Originally posted by itroubled:hi biskiti82,
i think u have abt the same problem as mine.(see my topic: overseas relationship) we expect our partnerto spend time with us whenever posssible. but for my case is a bit further. we are married.
i've realised my mistake after i came to uk. i had to learn how to "let go" i guess i "control" my wife much more than u. so i think both of u can still work things out. do not jump into conclusion. if need to know anything.. ask. not demand! trust me.. if both of u still have love for each other. work things out; peacefully. dun be like me.. regreting here alone in uk. imagine what would u do if u were far away too. helpless right? so learn to "let go" now..i see relationship as flying a kite. occasionally letting go to let it fly higher.. happier. both party will enjoy the relationship.
it's good that both of u realised this before it's too late. like for my case. weeping alone without anyone to lean on..
never live to regret. do what u think is good for both.
best of luck. wish u both happiness.