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hi all,
would u want a bf that hit u even though he said he was juz too angry?
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y ?
Hmmm.. a bf who hit me?
No way! Guys who hit gals are totally unacceptable for me
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who would want a bf who hit u?Originally posted by kanisa:hi all,
would u want a bf that hit u even though he said he was juz too angry?
actually, i am more interested in what have u done. -
WEN HE'S GOOD..HE IS REALLY GD...BUT WEN HE'S BAD...HE CAN BE LIKE A DEMON..SO NOW I'M CONTEMPLATING WHETHER TO LEAVE HIM...I AM QUITE DEPENDENT...I DUNNO WAT TO DO..I REALLY ENVY GIRLS WHO CAN WALK OUT BRAVELY FROM A FAILED RELATIONSHIP AND LEAD A SINGLE HAPPY LIFE..I FELT SO UPSET WEN HE HIT ME...MY PARENTS DIDN'T EVEN SLAP ME BEFORE...
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Who want a bf who hits ppl even if u enjoy SM
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No point hanging on a pathetic relationship like this.
If he loves you, i don't think he will hit you.
okie have to find out, is it you both quarrel and u got on his nerve that he slap you.
or
he abuse you on a 'regular basis'
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i think it the other way round for your caseOriginally posted by IamAngeline:y ?
Hmmm.. a bf who hit me?
No way! Guys who hit gals are totally unacceptable for me -
leave him lah...u hav Croco here mah
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r u a bf basher??Originally posted by IamAngeline:y ?
Hmmm.. a bf who hit me?
No way! Guys who hit gals are totally unacceptable for me 
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EVERYTIME WE QUARREL BECAUSE OF A CLASH OF IDEAS, HE WILL GET VERY ANGRY AND HURLED ABUSES AT ME..
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ya lor...croco wont hit u, he only bite uOriginally posted by sgboy2004:leave him lah...u hav Croco here mah -
considering the information available here, i think the choice is rather obvious.
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DO i look so violent? (except for my siggy)
In anyway, does he abuse you regularly? -
Protect yourself, leave him!Originally posted by kanisa:EVERYTIME WE QUARREL BECAUSE OF A CLASH OF IDEAS, HE WILL GET VERY ANGRY AND HURLED ABUSES AT ME.. -
Even if he's angry, he shouldn't take it out on you, especially if you are not the cause of his anger.
Hitting a woman is a very un-gentlemanly behaviour, and should never be condoned at all , unless the woman really did something awful to the man 
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As your bf, he should learn to cherish you and spare a thought for your feelings, and not to anyhow vent his anger in your presence. I seriously think you should reconsider this relationship, or at least make your feelings known to your bf (when he's feeling ok
) to talk it over.
Ask yourself this question: Would you really enjoy a relationship if you get scolded and beaten up each time your partner is in a bad mood?
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u so smartOriginally posted by homerun:ya lor...croco wont hit u, he only bite u
*gives homerun a bite*
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thanx for the listening ear, pple...i am trying very hard to get over him now..i juz continue to work and live my life alone...hopefully i wun miss him anymore...once again..thanx...
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1. He gotta change for the better, how to manage his anger, else even if its other girls, it won't have good ending de.Originally posted by kanisa:WEN HE'S GOOD..HE IS REALLY GD...BUT WEN HE'S BAD...HE CAN BE LIKE A DEMON..SO NOW I'M CONTEMPLATING WHETHER TO LEAVE HIM...I AM QUITE DEPENDENT...I DUNNO WAT TO DO..I REALLY ENVY GIRLS WHO CAN WALK OUT BRAVELY FROM A FAILED RELATIONSHIP AND LEAD A SINGLE HAPPY LIFE..I FELT SO UPSET WEN HE HIT ME...MY PARENTS DIDN'T EVEN SLAP ME BEFORE...
2. You can be strong and independent too, anyone can be and should be, just whether you are willing to make that decision, but don't be like some so called independent girls, anyhow say so what and walks out carelessly or pretend to be strong but end up regreting.
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when a man hits a woman, he's very very wrong and ungentlemen.
but for us , ju wai ren to gauge whether he's still someone u love and to carry on love, i guess onli you have the answer.
i dun think he hit you out of nothing. perhaps during a quarrel?
talk to him when it's peaceful enough for you to do so. maybe he has something that is bothering him.
tell him u can no longer endure his violent behaviour.
love is something to be treasure. dun wait til everything is over then regret making the mistake. be fair to yourself, be fair to him. talk with him.
god blessOriginally posted by kanisa:hi all,
would u want a bf that hit u even though he said he was juz too angry? -
[/b]Originally posted by IamAngeline:y ?
Hmmm.. a bf who hit me?
[b]No way! Guys who hit gals are totally unacceptable for me
ya i cant stand guys hit gals i wont accept them as bf
i dun classfied them as guys if they beat gals up no matter wad -
Originally posted by kanisa:WEN HE'S GOOD..HE IS REALLY GD...BUT WEN HE'S BAD...HE CAN BE LIKE A DEMON..SO NOW I'M CONTEMPLATING WHETHER TO LEAVE HIM...I AM QUITE DEPENDENT...I DUNNO WAT TO DO..I REALLY ENVY GIRLS WHO CAN WALK OUT BRAVELY FROM A FAILED RELATIONSHIP AND LEAD A SINGLE HAPPY LIFE..I FELT SO UPSET WEN HE HIT ME...MY PARENTS DIDN'T EVEN SLAP ME BEFORE...
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that kind of boys can go and dieOriginally posted by kanisa:hi all,
would u want a bf that hit u even though he said he was juz too angry? -
ASk your BF to go for Anger Management...
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on how many occasions did he hit u? if he just hit u once, and he is sincerely apologetic and promises he will never do it again, then u can forgive him lor. but if he hits u one many occasions like nobody's business like that, then just tell him he sucks and leave him. and if hes like that, I duno what u mean by when hes good, like that can be good also? and whats the reason he hits u? maybe he got some problems but nowhere to release stres so he takes it out on u, must find out the reason firstOriginally posted by kanisa:WEN HE'S GOOD..HE IS REALLY GD...BUT WEN HE'S BAD...HE CAN BE LIKE A DEMON..SO NOW I'M CONTEMPLATING WHETHER TO LEAVE HIM...I AM QUITE DEPENDENT...I DUNNO WAT TO DO..I REALLY ENVY GIRLS WHO CAN WALK OUT BRAVELY FROM A FAILED RELATIONSHIP AND LEAD A SINGLE HAPPY LIFE..I FELT SO UPSET WEN HE HIT ME...MY PARENTS DIDN'T EVEN SLAP ME BEFORE... -
He seriously has anger management problem. Don't accept this kind of behaviour cos u don't know what he will do next. Saw recently the movie "Rainmaker' abt. an abused wife. She was too scared to leave the husband fearing for her life. In the end, she killed him.