Originally posted by M©+square:assumption kills. So don't practice. Even if you do, don't show it or tell others. It's sick to know of such person.![]()
Don't think too much... Thinking too much might leads to quite unhealthy effects... What done cannot be undone.. Look forward...Originally posted by expression:yeah. maybe i am gullible. to me, he is a man of high & respectable position. thought he would have known his limits. afterall he is a good drinker.
Not a very wise move... Make doubly SURE that your 'trusted' colleague is someone who can really keep things to herself... Else, she might just land you in a situation you don't wanna be indirectly....Originally posted by expression:when he left for the day, i told my very close n trusted colleague aboutt the incident. she told me that on that day, he told her he will send me home (my colleague was supposed to send me home). my colleague agreed because she always thought he was exceptionally nice to me and she thought he likes me as a younger sister, hence he will take care of me. (he loved to give me friendly pats on my head when we were out drinking in the past)
I am shocked that you actually told your colleague! You have very poor judgement. If you really value ur career in ur firm, you should not tell anyone about the incident esp those working in the same firm as you.Originally posted by Devil1976:Not a very wise move... Make doubly SURE that your 'trusted' colleague is someone who can really keep things to herself... Else, she might just land you in a situation you don't wanna be indirectly....
Probably he think you are meek. He will ask for seconds..beware.Originally posted by expression:...was very friendly to me and asked me why am i back in office. i was kinda stunned..
Good move...Originally posted by expression:hmm... i admit i am gullible and easily influeneced. hence my bad judgement to confide in my colleague. i trust my colleague but now i understand you can never take chances with such sensitive topics. whatever it is, it has been done, cannot be undone. i can only pray that they are really trustworthy and will not breathe a single word to anyone else. otherwise, i only have myself to blame and i have no choice but to accept it. in that case, at least it's a lesson learnt.
he is still not his usual self - overly friendly today. well, i have decided to put all these behind me. i don't care about his true intentions - whether he was too lusty, whether he really has some feelings for me, whether he is going to do anything to me again, whether he is going to sack me.
at the end of the day, what has happened has happened. whatever is going to happen in the future, there is no point for me to worry about it now. i will just ensure that i do not allow future similar opportunities for him. meanwhile i will just do my work as it is.
to all the people who responded, thanks for taking time. appreciate them... & wish me good luck!
Well... You can say that again....Originally posted by springtime:How do you actually feel about him? have a feeling that he might think that he may get a chance with you 'coz to him, you didn't seem to mind what happened that night... like it was mutual or something ? however i totally understand the situation you were caught in. Guess if I would had reacted the same as you. Guess all i can say is, shit happens?
I'm dating my big boss and all i can say is, it's isn't a good thing to eat and shit at the place ?![]()