the gal who lost feelings for me...
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told me it was bcos...
1) i got a bad temper.
2) i whine alot
3) i hit her with a hanger...
1) i admit u can help me by posting help here
http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=80169
2) & 3) it was a joke.
bcos always working ma...den so long den met n work with my old fren so i let loose n had fun lor...den whine n throw stuff in name of fun...
haix donno wat to do from now...
she don like me bcos of these 3 reasons.
2 & 3 i cant do anything abt it...bcos it was having fun...nth much i can do since it passed le.
1) i nid help abt it...really sad bcos of my own doing tat i lost the person who i like n who like me...haix
if can turn back time...i will not have blown my top...
i tried to curb it many times...but i always fail...
either i don get angry at all
or i explode...haix...
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You whine, damn I hate guys who whine. Only slaughtered pigs whine.
Hit her with a hanger, dammit now that is unforgiveable. Who do you think you are hitting her with a hanger, be it for fun or not? You're her bf leh, wake up your idea can?!
She reserves all the right to leave you for the last 2 reasons, enough said. Let this be a lesson to you in your future relationships.
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corrections!!!
she said i whined
but to me i was not whining leh!
haix...
i was in a joking mood.so i juz joked ard ma...
they made me carry a lot of cartons
so i was like.
waa lao 2 guys always find me do.
carry here carry there think i superman ah?haha
etc etc la.but i still do ma.n tat day 1st time working with my skool frenz.den its like long time no meet den meet le so i very lax lor.
joke n joke n joke.whole day was a joke to me lor.
as in having fun.luffing ard.
den abt hitting her with a hanger...
now exactly hitting la...but i toss as in no use strength tat kinda la.
not those throw liao purposely hit until the person bleeding de.
i was juz tossing to her.the toss if can hit her n she say pain...den i nth to say den i admit its my fault...but like i said...the whole day was a joke to me ma...joking ard playing fooling.
haix...
i no hit gal b4 hor...playing den don say...but i really sorry...
i tot tat time she playing with me ma...
tat time 4 ppl,3 of us were like joking n playing.naturally i tot she was oso fooling ard.so i juz ...toss lor...den she got so pissed up n fed up...
i noe my fault la...but i donno wat to do to make it up lor.
i thinking of ways to getting her to like me back...but i donno wat to do...bcos she told me tat for her to like me back is not impossible but very hard... -
AGREED.....but just 1 reason is enough ..hitting gals...death penalty...?? are u a man?????? .... hope u can never find another victim again....Originally posted by ditzy:You whine, damn I hate guys who whine. Only slaughtered pigs whine.
Hit her with a hanger, dammit now that is unforgiveable. Who do you think you are hitting her with a hanger, be it for fun or not? You're her bf leh, wake up your idea can?!
She reserves all the right to leave you for the last 2 reasons, enough said. Let this be a lesson to you in your future relationships. 
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Whatever the case, the intention is there. No, I won't cut any slack.
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waa kao waa kao
not HITTING LA.
i no use it n hit her.
i no take n wack her...
i only toss TOSS.
NO USE STRENGTH DE.
as in got la.but not to the extent of trying to hurt her.
having fun ma.
I HAD NO INTENTION TO HURT OR INJURE HER AT ALL.
JUST PLAIN FUN!
TOSS! N I NO AIM ANY VITAL SPOTS.
JUST TOSS TO HER. -
toss? fun?? that's worse.. u trying to insult her right??? i throw it at u u happy or not??Originally posted by bladez87:waa kao waa kao
not HITTING LA.
i no use it n hit her.
i no take n wack her...
i only toss TOSS.
NO USE STRENGTH DE.
as in got la.but not to the extent of trying to hurt her.
having fun ma.
I HAD NO INTENTION TO HURT OR INJURE HER AT ALL.
JUST PLAIN FUN!
TOSS! N I NO AIM ANY VITAL SPOTS.
JUST TOSS TO HER. -
like i said!!!
we were having fun...
the 4 of us were like joking.
den we from warehouse go to office
warehouse joking
den go office they start packing clothes.
den me n the guy fren were like toking n still joking with the other gal la.
den like we were donno toking abt wat.den started tossing hangers ard.den i oso toss to the gal i like bcos i tot she was like kinda left out ma.so we play play n i toss to her...
not meant as insult...haix...so hard to explain... -
Either way, girls hate guys who whine, imagine having a slaughtered pig sleep next to you. So when she said you whine, its a definite honest remark, take to heart.
