fark! i hate her!
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I hate to say this but Judging from the way you behave when you're upset, its no wonder why she left you. Well real men refrain from vulgarities. It proves nothing except make others think poorly of you.Originally posted by ahworm:'her' refers to my current gf.
many many months back. i posted my first few threads regarding some problem which cause break up with her. it's my fault. so during the 9 mths wait, i did try my very best to change myself. and i did. after the long waiting, we finally patch at 08-02-2004. after near 3 mths, today i had her confess to me that she actually had the thinking is pacthing up with me is correct. because lately i find her like not as sweet to me as before.
farking i was so upset abt it. i treated her very well and yet is this what i get today? i did try to talk things out. but it doesn't matter does it help in anyway or not..
i am bloody upset and blood boiling in there...
na bu chao chi bye!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Well take it as a lesson learnt in life and you have to move on from there. Women don't want a man who sprews vulgarities and obnoxious remarks all day. If they stick with a man like this, its more for sentimental value rather than love. -
what the fark? vulgarities are cool!! they are so versatile.
for example:
fark you! (when u r pissed off)
what the fark? (when you are very confused)
you farking suck! (to show the seriousness of something, in this case you suckiness)
go and fark yourself! (if you want someone to leave you alone)
I'm farked! (when you are in trouble)
you are farked! (when someone is in trouble and is asking you for help)
so you see, vulgarities are a part of our life, not only it is cool, it is useful in every aspect of daily speech. -
personally i dun agree to that... *jus my humble opinion*
vulgarities should be refrain unless it become necessary to use...
imgaine if everyone go farking ****** every now and then it often jus lead to unhappiness...
i know that between guys (esp in/after NS), "fark" becomes a common word to use cos it has become a form of stress release and gel-ing with the rest... but i would still say.. it still depends on individual on the usage and extend of the usage of this word.. and do you always have to go with the crowd?
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Originally posted by DevilAngel77:
fark you. *pls dun flame me.. jus stating my opinion only..*[/b]
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Originally posted by ahworm:'her' refers to my current gf.
many many months back. i posted my first few threads regarding some problem which cause break up with her. it's my fault. so during the 9 mths wait, i did try my very best to change myself. and i did. after the long waiting, we finally patch at 08-02-2004. after near 3 mths, today i had her confess to me that she actually had the thinking is pacthing up with me is correct. because lately i find her like not as sweet to me as before.
farking i was so upset abt it. i treated her very well and yet is this what i get today? i did try to talk things out. but it doesn't matter does it help in anyway or not..
i am bloody upset and blood boiling in there...
na bu chao chi bye!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Tell me the person: who told you that putting in effort in relationship, doing the right things, trying to communicate effectively and everything else will make the relationship smooth going and move on the right track?
Nobody.
In the end, it's you who think that doing such things will reap havest from it. Don't get me wrong: nobody is saying that you shouldn't do what a decent boyfriend should do - but are we and should we be expecting anything from what we have done?
Your anger is trigger because she has indirectly hurt and strip bare the vulnerable side of yourself and your ego. You got defensive and hurl words that you didn't bother to fine-tune, not knowing that the more you do that - it speaks more about your emotional picture - a badly burn person trying to shun out aids and hids himself in a corner.
Why anger? Why blood boiling? You think love is like studying - When I know I am did my studying, I am sure to pass? You could do alot for your relationship, but when you try to measure in terms of who's receiving more and such - it become meaningless.
LOVE is what you do because you are willing - not because you SHOULD, neither should it be a liability. Don't love if you are not willing to give without possible returns. Generally, there will be returns, but then again, what if there isn't? Are you are going to scream and revolt? You think that will win back your love and respect from her?
You are the one who wanted to be with her - you choose your own partner. You have the right to cease that relationship last time and move on with your life. You CHOSE to wait. You CHOSE her as your current gf. Your CHOSE do all that thingy...
Logically speaking, then you shouldn't hate her. You should start hating yourself.
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What for? All this blasting? All this hatred and anger? Succumb to your higher self and use less of Mars's energy. Acknowledge and humble towards your lessons in life - this will calm your soul. Only then you can see a clearer path in love.
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How old are you? How are you feeling now?Originally posted by ahworm:one more thing to say..
having known her for 4 farking yrs in r/s, she haven;t even let her parent know. she is 22 this yr. why she is doing this to me? i feel like i'm in an underground r/s
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sorry for flaring up like no one's biz.
i dun use those words at my gf. never in my life i use those words on a gal too..
i understand true love dun expect any return, but i'm only looking for a gal whom i can love and love me that's all. i'm angry that why love can't be a fair thing, although i knew it'll not happen in the real world.
i'm treating my gf as usual now. but feeling a bit weird weird. confused as to how i should treat her, but i think i want to treat her as my gf still. if she wants to leave, by all means. i'll leave this place then. perhaps when i return a few years later, i would already found 'her'.
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Originally posted by ahworm:sorry for flaring up like no one's biz.
i dun use those words at my gf. never in my life i use those words on a gal too..
i understand true love dun expect any return, but i'm only looking for a gal whom i can love and love me that's all. i'm angry that why love can't be a fair thing, although i knew it'll not happen in the real world.
i'm treating my gf as usual now. but feeling a bit weird weird. confused as to how i should treat her, but i think i want to treat her as my gf still. if she wants to leave, by all means. i'll leave this place then. perhaps when i return a few years later, i would already found 'her'. Seriously, nothing is absolutely fair in this world - love is of no exception.
A girl that loves you and you loved her as well? If you want to look for the real thing, you must first understand and go through what's NOT for you.
Cheers -
Buddy, it takes maturity to make a relationship last, and even when it doesn't work out (and it is very often no one's fault when that happens, so save the finger pointing), at least learn something positive from it.
