. so jus cheer up and continue walking the steps forward, no matter big or small..
Cheers!