find a trustable male fren? i think that friend will kana blow by him.. >.<Originally posted by NeonTetra:dont worry my friend. there are help available
for a start, try to discard those clothings bit by bit and refrain from doing that. find a trustable male friend and share ur problem with him and be willing to change and receive help.
Being a Christian, i would like to suggest an online help-site which may be of good use to you.
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Hey Pumpy,Originally posted by pumpy:So obviously, many of u tink its insanity tat drives me to doin such tings...
Well, all I can sae is tat it is hard to resist as a smoker is to cigars...
I dnt deny tat I enjoy doin it, but it is also mainly cos i cant control the urge...
I dnt tink anyone of you would spend all your few thousands of saving on anyting if you could control urself... btw, I have nearly spent all my mney on lingerie n stuff...
I thot to myself...mayb i shd let my parents noe...but I cant bear to see their sadness n shame they would feel...
hey u guys trying to make fun out there!!!Originally posted by HENG@:yo guys let up off him!
yeah his prob is his addiction. u guys r goin' on about what he's doin' is wrong but who are we to judge?Originally posted by BaByBoY:hey u guys trying to make fun out there!!!
wat we have here is a poor guy tryin to seek help..
if ur`re here juz to make fun i suggest u go to bar or chit chat..
the poor guy`s here is already very vexed abt his feelins already..
PLZ
I beg of u.. don make fun of ppl in distress.,.
surly u don wan ppl to throw stones at u when ur ship is sinkin rite??
oh god. that is so hellova mean of u.Originally posted by Accela:you should.and they will die with you.
u mean condemning pumpy or condemning accela or condemning christians?Originally posted by NeonTetra:pls do not condemn
yeah i know. he's apologised so just let it go ok?Originally posted by revvieeee:Definitely not Christians.
Just Accela
Scroll up and read how he commented on bumpy.
My apologies for being rude. But his comment was uncalled for.
Hmm... Not bad?Originally posted by Accela:Yeah, you're right, shouldn't make fun of people. I'm sorry. On the serious side, please seek professional psychiatric assistence, because its a psychiatric addiction, it is not as easy to give up on, so other than relying on so called trustable friend, who may or may not be even giving the right advises. It is often more advisable to involve professional assistence. Don't confuse smoking with other addictions, they may be similar but they may need different approaches in resolving the addiction, its unwise to throw a generic solution to everybody.
No, going for psychiatric counseling doesn't mean you are insane, if you go by that definition, we are all insane in one way or another. Freud or some Freud-school psychiatrist said that, we are all mentally imperfect in some way, its natural.
Start with general consoling hotlines, from there either inform your parents and visit a psychiatrist for counseling, if your parents will freak out and send you to the exorcist.. that kinda type of people, which unfortunately does exists, might make matters worse, thats why the hotlines are for, after that you can tell them about your "problem". Ask for more information on psychiatric counseling, they will gladly assist you in hearing you have the determination to solve your addiction.
So the bottom line is, go see a psychiatrist, its not that bad, they know what and how to advise you on even the most sensitive matters. As long they are no quacks, they will not confuse and leave you with riddles.