wHat wiLL u dO?
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still awake in the middle of the night, nothing to do, so i suddenly pop out a question.
wat will u do if u happened to find urself pregnant and ur bf is abt to breakup with u?
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i wouldnt know..Originally posted by [L]inG_eR:still awake in the middle of the night, nothing to do, so i suddenly pop out a question.
wat will u do if u happened to find urself pregnant and ur bf is abt to breakup with u?
guys out there r welcome to gib me some views too. -
If da girl is not financially stable and cannot support da baby, I think she should abort her baby.. Although it's very cruel to do so.. But that would be da best way out..
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never abort a baby - its a life too and it should have its own rights to live
when u become a mother u will know
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very pain u know or not!!!!!!!!!!!of cos not i abort lah, my 5yrs ex...
if can u ask him to go see you when u in pain...make him guilty lor...
For your information.....if the baby is 4get bout 3+4 months old is not go in operation room hor.....the doc dunno put wat pill into ur there den baby will pop out on the bed u R lying on!!!!!!!!! if u go see those tapes, those in te operation room is when te baby still small,.....not when more den how many months old.... -
agree... btw, baby/fetus = his/her own rights not its own rights...Originally posted by X k:never abort a baby - its a life too and it should have its own rights to live
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So what would you suggest then?Originally posted by X k:never abort a baby - its a life too and it should have its own rights to live
when u become a mother u will know -
be independent....mus be strong....find a job tat allow u to work when u r pregnant n keep the baby....
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Actually abortion is kinda cruel. If you seen abortion tapes before, you think twice. First, they will locate the position of the baby then they insert something through your vagina then the doctor will crush the baby's skull then its body. After crushing, there'll be a machine to suck everything out like a vaccum cleaner.
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be on my own and be a happy single mother.....Originally posted by [L]inG_eR:wat will u do if u happened to find urself pregnant and ur bf is abt to breakup with u? -
I doubt such thing will happen to me...
What will I do? Ask him whether he wants the relationship and tell him about the baby..
If he dun want both..then forget it, bring the child to the world and bring him/her up by myself.. -
tok to her n c whether can give the kid a gd future anot lor, if cannot then better abort...
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I'm pro-choice. Abortion's an option.
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First how old are u 2 first??.. If it's time to get married, then be marry la.. But on the other hand, if he choose to break up if u, or already have the thought of breaking up, then it's no point to keep the baby too.. For mi, i will choose abortion... i know it's very cruel.. but think of it, if u give birth to it.. u are even more cruel to the baby and to yourself. So might as well end it and start afresh. Maybe i am very heartless or coward or whatever, But with all due respect, i really respect those single mothers..
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woah dis case damn serious...Originally posted by [L]inG_eR:still awake in the middle of the night, nothing to do, so i suddenly pop out a question.
wat will u do if u happened to find urself pregnant and ur bf is abt to breakup with u?
guys out there r welcome to gib me some views too.
if im a girl , wait till i confirm i not pregnant den break up lor.. if not jialat lei.. -
if i was a woman...
what's the point of a father if he does not love the mother and child?
i'm catholic.. which means abortion is not an option for me...
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If the girl is still studying and has a great future ahead, i would suggest abortion. It may be a cruel thing but if u keep the baby, how are you going to bring up the kid? The girl can't even support herself. She has to borrow money from her family and friends, and if they refuse to lend, how?? And also, is she able to give up her social life to take care of the baby?? Parenting is for a lifetime... She can't just leave her baby at home, then go out with her friends rite? She might end up detesting the baby for destroying her life.
She might face another problem if she finds a new boyfriend. Not all guys are able to accept a woman with a kid that is not his. How will his parents think of her??
It's really a personal choice. Whether abortion is right or wrong, depends on the individual. Doesn't mean a girl who has had an abortion is a cruel person. It's juz a choice that she has made. -
i think.... if u cant give the child happiness then better abort. BUT if u abort u dunno whether is there a chance for u to give birth again. It is cruel to abort. BUT itz more cruel to see ur dearest suffering when u cant give happiness to the baby. If u wan the baby, ask urself r u ready to be a mother? Can i give the baby happiness? enough to support the baby? n lotsa questions... this is wat akino thinks...
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Think it'll be better to go for an anortion if you've decided not 2 have the baby or are unable to support/care for the baby ... this will better rather than to have the baby and then later abandon it ... this is why u find abandoned infants at void decks, refuse chutes, which is even more cruel dunt u tink...
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In the middle of the night? Cry lor...cry until you are tired then go back to koon. Tomorrow then settle this with him.Originally posted by [L]inG_eR:still awake in the middle of the night, nothing to do, so i suddenly pop out a question.
wat will u do if u happened to find urself pregnant and ur bf is abt to breakup with u?
guys out there r welcome to gib me some views too.
There is this news last week I think...this taiwanese gal climbed out of the flat and threatened to jump off it unless her bf sign the wedding papers and marry her. In the end, her bf signed the wedding papers in front of her and married her. But nobody in sg will try this kind of stunt right?
Okie...if you still love him, then of course make up with him and hopefully live happily ever after. If you don't love him anymore, then go for abortion and remember to keep your dead fetus in a bottle jar and deliver it personally to her parents. Hopefully can give one of them a good scare and plenty of nightmares ahead.
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abortion is cruel.
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i agree. baby got the rights, if the parents are in the wrong, why muz put the baby to the dead endOriginally posted by X k:never abort a baby - its a life too and it should have its own rights to live
when u become a mother u will know 
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same thinking as me!Originally posted by FireIce:be on my own and be a happy single mother.....
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good 1Originally posted by aivlis:If the girl is still studying and has a great future ahead, i would suggest abortion. It may be a cruel thing but if u keep the baby, how are you going to bring up the kid? The girl can't even support herself. She has to borrow money from her family and friends, and if they refuse to lend, how?? And also, is she able to give up her social life to take care of the baby?? Parenting is for a lifetime... She can't just leave her baby at home, then go out with her friends rite? She might end up detesting the baby for destroying her life.
She might face another problem if she finds a new boyfriend. Not all guys are able to accept a woman with a kid that is not his. How will his parents think of her??
It's really a personal choice. Whether abortion is right or wrong, depends on the individual. Doesn't mean a girl who has had an abortion is a cruel person. It's juz a choice that she has made.