Of course everyone is entitled to ventilate, but I hope you're more reflective about yourself after you've let off the steam. -
Hai....sounded like it's for me.Originally posted by Yunhaier: Seriously, nothing is absolutely fair in this world - love is of no exception.
A girl that loves you and you loved her as well? If you want to look for the real thing, you must first understand and go through what's NOT for you.
Cheers
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well.. most gals.. i should say.. r soft hearted..
u should try to do something that really touch her heart.. sendin her home and doin simple things for her r wat a gd bf should do..
maybe u can try to say how much she mean to u and make her realised that u gave her ur heart..
btw ur initial aggression haf improved in AA.. but NV allow urself to hurl such hurting word to ur gf..
afterall she`s who u loved..
best luck to u whom wanna woo back ur gal`s HEART and TRUST..
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Originally posted by ahworm:sorry for flaring up like no one's biz.
i dun use those words at my gf. never in my life i use those words on a gal too..
i understand true love dun expect any return, but i'm only looking for a gal whom i can love and love me that's all. i'm angry that why love can't be a fair thing, although i knew it'll not happen in the real world.
i'm treating my gf as usual now. but feeling a bit weird weird. confused as to how i should treat her, but i think i want to treat her as my gf still. if she wants to leave, by all means. i'll leave this place then. perhaps when i return a few years later, i would already found 'her'. 
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If it's time to move on, move on.No point hanging onto something just for the sake of seeing what you will get in return.
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u hav the sme fate with me is ur gf break with u 1st or u ? fark al the gal is same when u 2 is in love they will give u everything when breakin up they so heartless
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Do not be upset or getting your blood boilsOriginally posted by ahworm:'her' refers to my current gf.
many many months back. i posted my first few threads regarding some problem which cause break up with her. it's my fault. so during the 9 mths wait, i did try my very best to change myself. and i did. after the long waiting, we finally patch at 08-02-2004. after near 3 mths, today i had her confess to me that she actually had the thinking is pacthing up with me is correct. because lately i find her like not as sweet to me as before.
farking i was so upset abt it. i treated her very well and yet is this what i get today? i did try to talk things out. but it doesn't matter does it help in anyway or not..
i am bloody upset and blood boiling in there...
na bu chao chi bye!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
it takes time...for her to accept you again.
At least you got the chance to be with her again.
Remember from my lesson....anger would not solve anything...
instead it creates more problem. And when you fly into a rage..
you will say nasty things. Do u want to regret for saying nasty words and nasty actions? And sorry would not serve as a purpose anymore?
Do not be like me
I regretted my actions, but i cannot be sorry anymore
only to change myself and improve myself. -
Hating something takes tremendous amount of energy.
It would caused you greives..and pain..unhappinness.
Why not use this energy in how to solve the present situation? -
hey lingos long time since I have seen you post something! Welcome back!Originally posted by Lingos:Peepps.. when it's over.. Don't go back!
DON'T GO THERE!! -
Hey ahworm how old are you?Originally posted by ahworm:one more thing to say..
having known her for 4 farking yrs in r/s, she haven;t even let her parent know. she is 22 this yr. why she is doing this to me? i feel like i'm in an underground r/s
is she seeking for only play play type of r/s or want a serious one?
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Hey.. fark u. If u love her, u should not have say such things as farking her in this forum. Love is not about being with each other. U don love her at all, so stop posting all the stupid things in this forum. U then na bu chee bye.
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Its not exactly for every gal...Originally posted by junk:u hav the sme fate with me is ur gf break with u 1st or u ? fark al the gal is same when u 2 is in love they will give u everything when breakin up they so heartless
Walking away from someone u had love with all your heart is not easy.
I'm a gal... For me, it really is difficult...
No matter how unreasonable he is, i won't walk away....
No matter how bad his temper is, i won't walk away...
But if he had hurt me and broken my heart too many times... too much for me to take, i will walk away... and never look back...
In other words... "Cheng XIm" = Hokkien
" Jue Wang" = CHinese...
When things happen, dun always blame it on other ppl... reflect on urself first... It's not easy to think this way. I have not mastered it yet.. but i'm trying... -
no choice lor, time to take a break dude... if can convince yrself to do dat, all the better. if not, den i oso dunnoe le, not like we can control these sorta things u noe.Originally posted by ahworm:i really feel like giving up on her...
that chao chi bye.
just now i still message her i miss her but she doesn't even reply that portion. instead she reply other part of the message.
fark! she want to play with me right? chao chi bye!!
i even offer to go fetch her home later cos she was outside with friend.
i feel like ignoring her and go sleep better but still i worry cos it's getting late.
na bei why i so farking useless????????????? -
hao ma bu chi hui tou chao ...
Good horse never eat grass behind his... -
NICE....Originally posted by Seventh_Son:Hating something takes tremendous amount of energy.
It would caused you greives..and pain..unhappinness.
Why not use this energy in how to solve the present situation? -
u r so kid....Originally posted by the.raven:what the fark? vulgarities are cool!! they are so versatile.
for example:
fark you! (when u r pissed off)
what the fark? (when you are very confused)
you farking suck! (to show the seriousness of something, in this case you suckiness)
go and fark yourself! (if you want someone to leave you alone)
I'm farked! (when you are in trouble)
you are farked! (when someone is in trouble and is asking you for help)
so you see, vulgarities are a part of our life, not only it is cool, it is useful in every aspect of daily speech.
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hey beware of whose modesty you are outraging with your words--- all the women in this forum!! its a criminal offense by the wayOriginally posted by ahworm:na bei all girls are good for farking only. when it comes to r/s, conclusion = there is no longer true love in this world now!