A sad love story tat developed from Sgforums...
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this is a story abt my relationship with a gal from whom i met from Sgforums.we chatted for a while n clicked very well.soon i fell for her,her personality.we have known each other for like 2weeks now...
1st day) she msg me via frenster den we exchange numbers.den i called her.we soon tok n tok n tok.we tok until like quite late b4 i had to hang up n go out.i enjoyed juz toking to her bcos we clicked spontanously.
2nd)i called her early in the afternoon.bored ma.den she oso bored.wanted to go cyndi fanmeet.but alone so don wan.den jio her go she don wan.den after tat we chatted until like 6pm+.unknowingly grew attracted to her...
3rd)wanted to go cyndi fanmeet at PS.again alone,so jio her again.oso no go...den in end chatted until a long long time.saw her pic...not clear tho...
4th)met up.bought lunch for me,of cos i paid her.she came my hse.a surprise.i tot she was kidding.we played crazy taxi.den after tat we went for a movie.starsky and hutch.watched n enjoyed.den she went woodlands library.n i went home.chatted from 10pm to 3am tat nite.popped her the question twice...at my home n movie...
5th)went over to her hse under pretext of using her comp.met her dad n younger bro.really used her comp.den went to meet her fren to give some tuitioning for maths.tuitored until 6pm.den went to watch dawn of the dead.den i sent her home n went home myself.
tok on phone till 1.30am.
6th)joined her n her fren again.went shopping with her n her fren.den sent her home.chatted on phone again.
7th)met her fren. me n her watch 50 1st dates.gave a surprize n she gave me 1 too...a peck on the cheeks.den after tat sent her home.n chatted again
8th)never meet.chatted on phone for a hell lota of time.
9th)went taka,met her cousin,den went to my former working place n met my ex colleagues.chitchat tok tok.den after tat went to a church service with her...altho i was damn uncomfortable...den after tat sent her back.waited for her to return from fren bbq at 1am like tat.den chat again
10th)sms a lot.chit chat a lot at nite.until like 12.30. tired 1 lehz...i got work so last nite tok lesser...
11)now currently toking to her...
she had a ex who was with her for 1yr+.she cant forget him.den she had another like march.n broke with him during april.a few days b4 knowing me.the reason for break was she ask her ex for patch n her den bf saw tat sms.broke with her,wanted to patch but couldnt forgive her so he gave up tat idea.i confessed i liked her on the day we met.not for her looks nor body...but bcos we r like so compatible we click n ....wateva...den i asked her if she likes me too.she admitted it.i jio her as my gf,but she refused.at 1st telling me she still have her 1yr ex in heart.den shortly after tat,she told me she had another ex(tat 1mth) n it was like ,she was still hoping for a patch with him.almost daily i went out with her after work.kept her company.she said i treated her very good,very sweet n nicer den her 1mth Ex.she said she gave up on her 1yr ex.but still she donno wat to do.we were kinda like enjoying ourselves till lsat nite.she told me her 1mthex called her n asked for a meeting.
i donno wat to do.n she oso.its like i really really like her.altho we know each other for a short time but its like the time we spent on getting to know each other really makes up for tat. she said tat if i met her b4 her 1mth ex.she mite(high chance) have gone steady with me.but rite now she is not sure of wat to do...
guys plz help...
me n her gonna b in same course same poly...so tat means...i will b meeting her for the next 3years. -
wonder if she is also reading here in the sgforums...
1) She might be touched by your post here tat she sees u liked her a lot ; or
2) She got upset with u for posting abt her here (though no name mentioned)
Next time, use Guy A and Girl B lah
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it's going to be sadder if you post this is one more forum and get hammered by the mods...
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hopefully touched den pissed...
she cant come online for a whlie... -
bo bian...i wan to gather opinions faster...
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u never know... she can use other computer in library or cafe mah... then suddenly see this post by u...Originally posted by bladez87:hopefully touched den pissed...
she cant come online for a whlie...
Guess u hav to be persistent lor...who dun hav a past... more impt is the present and future... move ahead and show tat u are worthy of her...show her man
good luck to u -
certain things cannot be fast one, must hav patience lahOriginally posted by bladez87:bo bian...i wan to gather opinions faster... -
bear, that's mean of u...Originally posted by the Bear:it's going to be sadder if you post this is one more forum and get hammered by the mods...
but back to the topic...
erm... if she cannot get over her exs, it will be terrible for u... will u be able to tahan not knowing when she will go back to her ex?? -
hi hairy palms. pray she din read those posts of yours.
anyways... uh... well... just try your best... sometimes things that are meant to be are meant to be -
Hey bladez87,
My strong suggestion is just to hold on, give her time... just be your normal self and since the two of you like hanging out and talking on the phone together thats great!
