she is pregnant again!!
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hi.. my fren is pregnant again.. last yr she did a abortion for her 1st time.. and now she is planing to do it again with no chioce cos she is only 19. she don wan to start a family so young.. she jus worry that in future will she have baby agina for doing a 2nd abortion?
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suggest things like IUDs and contraception...
she ought to know better... -
why so careless again......
where the guy?!
ask him come fu ze ren lah......
dun keep killing babies........ -
bad, bad, that's bad
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but she is only 19.. she still studying.. she don wan to start a family at this age..
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they why she allow herself to get pregnant in the first place?Originally posted by ericia:but she is only 19.. she still studying.. she don wan to start a family at this age..
u can say accident watever...
but if she wanna fark, then she shd have done all the precautions, esp when she has prior "experience" -
does not mean she cannot protect herself...
getting a condom, or fitting herself with an IUD is heck of a lot better than an abortion isn't it?
basically, this is the 2nd time.. she's just irresponsible... and it's inexcusable...Originally posted by ericia:but she is only 19.. she still studying.. she don wan to start a family at this age.. -
noiw too late to talk abt contraception liao... haiz ...Originally posted by FireIce:they why she allow herself to get pregnant in the first place?
u can say accident watever...
but if she wanna fark, then she shd have done all the precautions, esp when she has prior "experience" -
maybe she should go tell her parents... second time, cannot play play liao... wait next time cannot conceive how...
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.. ya... i reali donno how to help herOriginally posted by sgboy2004:noiw too late to talk abt contraception liao... haiz ... -
no, it isn't too late...
twice... prevent a third time...
methinks, she's just irresponsible...Originally posted by ericia:.. ya... i reali donno how to help her -
serve her rite! Never learn her lesson, even if she infertile next time also deserve it ....
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but she is too young.. and she don wan to upset her family...Originally posted by sgboy2004:maybe she should go tell her parents... second time, cannot play play liao... wait next time cannot conceive how... -
eh......
jus being nosey........u sure is ur fren?
or isit u?
isn't it a bit weird to keep having ppl coming online (newbie somemore) and talk about frens' stuff..............
my fren this, my fren tt..........relli so concerned huh?
from experience....most of these cases are actually themselves.....but use "friend" as shield......
hmm.....jus a tot..... -
u got a pointOriginally posted by FireIce:eh......
jus being nosey........u sure is ur fren?
or isit u?
isn't it a bit weird to keep having ppl coming online (newbie somemore) and talk about frens' stuff..............
my fren this, my fren tt..........relli so concerned huh?
from experience....most of these cases are actually themselves.....but use "friend" as shield......
hmm.....jus a tot.....
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but why u guy just think all is becoz the gal fault!!Originally posted by oh_papillon:serve her rite! Never learn her lesson, even if she infertile next time also deserve it .... -
give her the benefit of doubt
maybe it's is her?
but now, just helping... doesn't matter if it's her, or really her friend
Originally posted by FireIce:eh......
jus being nosey........u sure is ur fren?
or isit u?
isn't it a bit weird to keep having ppl coming online (newbie somemore) and talk about frens' stuff..............
my fren this, my fren tt..........relli so concerned huh?
from experience....most of these cases are actually themselves.....but use "friend" as shield......
hmm.....jus a tot..... -
din i ask about the guy in my first reply?Originally posted by ericia:but why u guy just think all is becoz the gal fault!!
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Originally posted by FireIce:eh......
jus being nosey........u sure is ur fren?
or isit u?
isn't it a bit weird to keep having ppl coming online (newbie somemore) and talk about frens' stuff..............
my fren this, my fren tt..........relli so concerned huh?
from experience....most of these cases are actually themselves.....but use "friend" as shield......
my fren of cos.. she jus beside me.. she intro me to come here to look for help
hmm.....jus a tot..... -
why dun she come herself?
since she can intro to u to here, means she knows of this place or is a registered member here....
such thing why need 3rd party to come and ask? -
yup u is a member here..Originally posted by FireIce:why dun she come herself?
since she can intro to u to here, means she knows of this place or is a registered member here....
such thing why need 3rd party to come and ask?
this kind of feeling, hopeless u wun noe... -
Wah...you so direct and blunt.Originally posted by FireIce:eh......
jus being nosey........u sure is ur fren?
or isit u?
isn't it a bit weird to keep having ppl coming online (newbie somemore) and talk about frens' stuff..............
my fren this, my fren tt..........relli so concerned huh?
from experience....most of these cases are actually themselves.....but use "friend" as shield......
hmm.....jus a tot.....
Yah...I also think so...usually pple paisei to say it is them...then they used frd as an excuse.
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...hai nvm.. its doesnt matter is she or me..
thanks for your guyz help.. -
ericia...I think the best person to answer your friend's worries would be a doctor.
It doesn't means having 2nd abortion will decrease your chances of having a baby later on. It is just a possible that it will...but not definite one. Depends on luck and the skills of the doctor also....some doctors anyhow do it one.
But of course the best is to have a family lor....the bf must be responsible lah. I think this is one good way to see if her bf is really true to her or not. Some bf heard baby and marriage, run away and faster find excuse to break off the relationship. Some responsible one will marry the gal.
Whatever it is, your frd and her bf need to sort it out themselves...nothing you can do anyway. Unless...you are a bit interested in her bf, and you want to help her.
You not angry with her bf for making your frd's stomach big? -
NOT me, NOT mine, NOT my problem HOR.....Originally posted by FireIce:why so careless again......
where the guy?!
ask him come fu ze ren lah......
dun keep killing babies........