Its tis Gd Gd Gal and its Juz ME ( And It Juz Never Ends )
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Wow... Tell BabyBoy he has one more companion cos you sounded like speaking from the bottom of my heart..Originally posted by edwinSSM:BabyBoy, after reading all ur replies, I have to admit i have no idea wat ur friend wants... which explains why u are having such a big headache. Only she knows herself wat she wants...
Regarding vicious cycle, people will just say its u urself whose not trying to move on... But i can fully understand how you are feeling when u said about those happy memories of her coming back to haunt u... I often have those too.
I know its tough to just move on... becos after all these times, I still can't move on too.
U mentioned that u have nv considered another girl, I know why and have been doing the same all these years. The reason is we keep telling ourselves there is no one comes close to her... Am i right? We've virtually given up hope of finding another girl... therefore i suggest we both forget about finding that other girl and instead keep our options open to girls who found us... (Not I haolian hor... just tat I bo pian.)
And one more thing, dun ever try to avoid contact... I try b4, i tried to avoid contact with her for 1 week... and that was one of the worst 1 week i've ever had in my life, the feeling is unimaginable...
So these day i just tok and go out with her as a frend... I know that i won't forget her one lah, so no point putting so much effort trying to forget.
BabyBoy, sorry i can't provide a solution for ur problem. But i'm just trying to let u know that u have someone with the same agony as u, and i believe there are thousands more out there...
Cheers bro
Hope you find someone whom you can love and love you back as much too. -
Originally posted by BaByBoY:exaclty the same feelings
but a lot more sad and happy
i juz came to realised that she`ve actually got a bf already..
i mean i was very very very sad tonite
and yet while i was cycling alone juz now
i felt that i really need to give her my blessing
cuz at least she`s found happiness..
i do sincerly hope that her newfound bf will treat her really well
i believe he will
it breaks my heart to see someone i love in love w some other..
but it also warms my heart that she`s found love and happiness
something that i kow i cannot provide for her..
yet still, i`ve decided to wait for her
if one day she`s ever back.. i`ll stil acccept her for wat she is..
my eternal blessings to her
even when i cannot forget how she still glimmed in my dreams of her
goin out w her feels juz like yesterday
i know this is goin to come when i avoided her
it really came
and i pay dearly for my way..
yet i`ve no regrets
i`m sad and yet happy..
i juz dunno..... why did i fall in love in her in the 1st place
why haf i been made to meet her, yet unable to be w her..
my most sincere blessings to her..
To begin walking a mile, you have to start with your start step - learn to move.
Cheers -
it`s been almost a month,
i still missed her
like it`s juz yest tt i`ve left her..
i hoped she`s been doin well
anyway i`ve been to sch for more than 3 weeks already
but` ive yet to make any new frens
male and female..
none..
perhap`s i`m still missin her... -
well
juz arranged my table
found some pics of her still under my mouse pad..
well
it`s been there for a long long time
time to dump it all away... -
But i'm just trying to let u know that u have someone with the same agony as u, and i believe there are thousands more out there..
aye~!!
oh well.. dats life. maybe we'll get something else back in return eh? maybe.. [/quote] -
virtual hugzzz!!! u're NOT alone... by & by, ever so slowly, memories will fade as time passes by.. juz believe tat u r doing d best thing u know for her & for yourself tho it's painful & it's not easy.. juz move on, walk on, run......Originally posted by BaByBoY:it`s been almost a month,
i still missed her
like it`s juz yest tt i`ve left her..
i hoped she`s been doin well
perhap`s i`m still missin her...
juz wanna add tis.. breathe deeply now & think practically, if she realli realli needs u & wants u from the depths of her heart, u'll know it cuz she'll find ways & try ways to contact u again... if she doesn't & hasn't, then u shouldn't linger ard too... some things r meant to b buried.. cheeeerzz & chillz
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Well
yest again...
her mum called me and asked how`s my life..
unknowlingly i chatted for almost an hour w the 2 of them..
it had brought me nothing but a nitemare yest nite
i dreamed abt her wanting to tell me how her present bf is ill treating her
haha
crazy me..
guess i still cant let her go...
well i can only hope i won regret letting her go.. -
juz wondering.. how long has it been since u let her go.. BBB?Originally posted by BaByBoY:Well
yest again...
her mum called me and asked how`s my life..
unknowlingly i chatted for almost an hour w the 2 of them..
it had brought me nothing but a nitemare yest nite
i dreamed abt her wanting to tell me how her present bf is ill treating her
haha
crazy me..
guess i still cant let her go...
well i can only hope i won regret letting her go.. -
erm...Originally posted by sleepycat:juz wondering.. how long has it been since u let her go.. BBB?
6 mths?
haha
i`ve tt intention since a few yrs ago
but she juz keeps comin back into my life
when she comes back
she`ll melt my heart..
i guess i was juz too involved,,,, too involved.... -
Originally posted by BaByBoY:erm...
6 mths?
haha
i`ve tt intention since a few yrs ago
but she juz keeps comin back into my life
when she comes back
she`ll melt my heart..
i guess i was juz too involved,,,, too involved.... -
time will heal... it takes time... but trust me, it will heal
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nightyoung and u are 2 gd friends
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Wu Yan De Jie ju....
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i know what you mean...
it is hard to get over sumone..
u can't force it..but u have tried watever dat u can...
so now just let time heals you...it does work for me...
and find sumone else who will return your love...i know u have a lot of love to give, but giving to someone who is not receiving can really hurt...and i m sure u dun wan to stay hurt for long...
it is ur life. she doesn't know u r suffering. if u dun wan to suffer anymore, u must take steps to overcome it...
if i can do it, so can u!
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Originally posted by hopy:time will heal... it takes time... but trust me, it will heal
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I remember reading somewhere saying that girls are cruel ... i think otherwise... we are just following our heart... just like you guys...
My advise: forget her and move on in life... if you contiune this way, it will be another 6-7 years... in addition, you might hurt some other girls indirectly. It is always best to remain as just best frens if that's the case...
My own experience: My ex-bf had been in the same situation... he had decided to let go long time ago... however, whenever he sees her, problems occured between us due to his indecisive character... it actually causes us a lot of problems and left a very deep mark between us... we could have been a very happy couple... walking down the asile .....but now... ... ... ...
In life, there is so many couples who wanted to be together but they can't because of family reasons, health reasons , etc ... but now that we are all healthy and no barriers, we broke off not because we do not love each other, it's becuase of some reasons which should not exist in the first place... don't you all think it is so immature? -
Just to add on...
Since there is no reasons for the two of you to be together, why force?
If one day, she turns up at your door and hug and kiss you, then both of you are together, do you think she will be happy? Will both of you last?
Some things are best to be left unsaid... in this way, memories are always beuatiful... -
if U know u'll be goin thru the "cycle" over and over again, u'll have to ask urself if that really wat U want.Originally posted by BaByBoY:erm...
6 mths?
haha
i`ve tt intention since a few yrs ago
but she juz keeps comin back into my life
when she comes back
she`ll melt my heart..
i guess i was juz too involved,,,, too involved....
If the answer is no. I'm sure u'll know what to do. -
Knowing what to do is one thingOriginally posted by xking:if U know u'll be goin thru the "cycle" over and over again, u'll have to ask urself if that really wat U want.
If the answer is no. I'm sure u'll know what to do.
Being able to put it into action is another...