Does a girl need to play hard to get?
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icy, sometimes guy can feel insecure too... does he know abt the previous guy? if yes, does he know how u feel? sometimes it is not walking away but taking a step backwards and observe the situation.. if he think tt this is gonna be a rebound, he will of cos think twice... thus explaining the "distancing"..Originally posted by icyprincess:See, that's why I want to play hard to get. It seems like once the guy knows I like him, he will start distancing himself from me. Now you know why I am sick of guys. I feel like I can't trust them. I feel like the moment I am ready to entrust them with my heart, they will just walk away. I just dun understand guys anymore. I should just stay single my whole life and then I wouldn't have such headache.
sometimes a love that comes easily, goes easily too.. a love that never experience testing is not necessary one that can last...
dun judge so soon, have a chat.. find out the real situation before making any decision... when u have considered everything and made a decision, stick to ur decision..
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somehow when a guy needs to try harder to get a girl, he tends to treasure her more.. i dunno how true this is, heard it from one of my guy friends... i was telling him i dun believe in playing hard to get.. if someone likes me and i like him den ok liao lor.. y waste time.. i oso scared that halfway he give up
then my friend said i was too easy... muz play hard to get... GUYS.. haiiiiii~ 
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There're all kinds of guys around... What your friend told you is just one kind...Originally posted by cAr|n:somehow when a guy needs to try harder to get a girl, he tends to treasure her more.. i dunno how true this is, heard it from one of my guy friends... i was telling him i dun believe in playing hard to get.. if someone likes me and i like him den ok liao lor.. y waste time.. i oso scared that halfway he give up then my friend said i was too easy... muz play hard to get... GUYS.. haiiiiii~ -
I guess tat most women like to feel treasured. So if the guy gives up too fast or gives up after facing small rejection, then we'll think tat the guy is either juz fooling ard or not sincere at all. Sometimes we need to play hard to get even though we like the guy oredi juz to see how determined n sincere the guy is to us.
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Need? No thanks. If she play hard to get with me, then forget missy.
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Ask him directly, face to face.
No point speculating here.
You will only be trapped in your own thoughts and your mind goes running wild.
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Yes ask direct. Straight forward girls i like. I will go direct too. I like you i like if not forget it missy. A lot of rejections both ways but at least i feel better.
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im also one of those guys that hate gals playing hard to
get !! wats the big deal! *hang up high high in the sky to sell* *PUI!!*
see how long u gals can afford to "play hard to get" b4 u know it,u r in yr 30s liao!
to me,like is like...dont like means dont like...
wat for want to play game? havent grow up izit?
btw when guy date a girl out...mind u we are also observing
and decide if u r "the one"
cant gals keep things simple? -
yeah me too ..Originally posted by Ogbunwezeh:Playing hard to get does not apply to every guy... Some get piss off by tat, i'm also one of them. -
Go ahead and play hard to get. You seriously need to know how much you meant to him. Guys of course like gals to be easy on them, but later you will regret that you are too easy on him that his ego will rise faster than his blood up his brain...then he will start not to take you seriously.Originally posted by icyprincess:Does a girl need to play hard to get to make the guy remains attracted to her? See, I am trying to give B a chance but I dunno why, I can sense that he is kinda 'colder' towards me now...Maybe it is becos we are both busy with exams and stuff, but the truth is I need someone even more during this time. Maybe I am being too demanding, I dunno. Last time, before the exam, he used to call me all the time to ask me out for meals but now he didn't call anymore, and I am the one who is calling him now and he won't be in his room. I think I should just continue to play hard to get like last time...and then he will pay more attention to me again hehehehe But anyway just need opinions here...feel free to comment...
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You also should know when to stop when you feel the guy is getting to be sian. Give him another sweet moment and the game starts again! What fun it is!
Hahaha....hahahahaha......
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very very notti.Originally posted by parn:Go ahead and play hard to get. You seriously need to know how much you meant to him. Guys of course like gals to be easy on them, but later you will regret that you are too easy on him that his ego will rise faster than his blood up his brain...then he will start not to take you seriously.
You also should know when to stop when you feel the guy is getting to be sian. Give him another sweet moment and the game starts again! What fun it is!
Hahaha....hahahahaha......