A sad love story tat developed from Sgforums...

• browniebaobao

  3 May 04, 12:53

  Originally posted by bladez87:

  not over as in ex but still wan patch i think...
  she feels tat she betrayed him ma...
  i think the moment she sees this post thread...
  i cfm no chance...bcos every1 saying let her go...as in...not positively helping me get her >.< but getting me to let her go.ya i noe let her go...but when u like some1 so much...it natural to b selfish...how many of u willing to give up your current partner now...

  Selfish at first, coz you know that you need her, love her a lot. I'm in the same plight as you but my case is more complicated. We were together, broke up but still very in love with him. He still loves his ex whom he broke up with 3 years ago. I told him to be brave enough to ask for a patch up coz I know that he loves her a lot, and if she is the only girl he wants to spend his life with, then why must I hold him back? Wish him all the best, I only want him to be happy, it doesn't matter how I feel.
• bladez87

  3 May 04, 12:55

  tmr she coming my hse...den we going to ngee ann poly to submit some stuff...wat can i do?i think she meeting her ex on wed...so tat means i only got less den 48hrs to convince her to b with me...i don wan to snatch her from her ex when they together...not right in moral sense...planning some sort of surprise for her...cant think of any yet...she likes lolipops...i suppose can buy many for her?
  Heng@ u give me your number can?i got some questions to ask u.ermz i call u la bcos i cant online so often...now working >.<
• HENG@

  3 May 04, 12:56

  Originally posted by bladez87:

  not over as in ex but still wan patch i think...
  she feels tat she betrayed him ma...
  i think the moment she sees this post thread...
  i cfm no chance...bcos every1 saying let her go...as in...not positively helping me get her >.< but getting me to let her go.ya i noe let her go...but when u like some1 so much...it natural to b selfish...how many of u willing to give up your current partnernow...

  I did. so don't think its not possible to do it.
• browniebaobao

  3 May 04, 12:58

  Originally posted by HENG@:

  I did. so don't think its not possible to do it.

  Agree. It's a matter of choice.
• HENG@

  3 May 04, 13:01

  Originally posted by bladez87:

  tmr she coming my hse...den we going to ngee ann poly to submit some stuff...wat can i do?i think she meeting her ex on wed...so tat means i only got less den 48hrs to convince her to b with me...i don wan to snatch her from her ex when they together...not right in moral sense...planning some sort of surprise for her...cant think of any yet...she likes lolipops...i suppose can buy many for her?
  Heng@ u give me your number can?i got some questions to ask u.ermz i call u la bcos i cant online so often...now working >.<

  PM u liao
• ^sylvia^

  3 May 04, 13:07

  woah heng gibe blade his number..
  me dun haf ah??? jkjk hee
• bladez87

  3 May 04, 13:07

  ermz...any ppl anymore advice on wat to do?
• ^sylvia^

  3 May 04, 13:08

  jio her! practical way~
  
• bladez87

  3 May 04, 13:10

  ermz like how???
  i donno wat to do...
  its like her ex is the barrier btw us both...once tat barrier is gone...i think the chance of us being together will b very high...or tat is wat i think n she said...
• BaByBoY

  3 May 04, 13:11

  dear blades..
  
  i tell u.. no need to be so rush one.. true love will come to u eventually..
  u said u and her clicked well and the only ting tt`s keepin her away from u is her ex.. don worry.. u`ll haf more time than anyone else...
  
  `jin shui lo tai xian de yue`
  
  since ur`e goin to be w her for the nxt 3 yrs.. ur chances are high..
  
  and also for ur fren here who might be reading this thread.. and advice for u..
  love doesnt really haf to relate w time.. if blade is here for u why not consider him?
  wat`s passed had passed..
  give u urself and blade a new life..
  
  pe patient..
• ^sylvia^

  3 May 04, 13:11

  Originally posted by bladez87:

  ermz like how???
  i donno wat to do...
  its like her ex is the barrier btw us both...once tat barrier is gone...i think the chance of us being together will b very high...or tat is wat i think n she said...

  means she still like her ex right? shes interested in you. but she has got feelings for him.. understand? seize the chance.
  meet her up face to face(i know guys sure dam paiseh) and ask her whether shes willing to give up her ex be with u or not.
  no pain no gain~ take the risk man~
• <sk>

  3 May 04, 13:12

  I do not see her ex as a barrier, I see it more as a test! =P Plus, it adds to the challenge!
• shinta

  3 May 04, 13:12

  hmm...all i can say is, if u really love her, u should wish for her to be happy. this can mean livin a life without u?
  
  my ex bf and i were in a similar situation. i loved him, he loved me, but we broke up cos we didn want to pull each other back....
  
  ok lar...i didn really wanna break up lar... but it was for the good for the both of us? and frm wat he said, mainly for my own good...
• HENG@

  3 May 04, 13:14

  Originally posted by bladez87:

  ermz like how???
  i donno wat to do...
  its like her ex is the barrier btw us both...once tat barrier is gone...i think the chance of us being together will b very high...or tat is wat i think n she said...

  kill him?
  just joking... don't take for real. if u go n do anything stupid i not responsible.
• ditzy

  3 May 04, 13:15

  Honeymoon period detected. Wait and see attitude highly recommended.
• bladez87

  3 May 04, 13:19

  i did tell her face to face....
  but i no ask if she willing to give up her ex for me anot...
  i only asked if she willing to b with me...
• bladez87

  3 May 04, 13:20

  i did tell her face to face....
  but i no ask if she willing to give up her ex for me anot...
  i only asked if she willing to b with me...
• ^sylvia^

  3 May 04, 13:21

  Originally posted by shinta:

  hmm...all i can say is, if u really love her, u should wish for her to be happy. this can mean livin a life without u?
  
  my ex bf and i were in a similar situation. i loved him, he loved me, but we broke up cos we didn want to pull each other back....
  
  ok lar...i didn really wanna break up lar... but it was for the good for the both of us? and frm wat he said, mainly for my own good...

  hi shinta! but hor.. scully the girl is looking hor.. like that what if the girl nv choose him how after seeing our post..
  
  i think we encourage him first lo~ since he haven't start out with her.. must give up liow very ke xi~
• bladez87

  3 May 04, 13:23

  shinta...i noe u mean good but i agree with wat sylvia says...later she read liao don wan give me chance...or expect me to give up den...cham...
• the.raven

  3 May 04, 13:23

  ehhh blades...the girl u r talking about...dun tell me shes Germaine?
  
  if its not her sry sry but btw how u know Germaine one?
• Devil1976

  3 May 04, 13:25

  What say you.... Girl?
• ^sylvia^

  3 May 04, 13:26

  Originally posted by bladez87:

  shinta...i noe u mean good but i agree with wat sylvia says...later she read liao don wan give me chance...or expect me to give up den...cham...

  dun give up.. maybe ur the one who can truly give her happiness???
  
  jia you~ im always be here supporting u~
  
  
• the.raven

  3 May 04, 13:29

  I support u too, thx for the message
• *bluee

  3 May 04, 13:53

  Originally posted by bladez87:

  shinta...i noe u mean good but i agree with wat sylvia says...later she read liao don wan give me chance...or expect me to give up den...cham...

  Hi bladee...
  
  if u so scare she read other advise and tke in em, den u shldn't discuss it openly here...
  
  Anyway, like u say wanna give her surprise, u can try doing some little handmade stuff to tounch her heart, eg cards, flower, photoframe...
• wudimax

  3 May 04, 13:58

  i think u should give up on her, maybe when she relise life without u will be meaningless, she will come back to u.
  
  Sometimes human will not treasure till she/he loses it.