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i liked "if i'm a girl, ur my sucker"
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Aiyah, you'll learn eventually, be it the soft way or hard way. Mistakes will be made and lessons learnt.
On an end note, girls aren't objects that anytime you feel 'attracted', you go out with them, pamper them, talk to them and just pop the question. Girls will never think like guys, they might act like, but they'll never ever think like one.
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goodnight ditz .. thx
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With your condition now. You shouldn't think of getting attracted.Originally posted by beagle:hey tt made sense .. lol ^^
Change your mindset to being a happy single guy.
A happy single guy knows he can live without girls.
That's when guys won't see you as a pussy-chaser.
And girls won't see you as a relationship maniac.
They would also lower their defense system to get close to you.
At your stage now. If you get a gf....she'll most likely going to manipulate you till you've lose all confidence and respect onto yourself. Simply because you're emotionally unstable.
Making decisions and actions/words thru emotions will hurt more when expectations wasn't met.
Continue being a social person and gather friends.
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goodnight M©+square
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in life, you WILL be rejected again and again...
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and making people feel more crap than they already are in AA is fricken irresponsible and idiotic...
responsibility... something sorely lacking in today's youth..
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ya, u still young. Don't get into a relationship so early. Why get stuck to 1 girl. Don't feel discouraged with yr 1st rejection. The girl is also not ready yet that's why she is unsure.
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Well done...
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This is a interesting statement. Care to explain? I may have unconciously fallen into your category...would like to learn too.Originally posted by the Bear:and making people feel more crap than they already are in AA is fricken irresponsible and idiotic...
responsibility... something sorely lacking in today's youth..
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In other words, don't add unneccesary reprimandings... People voicing out their sorrows in AA are usually already upset enough...Originally posted by M©+square:This is a interesting statement. Care to explain? I may have unconciously fallen into your category...would like to learn too. -
well, someone was lamenting her problems and beagle comes out with infantile words like ".. girls suck... i hate them.. oh... you're a girl.. nevermind"...
is it in a feeble attempt to salve his own "wounded spirit"?
if so, what kind of terrible person is he?
if it isn't, what kind of bloody irresponsible and idiotic statement is that??Originally posted by M©+square:This is a interesting statement. Care to explain? I may have unconciously fallen into your category...would like to learn too. -
Originally posted by beagle:although i may have passed the "be urself" and "be confident" stage, yesterday i gt rejected =( .. first time i've felt so bad in such a long time .. haha .. dunnoe leh, u noe those feeling, can't realli describe.
.. nth to say now
I never knew what's the hoo-haa about rejection. If you want to chase someone, always think that rejection is certain - acceptance is a bonus. If you view chase as confidently 'acceptance' - your rejection will hurt you.
You want the person physically or has your love for her goes beyond that?
P.S: To love is not to possess and to possess is not neccessary love. If she is not meant to be, after you did all you can, then so be it.
I know you will be fine soon enough.
Cheers