And back to the hanger, dammit I hate people who take everyday objects and throw it at people, for fun or intentional purposes. Fcuking rude loh. Don't do unto others what you don't want others to do unto you. Repeat after me. -
nth much to say, but all i want to say is learn how to read a person's mood b4 doing anything... u dun wan her to b left out, can sit n chat wif her instead of tossing a hanger at her...
u shd know her character, whether is she a person who can easily take joke... or is she the serious type? well, learn ur mistakes... no 1 able to help u, u have to help urself... -
if i really did whine...
den it was only for one day in like 1mth lor...
i don whine de lor...
tats y i refuse to admit tat i whine lor.
i noe her for like 1mth today
n from wat i noe...
she only seen me "whine" once
n i still don think i whined.i was having fun joking abt everything wat...my other guy n gal fren oso no say i whine...only she said so.
and tat hanger thing.guy throw to me,n throw to the other gal.den we like toss here n there joking.den i saw the gal i like alone there...
bcos the 3 of us are primary skool frenz.the gal i like is not.
so i kinda felt tat she was left out in some ways.so i juz toss to her the hanger ma.to get her involve with the fun we having.no expect her to get so angry.i did try to tok to her.juz wanted her to have fun too ma...so the best way is to get her involve physically...
i noe don do to others wat u don wan others to do to u.but i noe tat we were having fun playing ma.n i don have the intention of harming her...was tossing for fun to get her involved...
y always when i try to do something good...something bad always happen...
give her surprise...surprise backfire
do something good for her...something bad happens...
we working in clothes warehouse...tats y got hanger ma...
n i not whiner!!!I DON WHINE ...a lot...
i don complain when ppl ask me to do things lor.
its juz tat tat day continuous 5hrs with 1hr lunch break la,me n the guy was carrying a lot of cartons.mroe den 50 lor.den i oso stressed.mayb i whined la...but i really don complain when ppl ask me to help them do stuff.she ask me go buy food for her i oso go queue.i oso no complain...say me petty or calculative i nth to say lor.haix... -
If a gal likes you, no matter how many flaws you have, it is just a particle in the air, invisible and tolerable.
If a gal doesn't like you, no matter how many virtures you have, it is just like a sand in the eye, irritating and annoying.
Cheers. -
sometimes...
some flaws can really scare a person...n change the impression the person had of u...
if she were to become my wife...she wld b worried whether when i angry will i hit her anot...
if i feeling down...she will end up the one supporting me n i will b the whiney one.
if i think tat we always joking...our r/s might not b taken serious...
haix...really regret wat i did...
mayb if tat did not happen...we MIGHT me together rite now...haix... -
If I were her, I wouldn't want to get worried all the time about getting hit by you if you're angry.Originally posted by bladez87:sometimes...
some flaws can really scare a person...n change the impression the person had of u...
if she were to become my wife...she wld b worried whether when i angry will i hit her anot...
if i feeling down...she will end up the one supporting me n i will b the whiney one.
if i think tat we always joking...our r/s might not b taken serious...
haix...really regret wat i did...
mayb if tat did not happen...we MIGHT me together rite now...haix...
If I were her, I wouldn't want to be hearing you whining, because I am in love with the guy I have sincere feelings for, not a slaughtered pig. -
* pat pat Bladez87 *
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In life, we are always taking lessons and given tests.
Guess in those situation, you have failed. -
But he has learnt his lesson.Originally posted by Magnus:In life, we are always taking lessons and given tests.
Guess in those situation, you have failed.
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gees lost n donno wat to do...haix...
i oso donno y i posted this...
guess i juz needed an outlet...
thanx guys...
scolding me let me see things in some other angle
i still nid help controlling anger... -
Come out for outing....i'll scold you till you go hospital.
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ok mcsquare...
when outing u inform me...
i go with u all....
let u all scold ba...
hopefully u all oso can teach me on how to treat a gal betta...
haix... -
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Originally posted by M©+square:Come out for outing....i'll scold you till you go hospital.
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You also come out....Originally posted by Devil1976: -
And after you come out from hospital back into sgforums. I will scold you somemore.Originally posted by M©+square:Come out for outing....i'll scold you till you go hospital. 
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Yes. but at what cost?Originally posted by donjng:But he has learnt his lesson.
Three strikes & ya out.
Probably there are more situations that is not being highlighted here.