independent girl seeking help.........
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errm... maybe ur boyfriend should stop being so needy and start being a MAN? Time to stand up and take charge... instead of relying on u...
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U give my support! Just last night I had a tiff with my gf over the same problems that u experienced, but I am quite determined to knock some sense in to my gf! Hope u can too! And dont give up!
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Look for a bf who can provide u enough financial support! The medical fee for yr father will eventually wear u out and yr bf will feel the heat too! No good ending in the end. Look for a rich bf,my word may be harsh but it is for yr own good.
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My heart goes out to you, independent girl.
You are simply too nice to your bf, do you know that? So nice that he took you for granted.
One tip...I hate this but it will works for you anyway. Try to cry a bit often in front of him...tell him that you felt that he has changed since he went to army. Tell him that you don't feel loved enough from him. You see...the problem here is that you have been behaving too independent already...although you are an independent gal.
You need to let him know your fears and worries...by crying. Hehehe...tell you why it will works like a charm okie? Guys don't like to see girls cry. So when a girl cries...most guys will feel bad for her. Don't believe? Try to cry sliently in a crowded place, sure guys will come up and console you. Okie...at least I will if you are not bad-looking. Since you got a bf, so you cannot be a goner in the looks department. You need to cry in front of him to activate his protective and caring mood so that he will forget all his troubles for that moment and seriously listen to you.
Okie...that is the ultimate weapon used by all gals and we guys cannot do anything to resist it. Errmm...don't do that too often okie? Guys will build up resistants against it over the time. Use it wisely.
Haiz....what to do? I'm a 'jian nan ren'.
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I think the part on 'voicing out' is good. But ideally, it should be more a more constructive and communicative manner.Originally posted by parn: My heart goes out to you, independent girl.
You are simply too nice to your bf, do you know that? So nice that he took you for granted.
One tip...I hate this but it will works for you anyway. Try to cry a bit often in front of him...tell him that you felt that he has changed since he went to army. Tell him that you don't feel loved enough from him. You see...the problem here is that you have been behaving too independent already...although you are an independent gal.
You need to let him know your fears and worries...by crying. Hehehe...tell you why it will works like a charm okie? Guys don't like to see girls cry. So when a girl cries...most guys will feel bad for her. Don't believe? Try to cry sliently in a crowded place, sure guys will come up and console you. Okie...at least I will if you are not bad-looking. Since you got a bf, so you cannot be a goner in the looks department. You need to cry in front of him to activate his protective and caring mood so that he will forget all his troubles for that moment and seriously listen to you.
Okie...that is the ultimate weapon used by all gals and we guys cannot do anything to resist it. Errmm...don't do that too often okie? Guys will build up resistants against it over the time. Use it wisely.
Haiz....what to do? I'm a 'jian nan ren'.
'Crying' as suggested, might or might not work... And in the case where a guy is much stressed e.g. in army camp and such? Things MIGHT turn out to be much worse...
Regards.