Time will tell... mean time just relax and enjoy each others company! -
ermz...fireice ah...in my other thread,wat other replies were there huh?i only noe i cant say her nick bcos she will ignore me for the rest of the 3years in poly...oh we both 17.
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Let her decide and wish her the best. You want her to find her happiness right?
i truly understand what you are going through. -
omg...no time le la...her ex meeting her soon...if she were to patch...there will b no more chance for us to be together.damn y did i go offline...now i donno wat other ppl said in my other post >.<
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dun so panic leh... lagi funny
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heng u r soooo dead...trust me next time we meet.u betta start running.luffing at my plight...i seriously nid help la duhz.geez i donno la...i really wan to b with her.but it so happens tat we cant bcos she thinks she n her ex still not over yet...
1st time i like a gal
n she likes me
but we cant b together...
ironic huh -
~*~try your best to catch her heartie!~*~Originally posted by bladez87:omg...no time le la...her ex meeting her soon...if she were to patch...there will b no more chance for us to be together.damn y did i go offline...now i donno wat other ppl said in my other post >.< -
So what if she is with you but still cant forget her ex? It will be more painful for the two of you. You can say you dun mind but if she says 'I miss him", 'I still love him' etc, can you take it? One cannot love to order. If it's meant to be yours, it will be. Just take it easy, sometimes being frens is better than being lovers. And then, you are still young, no hurry to get into a relationship. Hurrying things will only make things worse.Originally posted by bladez87:heng u r soooo dead...trust me next time we meet.u betta start running.luffing at my plight...i seriously nid help la duhz.geez i donno la...i really wan to b with her.but it so happens tat we cant bcos she thinks she n her ex still not over yet...
1st time i like a gal
n she likes me
but we cant b together...
ironic huh -
sounds like me?
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xiao di... there are more ironic things in life... u cannot do anything liao. its up to her. anyways your situation, i also in b4... lidat lidat lohOriginally posted by bladez87:heng u r soooo dead...trust me next time we meet.u betta start running.luffing at my plight...i seriously nid help la duhz.geez i donno la...i really wan to b with her.but it so happens tat we cant bcos she thinks she n her ex still not over yet...
1st time i like a gal
n she likes me
but we cant b together...
ironic huh -
she like u still not over with her ex? you sure anot?Originally posted by bladez87:heng u r soooo dead...trust me next time we meet.u betta start running.luffing at my plight...i seriously nid help la duhz.geez i donno la...i really wan to b with her.but it so happens tat we cant bcos she thinks she n her ex still not over yet...
1st time i like a gal
n she likes me
but we cant b together...
ironic huh
what u mean by not over? haven't break? or break liow still want patch~ ex lehx.. she like u sure be with u right? why bother see that ex again~
u will have chance de since u know she like u~
don't worry unduly lor~
say he's EX liow~
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[/b]Originally posted by browniebaobao:So what if she is with you but still cant forget her ex? It will be more painful for the two of you. You can say you dun mind but if she says 'I miss him", 'I still love him' etc, can you take it? One cannot love to order. If it's meant to be yours, it will be. Just take it easy, sometimes being frens is better than being lovers. And then, you are still young, no hurry to get into a relationship.[b] Hurrying things will only make things worse.
yes! dont rush things ... like me ... i m impatient and got her angry ... haiz ... -
i think guys really need patience lor.. cos i've seen my girl friends quarrelled with their bf cos of patience~ i also don't really understand what they are trying to quarrel about..
be patient bah blade~ jia you~~ -
not over as in ex but still wan patch i think...
she feels tat she betrayed him ma...
i think the moment she sees this post thread...
i cfm no chance...bcos every1 saying let her go...as in...not positively helping me get her >.< but getting me to let her go.ya i noe let her go...but when u like some1 so much...it natural to b selfish...how many of u willing to give up your current partner now... -
not over as in ex but still wan patch i think...
she feels tat she betrayed him ma...
i think the moment she sees this post thread...
i cfm no chance...bcos every1 saying let her go...as in...not positively helping me get her >.< but getting me to let her go.ya i noe let her go...but when u like some1 so much...it natural to b selfish...how many of u willing to give up your current partner now... -
i didn't ask you to let her go..Originally posted by bladez87:not over as in ex but still wan patch i think...
she feels tat she betrayed him ma...
i think the moment she sees this post thread...
i cfm no chance...bcos every1 saying let her go...as in...not positively helping me get her >.< but getting me to let her go.ya i noe let her go...but when u like some1 so much...it natural to b selfish...how many of u willing to give up your current partner now...
woo her!
my boi no much good points, no money no looks no character only 1 good temper.. he woo me when im with my ex
woo woo woo until i accept him
see? jia you bah~~