Pls advice...
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My boyfriend complained that i am too possessive. How do i learnt not to be? Please advice. Thanks.
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find urself something to do... take up a new interest...
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Wah rao, your bf actually complained about you being possessive? Whats wrong with a girl being possessive? Its natural for a girl what. He should be lucky he got a girl like you loh. Other girls couldn't care less about their bfs one.
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x2!!!Originally posted by ditzy:Wah rao, your bf actually complained about you being possessive? Whats wrong with a girl being possessive? Its natural for a girl what. He should be lucky he got a girl like you loh. Other girls couldn't care less about their bfs one.
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think we kinda need abit more details.
the best is to get him to tell u specifically how he FEELS when u do watever it is u do that makes him think this way.
something getting a guy to say how he really feels can be tough tho... -
Hmmmmm my gf also a bit too possessive for my liking
and i told her off - i said no communication for 3 days - today is the 2nd day. so far so good. -
any clues on how he feels that u r too possesive??
wat haf u done to make him feel tat??
u need not telll u wat u did..
juz tink abt it..
if u feel u did it overboard then u should know that u show relac a bit..
if u`re puzzled by how much extent u should do then plz kinldly tell us wat u did?? -
dump him n find some1 who appreciates yr attention....Originally posted by *Twinkle Bell*:My boyfriend complained that i am too possessive. How do i learnt not to be? Please advice. Thanks. -
Maybe you should juz try to give him some space.
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Being possesive is okay I think, but being over possesive is not.. Should give him some space to breathe mah.. You wouldn't like being tied up right?
If u think u're over possesive, let go abit, not all.. Maybe u're relationship will improve..
All da best~
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every person also need some time for himself or friends one mah
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haha, if u my gf den good lor...but ...Originally posted by *Twinkle Bell*:My boyfriend complained that i am too possessive. How do i learnt not to be? Please advice. Thanks. -
men love freedom, but given freedom, they'll start their nonsenses.
never give them all your time in the first place, cause you'll start losing your own life and immerse into his. That's when he finds you possessive. -
r u a cancerian?
anyway though its hard one mus learn to let go. ask yourself why u r being so possessive - insecurity? own happiness? and ask yourself wat will make your bf happy. in the end i suppose tts wat u want rite? -
sekali after 3 days u dun hear from her anymore...Originally posted by loudmonkey:Hmmmmm my gf also a bit too possessive for my liking
and i told her off - i said no communication for 3 days - today is the 2nd day. so far so good.
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good lor...then i can concentrate on my exams....Originally posted by audlenelee:sekali after 3 days u dun hear from her anymore... -
so mean!Originally posted by loudmonkey:good lor...then i can concentrate on my exams.... 
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Men are like that, really.
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Ya lor...actually the gal act easy, we guys more happy..bcoz we wil tink we got a gf with generous character...Originally posted by tizi:Men are like that, really.
if keep asking w r u..wat time u can go off fr work...I very boring.....the guy will feel like his gf is a loser...no one wans to go talk to her or out wif her...who wan a loser gf............so tis is the logic lor... -
Well, in the past, i had the same prob...but the only diff is tht i find myself too possessive, he din complain lah..Originally posted by *Twinkle Bell*:My boyfriend complained that i am too possessive. How do i learnt not to be? Please advice. Thanks.
find something to do, like taking a course, make more new friends, find something u enjoy doing...then will shift focus...
It works for me! -
In what sense?Originally posted by *Twinkle Bell*:My boyfriend complained that i am too possessive. How do i learnt not to be? Please advice. Thanks. -
One of the good ways which might work...Originally posted by *genie*:Well, in the past, i had the same prob...but the only diff is tht i find myself too possessive, he din complain lah..
find something to do, like taking a course, make more new friends, find something u enjoy doing...then will shift focus...
It works for me! -
AgreeOriginally posted by ditzy:Wah rao, your bf actually complained about you being possessive? Whats wrong with a girl being possessive? Its natural for a girl what. He should be lucky he got a girl like you loh. Other girls couldn't care less about their bfs one. -
hmm.. gif sometime to urself... and TRUST ur bf.. let him hav his own free time to do something he like... u can ask him wad he doin lor..Originally posted by *Twinkle Bell*:My boyfriend complained that i am too possessive. How do i learnt not to be? Please advice. Thanks.